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Harder For Young Lions?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ive been on this site for about a week. I message women who I think I match the description around 80%.
I have had some responses but a-lot of them time I find that a lot either don't reply, say I'm to young or not rough enough.
Is this the same for other similar aged straight males on this site???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On and off the site for 3 years on different accounts.
Tried keeping my account brief and also putting lots of detail in.
Same as you I message a lot and put effort into some messages but still get nowhere.
Yet to have a meet with someone or even a conversation with someone that actually wants it.
I've stopped paying for the site too due to the lack of interaction. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ill take that point on board for new pictures haha my point is I think a lot of profiles contradict themselves i.e ‘id like to have a good conversation’ and I don't even get a chance to start one thats one example but i guess this site is a very acquired taste ????????????????????? |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Ill take that point on board for new pictures haha my point is I think a lot of profiles contradict themselves i.e ‘id like to have a good conversation’ and I don't even get a chance to start one thats one example but i guess this site is a very acquired taste ?????????????????????"
They might want to have a good conversation, just not with you.
Just out of curiosity, what did you hear about the site? You could get an easy shag? |
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
middle earth |
After having a look at your profile that may be whats putting people off. Your little "I know I'm above your average good-looking" statement comes across as arrogant. Mr mixtapes doesn't actively look for meets but gets offers all the time because he's just a genuinely nice and respectful young guy. Maybe its your stash or the photos, your photos just really aren't appealing in my opinion. But yeah, if you're here for an easy shag is say good luck, I'd say it's harder to get a quickie here than in other apps. I'd recommend going to a club or smthn |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ill take that point on board for new pictures haha my point is I think a lot of profiles contradict themselves i.e ‘id like to have a good conversation’ and I don't even get a chance to start one thats one example but i guess this site is a very acquired taste ?????????????????????
They might want to have a good conversation, just not with you.
Just out of curiosity, what did you hear about the site? You could get an easy shag?"
Sorry for the late reply well my colleague at work who is female was saying she joined the site because she liked the verified comments, also she has a higher sex drive and into things normal people would classify as dirty or out of the norm so i thought id give it a try. Im a sapiosexual so I'm not init for a quick shag I can get that of tinder or wether spoons... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"After having a look at your profile that may be whats putting people off. Your little "I know I'm above your average good-looking" statement comes across as arrogant. Mr mixtapes doesn't actively look for meets but gets offers all the time because he's just a genuinely nice and respectful young guy. Maybe its your stash or the photos, your photos just really aren't appealing in my opinion. But yeah, if you're here for an easy shag is say good luck, I'd say it's harder to get a quickie here than in other apps. I'd recommend going to a club or smthn "
Again not after a quickie where in any of my profile or comments does it say I'm after a quickie.... in regards to the ‘arrogant’ bit...... sorry but i have learnt to love myself.... thanks for the feedback though much appreciated its good to get an insight into other peoples perception and thinking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've only bern here a week for goodness sake.
What exactly were your expectations of this site?
That you could knock up a quick profile, upload a couple of pics and be overwhelmed by offers of sex by lunchtime?
Instashag this is not.
Single men outnumber women and couples by around 100 to one.
Most single men wait around six months to get their first meet.
Some fair better, but most don't.
And while we're at it, check out the site FAQ's regarding non-responses.
No one owes you a reply.
I presume you don't get in touch with all the takeaways that drop their menus through your door just to tell them you're not interested.
This site requires patience.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You've only bern here a week for goodness sake.
What exactly were your expectations of this site?
That you could knock up a quick profile, upload a couple of pics and be overwhelmed by offers of sex by lunchtime?
Instashag this is not.
Single men outnumber women and couples by around 100 to one.
Most single men wait around six months to get their first meet.
Some fair better, but most don't.
And while we're at it, check out the site FAQ's regarding non-responses.
No one owes you a reply.
I presume you don't get in touch with all the takeaways that drop their menus through your door just to tell them you're not interested.
This site requires patience.
