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Every woman has different preferences. You can’t just be taught how to ‘make a woman cum’ you need to build the confidence to be led when necessary, especially with a new partner, but also to have the empathy to read the subtle changes in position, the physically and vocal clues, and the myriad of ways you can use your mouth, lips and tongue to achieve the desired results. Also, to be aware that not every woman can or wants to cum through oral stimulation, that sometimes you have to know when to stop. |
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"It's not rocket science pmsl
Well plenty of guys out there don't have a clue, so it can't be that easy."
Touche 
"Every woman has different preferences. You can’t just be taught how to ‘make a woman cum’ you need to build the confidence to be led when necessary, especially with a new partner, but also to have the empathy to read the subtle changes in position, the physically and vocal clues, and the myriad of ways you can use your mouth, lips and tongue to achieve the desired results. Also, to be aware that not every woman can or wants to cum through oral stimulation, that sometimes you have to know when to stop. "
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"Every woman has different preferences. You can’t just be taught how to ‘make a woman cum’ you need to build the confidence to be led when necessary, especially with a new partner, but also to have the empathy to read the subtle changes in position, the physically and vocal clues, and the myriad of ways you can use your mouth, lips and tongue to achieve the desired results. Also, to be aware that not every woman can or wants to cum through oral stimulation, that sometimes you have to know when to stop. "
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"It's not rocket science pmsl"
But many men are still totally clueless how to do it even with years of experience. Plus every woman is different.
Personally I be too scared to have a virgin licker as I just get tired saying left abit, up abit, slowly, harder, softer etc... But tbh i have to say that to experienced men too  |
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But some men hate being told how to lick properly and it ruins the mood of the sex. Usually I just leave them to it. If they been going on down there too long and nothing happening, I pull them up and do other things. But it's really common some women can never cum through pentration so it be really unfortunate and unfair if the male lover doesn't do fingering or licking well enough to make her cum. I met many men who couldn't make me cum. But when I do, I cum alot.  |
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There isn’t “a way” every woman is different, on some you could be down there 30 seconds and she’s done, others you have to use your mouth, fingers ect, so in fairness you can’t be taught. It’s about the relationship with that person, she will learn how you like it as much as you will her. It’s a very personal experience mate. Find yourself a partner, use the relationship as a blank canvas and build on it, that way you will learn to make her cum like no one else could, a lot of it is psychological. Two Hearts beat as one if you like !
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As others have said, there’s no one way that works for everyone, so one woman can’t teach you how to please everyone. I am a woman but that doesn’t mean I know how give great oral to all women, I only really know what I enjoy, so although I can use that as a starting point I still have to try and adapt to each new partner. |
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"Every woman has different preferences. You can’t just be taught how to ‘make a woman cum’ you need to build the confidence to be led when necessary, especially with a new partner, but also to have the empathy to read the subtle changes in position, the physically and vocal clues, and the myriad of ways you can use your mouth, lips and tongue to achieve the desired results. Also, to be aware that not every woman can or wants to cum through oral stimulation, that sometimes you have to know when to stop. "
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"That seems like a crafty way of finding a lady to go down on
I'm genuinely interested in finding a lady to teach me how to make them orgasm with oral sex. "
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you get an orange, a nice juicy one ... |
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My hubby has a technique he uses on me and I cum every time. Firstly he makes sure my outer parts are wet with lube or saliva then he simply does the alphabet with his tongue softly on my clit , continuing a bit harder a to z , 3rd time round I gush. |
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