Sorry your not a ‘young lion’ your much older so your experiences may differ! This thread doesn't apply to you. Ive already spoken to a cougar on here and she told me it was much harder for men of my age hence the question. I wanted to see if other guys had the same experiences or thoughts
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've only bern here a week for goodness sake.
What exactly were your expectations of this site?
That you could knock up a quick profile, upload a couple of pics and be overwhelmed by offers of sex by lunchtime?
Instashag this is not.
Single men outnumber women and couples by around 100 to one.
Most single men wait around six months to get their first meet.
Some fair better, but most don't.
And while we're at it, check out the site FAQ's regarding non-responses.
No one owes you a reply.
I presume you don't get in touch with all the takeaways that drop their menus through your door just to tell them you're not interested.
This site requires patience.
Sorry your not a ‘young lion’ your much older so your experiences may differ! This thread doesn't apply to you. Ive already spoken to a cougar on here and she told me it was much harder for men of my age hence the question. I wanted to see if other guys had the same experiences or thoughts
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It can be even tougher for younger men, from what I understand, as there are a lot of women who might have children around your age and, for them, that's just a 'no go' area.
Also consdier that this is an open forum and so anyone is free to comment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You've only bern here a week for goodness sake.
What exactly were your expectations of this site?
That you could knock up a quick profile, upload a couple of pics and be overwhelmed by offers of sex by lunchtime?
Instashag this is not.
Single men outnumber women and couples by around 100 to one.
Most single men wait around six months to get their first meet.
Some fair better, but most don't.
And while we're at it, check out the site FAQ's regarding non-responses.
No one owes you a reply.
I presume you don't get in touch with all the takeaways that drop their menus through your door just to tell them you're not interested.
This site requires patience.
Sorry your not a ‘young lion’ your much older so your experiences may differ! This thread doesn't apply to you. Ive already spoken to a cougar on here and she told me it was much harder for men of my age hence the question. I wanted to see if other guys had the same experiences or thoughts
It can be even tougher for younger men, from what I understand, as there are a lot of women who might have children around your age and, for them, that's just a 'no go' area.
Also consdier that this is an open forum and so anyone is free to comment."
Yes I appreciate your insight thanks for the heads up happy fabbing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are 3 types of swingers.......
1 - People who are new and want to experience everything swinging has to offer...
2 - People who have been swinging for awhile , , tried everything and know exactly what they want...
3 - People who live swinging as a lifestyle...
Find out which type of swinger you’re, then tailor your profile to attract other swingers in your category......
I will give you a bit of advice.... beware of some single women.... SOME single women are actively looking for a swinging relationship.. If you’re not looking for a swinging relationship, please don’t tell these women you’re , just to have sex with them... it never ends well.....
But visit a few clubs , go to a few socials, and you will be fine...
Happy Fabbing
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"There are 3 types of swingers.......
1 - People who are new and want to experience everything swinging has to offer...
2 - People who have been swinging for awhile , , tried everything and know exactly what they want...
3 - People who live swinging as a lifestyle...
Find out which type of swinger you’re, then tailor your profile to attract other swingers in your category......
I will give you a bit of advice.... beware of some single women.... SOME single women are actively looking for a swinging relationship.. If you’re not looking for a swinging relationship, please don’t tell these women you’re , just to have sex with them... it never ends well.....
But visit a few clubs , go to a few socials, and you will be fine...
Happy Fabbing
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Love your comment about the 3 types RBC!! That should be a thread of its own |
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"Ill take that point on board for new pictures haha my point is I think a lot of profiles contradict themselves i.e ‘id like to have a good conversation’ and I don't even get a chance to start one thats one example but i guess this site is a very acquired taste ?????????????????????
They might want to have a good conversation, just not with you.
Just out of curiosity, what did you hear about the site? You could get an easy shag?
Sorry for the late reply well my colleague at work who is female was saying she joined the site because she liked the verified comments, also she has a higher sex drive and into things normal people would classify as dirty or out of the norm so i thought id give it a try. Im a sapiosexual so I'm not init for a quick shag I can get that of tinder or wether spoons... "
She’s a woman. Her experience on here will be VASTLY different to yours! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ill take that point on board for new pictures haha my point is I think a lot of profiles contradict themselves i.e ‘id like to have a good conversation’ and I don't even get a chance to start one thats one example but i guess this site is a very acquired taste ?????????????????????
They might want to have a good conversation, just not with you.
Just out of curiosity, what did you hear about the site? You could get an easy shag?
Sorry for the late reply well my colleague at work who is female was saying she joined the site because she liked the verified comments, also she has a higher sex drive and into things normal people would classify as dirty or out of the norm so i thought id give it a try. Im a sapiosexual so I'm not init for a quick shag I can get that of tinder or wether spoons...
She’s a woman. Her experience on here will be VASTLY different to yours!"
Totally agreed ill guess ill just be waiting patiently |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are 3 types of swingers.......
1 - People who are new and want to experience everything swinging has to offer...
2 - People who have been swinging for awhile , , tried everything and know exactly what they want...
3 - People who live swinging as a lifestyle...
Find out which type of swinger you’re, then tailor your profile to attract other swingers in your category......
I will give you a bit of advice.... beware of some single women.... SOME single women are actively looking for a swinging relationship.. If you’re not looking for a swinging relationship, please don’t tell these women you’re , just to have sex with them... it never ends well.....
But visit a few clubs , go to a few socials, and you will be fine...
Happy Fabbing
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Thanks so much for your input and not grilling me based on my looks or profile... makes sense what you commented ill take your advice into account |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just so you know... You can set your message filters so that men and TVs can't message you. Declaring your disinterest and telling them not to message you will not only put people off but they won't take any notice. As long as they CAN message you they will. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello, OP, and welcome to the crazy world of Fab. As you've already been told in some previous comments, it's not instashag site, and as a man, your site experience will be very different from your colleague at work.
A tip from me: a lot of people on here can't be bothered to read a profile, even if it's short. If you don't want messages from a particular group, just block them using the filters. You can do that for age, too, if you only want certain age range to message you.
And if you're seriously interested about making it in the swingers world, you need to get yourself known. Organised socials and clubs are the best places, as you can meet many like-minded people there, mingle, let your personality come through.
Good luck and happy Fabbing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hello, OP, and welcome to the crazy world of Fab. As you've already been told in some previous comments, it's not instashag site, and as a man, your site experience will be very different from your colleague at work.
A tip from me: a lot of people on here can't be bothered to read a profile, even if it's short. If you don't want messages from a particular group, just block them using the filters. You can do that for age, too, if you only want certain age range to message you.
And if you're seriously interested about making it in the swingers world, you need to get yourself known. Organised socials and clubs are the best places, as you can meet many like-minded people there, mingle, let your personality come through.
Good luck and happy Fabbing. "
Yes although i think if i went to party or clubs or social events id feel more comfortable going as a couple and then exploring.... i do read all profiles and only message the ones i feel i can relate to. Thanks for the tips happy fabbing |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire |
"Ive been on this site for about a week. I message women who I think I match the description around 80%.
I have had some responses but a-lot of them time I find that a lot either don't reply, say I'm to young or not rough enough.
Is this the same for other similar aged straight males on this site???
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Calling yourself a young lion won't help |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
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One thing that's not been mentioned I thought I'd mention. You've ticked every interest and not set you age limits. Would you really meet a 99 year old? Set the age limits and tick only those things which interested you. Shows a bit of effort.
It's not an awful profile by any means. Wed probably chat to you if you were in our area because you seem funny and capable of conversation. Just be aware of coming across as too cocky. Fab isn't tinder it takes work. Even we as a well verified couple struggle at times |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"One thing that's not been mentioned I thought I'd mention. You've ticked every interest and not set you age limits. Would you really meet a 99 year old? Set the age limits and tick only those things which interested you. Shows a bit of effort.
It's not an awful profile by any means. Wed probably chat to you if you were in our area because you seem funny and capable of conversation. Just be aware of coming across as too cocky. Fab isn't tinder it takes work. Even we as a well verified couple struggle at times "
Cool I mean I'm trying to pick everyones brain here so I can give this site a good chance and do the right things before giving it a verdict or calling it a day. I take all constructive criticism as a good thing as you need to be able to acknowledge other peoples perspectives and how they view things thanks a lot for taking time and helping out  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not rough enough ? I didn't realise most women on here are looking for rough men. "
Yes I am also very confused about them comments doesn't make sense maybe there just talking about hairy old greasy guys.......? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you look great...may have to drag you to a club. 
Ooo thanks for the compliment feel free to hit me up I'm open to all females  "
I'd be wanting to be greedy lol...mmf |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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You haven't been here very long, it takes a lot of time and effort the place this site is just a tool in a swingers tool it, you need to add other things to like attending clubs and socials etc that will get you out there, verified and meeting people who are part of this community. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you look great...may have to drag you to a club.
Ooo thanks for the compliment feel free to hit me up I'm open to all females
I'd be wanting to be greedy lol...mmf"
Loool im opened minded lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You haven't been here very long, it takes a lot of time and effort the place this site is just a tool in a swingers tool it, you need to add other things to like attending clubs and socials etc that will get you out there, verified and meeting people who are part of this community."
Yes but i need to go with company or atleast a girl to these events |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally i didn't get past your first face pic. I would say that you're not being honest when it comes to your age."
Really you think I'm younger or older I normally get that I look a lot younger all the time on the street and at work. I mean i can provide ID people hahah its not a problem latinos tend to age well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just so you know... You can set your message filters so that men and TVs can't message you. Declaring your disinterest and telling them not to message you will not only put people off but they won't take any notice. As long as they CAN message you they will. "
Sorry but since ive put that on ive got less messages so i think ill leave that there thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You haven't been here very long, it takes a lot of time and effort the place this site is just a tool in a swingers tool it, you need to add other things to like attending clubs and socials etc that will get you out there, verified and meeting people who are part of this community.
Yes but i need to go with company or atleast a girl to these events"
No you don't. You never know until you try x |
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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago
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"You haven't been here very long, it takes a lot of time and effort the place this site is just a tool in a swingers tool it, you need to add other things to like attending clubs and socials etc that will get you out there, verified and meeting people who are part of this community.
Yes but i need to go with company or atleast a girl to these events"
Why do you need to go with woman? Can't you go on your own? Just out of interest?. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A week is nothing on here. It does take time. Get to clubs and socials. Partake in the forums and or chat and have patience  "
Yes im quite enjoying the forums and chats |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You haven't been here very long, it takes a lot of time and effort the place this site is just a tool in a swingers tool it, you need to add other things to like attending clubs and socials etc that will get you out there, verified and meeting people who are part of this community.
Yes but i need to go with company or atleast a girl to these events
Why do you need to go with woman? Can't you go on your own? Just out of interest?. "
Id feel more comfortable going with someone thats all  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You haven't been here very long, it takes a lot of time and effort the place this site is just a tool in a swingers tool it, you need to add other things to like attending clubs and socials etc that will get you out there, verified and meeting people who are part of this community.
Yes but i need to go with company or atleast a girl to these events
No you don't. You never know until you try x"
Take me then ahha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally i didn't get past your first face pic. I would say that you're not being honest when it comes to your age.
Really you think I'm younger or older I normally get that I look a lot younger all the time on the street and at work. I mean i can provide ID people hahah its not a problem latinos tend to age well "
Looking younger will be great for you in 10 years or so |
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So, I saw this thread and then noticed after reading the thread that you had messaged me a week ago. Not going to lie, I probably lost your message in my inbox but if I'm honest I'm not a fan of moustaches but you see like you're willing to learn more about this which I have yo give you credit for. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally i didn't get past your first face pic. I would say that you're not being honest when it comes to your age.
Really you think I'm younger or older I normally get that I look a lot younger all the time on the street and at work. I mean i can provide ID people hahah its not a problem latinos tend to age well
Looking younger will be great for you in 10 years or so"
Ye i mean I cant do nothing about having good collagen.... if you want i can privately message you a picture of my ID if it puts you more at ease then you can spread the word out.... Deal?! Haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So, I saw this thread and then noticed after reading the thread that you had messaged me a week ago. Not going to lie, I probably lost your message in my inbox but if I'm honest I'm not a fan of moustaches but you see like you're willing to learn more about this which I have yo give you credit for. "
Yes as mentioned before Ive heard a lot of stories about guys being salty when they don't get a response they like, wether it be no reply or no thanks. Thats totally not me if i gt a response I don't like ill just say no problem happy fabbing and move on! Nothing worst than beggars who don't take NO for an answer |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"You haven't been here very long, it takes a lot of time and effort the place this site is just a tool in a swingers tool it, you need to add other things to like attending clubs and socials etc that will get you out there, verified and meeting people who are part of this community.
Yes but i need to go with company or atleast a girl to these events
Why do you need to go with woman? Can't you go on your own? Just out of interest?.
Id feel more comfortable going with someone thats all "
If you go with someone you don't know that means you have to spend time with someone you might not get along with, and could potentially would make it awkward for you to meet lots of different people and have lots of different conversations.
If you go by yourself your time is your own.
I wouldn't dream of going to a club with somebody I didn't know really well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You haven't been here very long, it takes a lot of time and effort the place this site is just a tool in a swingers tool it, you need to add other things to like attending clubs and socials etc that will get you out there, verified and meeting people who are part of this community.
Yes but i need to go with company or atleast a girl to these events
Why do you need to go with woman? Can't you go on your own? Just out of interest?.
Id feel more comfortable going with someone thats all
If you go with someone you don't know that means you have to spend time with someone you might not get along with, and could potentially would make it awkward for you to meet lots of different people and have lots of different conversations.
If you go by yourself your time is your own.
I wouldn't dream of going to a club with somebody I didn't know really well"
Aahah thats understandable however Im a free spirit...... I learnt to master the art of ditching people I go with to social events appearing with new friends and joining up both teams.... I was hoping for a similar kind of thing in the swinging world  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"You haven't been here very long, it takes a lot of time and effort the place this site is just a tool in a swingers tool it, you need to add other things to like attending clubs and socials etc that will get you out there, verified and meeting people who are part of this community.
Yes but i need to go with company or atleast a girl to these events
Why do you need to go with woman? Can't you go on your own? Just out of interest?.
Id feel more comfortable going with someone thats all
If you go with someone you don't know that means you have to spend time with someone you might not get along with, and could potentially would make it awkward for you to meet lots of different people and have lots of different conversations.
If you go by yourself your time is your own.
I wouldn't dream of going to a club with somebody I didn't know really well
Aahah thats understandable however Im a free spirit...... I learnt to master the art of ditching people I go with to social events appearing with new friends and joining up both teams.... I was hoping for a similar kind of thing in the swinging world "
So you want to ditch who you go with, find new people and hope they all get on? Good luck with that. |
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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"You haven't been here very long, it takes a lot of time and effort the place this site is just a tool in a swingers tool it, you need to add other things to like attending clubs and socials etc that will get you out there, verified and meeting people who are part of this community.
Yes but i need to go with company or atleast a girl to these events
Why do you need to go with woman? Can't you go on your own? Just out of interest?.
Id feel more comfortable going with someone thats all
If you go with someone you don't know that means you have to spend time with someone you might not get along with, and could potentially would make it awkward for you to meet lots of different people and have lots of different conversations.
If you go by yourself your time is your own.
I wouldn't dream of going to a club with somebody I didn't know really well
Aahah thats understandable however Im a free spirit...... I learnt to master the art of ditching people I go with to social events appearing with new friends and joining up both teams.... I was hoping for a similar kind of thing in the swinging world "
The art of ditching people..  This is the reason I don't go to clubs with people as I'm not a safety net for a man trying to get a shag at a club. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You haven't been here very long, it takes a lot of time and effort the place this site is just a tool in a swingers tool it, you need to add other things to like attending clubs and socials etc that will get you out there, verified and meeting people who are part of this community.
Yes but i need to go with company or atleast a girl to these events
Why do you need to go with woman? Can't you go on your own? Just out of interest?.
Id feel more comfortable going with someone thats all
If you go with someone you don't know that means you have to spend time with someone you might not get along with, and could potentially would make it awkward for you to meet lots of different people and have lots of different conversations.
If you go by yourself your time is your own.
I wouldn't dream of going to a club with somebody I didn't know really well
Aahah thats understandable however Im a free spirit...... I learnt to master the art of ditching people I go with to social events appearing with new friends and joining up both teams.... I was hoping for a similar kind of thing in the swinging world
The art of ditching people.. This is the reason I don't go to clubs with people as I'm not a safety net for a man trying to get a shag at a club. "
Not as in literally ditching just networking I assume if you go as a couple your willing to experiment with others and lose yourself in the moment not babysit someone?  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"You haven't been here very long, it takes a lot of time and effort the place this site is just a tool in a swingers tool it, you need to add other things to like attending clubs and socials etc that will get you out there, verified and meeting people who are part of this community.
Yes but i need to go with company or atleast a girl to these events
Why do you need to go with woman? Can't you go on your own? Just out of interest?.
Id feel more comfortable going with someone thats all
If you go with someone you don't know that means you have to spend time with someone you might not get along with, and could potentially would make it awkward for you to meet lots of different people and have lots of different conversations.
If you go by yourself your time is your own.
I wouldn't dream of going to a club with somebody I didn't know really well
Aahah thats understandable however Im a free spirit...... I learnt to master the art of ditching people I go with to social events appearing with new friends and joining up both teams.... I was hoping for a similar kind of thing in the swinging world
The art of ditching people.. This is the reason I don't go to clubs with people as I'm not a safety net for a man trying to get a shag at a club.
Not as in literally ditching just networking I assume if you go as a couple your willing to experiment with others and lose yourself in the moment not babysit someone? "
If you go as a couple you're expected to act/stay as a couple, not go roaming around looking for other people. |
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"You haven't been here very long, it takes a lot of time and effort the place this site is just a tool in a swingers tool it, you need to add other things to like attending clubs and socials etc that will get you out there, verified and meeting people who are part of this community.
Yes but i need to go with company or atleast a girl to these events
Why do you need to go with woman? Can't you go on your own? Just out of interest?.
Id feel more comfortable going with someone thats all
If you go with someone you don't know that means you have to spend time with someone you might not get along with, and could potentially would make it awkward for you to meet lots of different people and have lots of different conversations.
If you go by yourself your time is your own.
I wouldn't dream of going to a club with somebody I didn't know really well
Aahah thats understandable however Im a free spirit...... I learnt to master the art of ditching people I go with to social events appearing with new friends and joining up both teams.... I was hoping for a similar kind of thing in the swinging world
The art of ditching people.. This is the reason I don't go to clubs with people as I'm not a safety net for a man trying to get a shag at a club.
Not as in literally ditching just networking I assume if you go as a couple your willing to experiment with others and lose yourself in the moment not babysit someone?
If you go as a couple you're expected to act/stay as a couple, not go roaming around looking for other people. "
Oooooo this is something I did not know... this why forums are so good never knew that thanks for the eye opener |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"You haven't been here very long, it takes a lot of time and effort the place this site is just a tool in a swingers tool it, you need to add other things to like attending clubs and socials etc that will get you out there, verified and meeting people who are part of this community.
Yes but i need to go with company or atleast a girl to these events
Why do you need to go with woman? Can't you go on your own? Just out of interest?.
Id feel more comfortable going with someone thats all
If you go with someone you don't know that means you have to spend time with someone you might not get along with, and could potentially would make it awkward for you to meet lots of different people and have lots of different conversations.
If you go by yourself your time is your own.
I wouldn't dream of going to a club with somebody I didn't know really well
Aahah thats understandable however Im a free spirit...... I learnt to master the art of ditching people I go with to social events appearing with new friends and joining up both teams.... I was hoping for a similar kind of thing in the swinging world
The art of ditching people.. This is the reason I don't go to clubs with people as I'm not a safety net for a man trying to get a shag at a club.
Not as in literally ditching just networking I assume if you go as a couple your willing to experiment with others and lose yourself in the moment not babysit someone?
If you go as a couple you're expected to act/stay as a couple, not go roaming around looking for other people.
Oooooo this is something I did not know... this why forums are so good never knew that thanks for the eye opener "
Of course you have to act and stay as a couple, otherwise you should pay two single entrance fees. |
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over a year ago
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"You're allowed to play with others but not wander around as a single. "
Ooo okay might well have to buy me a leash to keep me from wandering lol haha |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"I dont think if you go to a club as a couple you have to stay together. I certainly don't but it as with anything you have to communicate..
Personally most clubs I like to go to by myself x"
I didn't mean glued to each other but you can't go in as a couple and act like 2 singles, it's very much frowned upon. |
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over a year ago
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"I dont think if you go to a club as a couple you have to stay together. I certainly don't but it as with anything you have to communicate..
Personally most clubs I like to go to by myself x"
We must be alike lol but I would agree with you it must be about communicating and what sort of couple you are |
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"The art of ditching people.. This is the reason I don't go to clubs with people as I'm not a safety net for a man trying to get a shag at a club. "
or be a ticket for reduced price entry in a lot of clubs- as couples are charged less than single guys .
Why don't you arrange to meet someone IN the club, OP? That way, you're keeping your options open.
If I arrange to go to a club with someone, I stick with them unless we agreed that we were both comfortable exploring on our own and then meet up at some point before leaving. But if I was left in a situation when, without prior agreement, the person I came with just left me on my own, I would not appreciate it. It has happened to me in the past, spoiled the night for me. So communication is key. |
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"One thing that's not been mentioned I thought I'd mention. You've ticked every interest and not set you age limits. Would you really meet a 99 year old? Set the age limits and tick only those things which interested you. Shows a bit of effort.
It's not an awful profile by any means. Wed probably chat to you if you were in our area because you seem funny and capable of conversation. Just be aware of coming across as too cocky. Fab isn't tinder it takes work. Even we as a well verified couple struggle at times "
I’ve seen several profiles on here with their age set at 99 who are actually much younger. Probably done it for a reason, but they wouldn’t normally come up on searches. |
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"The art of ditching people.. This is the reason I don't go to clubs with people as I'm not a safety net for a man trying to get a shag at a club. or be a ticket for reduced price entry in a lot of clubs- as couples are charged less than single guys .
Why don't you arrange to meet someone IN the club, OP? That way, you're keeping your options open.
If I arrange to go to a club with someone, I stick with them unless we agreed that we were both comfortable exploring on our own and then meet up at some point before leaving. But if I was left in a situation when, without prior agreement, the person I came with just left me on my own, I would not appreciate it. It has happened to me in the past, spoiled the night for me. So communication is key. "
Yeh that sounds messed up totally wrong and uncalled for |
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"One thing that's not been mentioned I thought I'd mention. You've ticked every interest and not set you age limits. Would you really meet a 99 year old? Set the age limits and tick only those things which interested you. Shows a bit of effort.
It's not an awful profile by any means. Wed probably chat to you if you were in our area because you seem funny and capable of conversation. Just be aware of coming across as too cocky. Fab isn't tinder it takes work. Even we as a well verified couple struggle at times
I’ve seen several profiles on here with their age set at 99 who are actually much younger. Probably done it for a reason, but they wouldn’t normally come up on searches."
No idea why you would want to be 99 |
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over a year ago
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"To hide ie don’t come up on most searches or to stop people messaging them, by setting filters. Just another tool they can use."
Sounds pointless. I want people to find me and message me  |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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For me my advice if you don’t mind is go to a social or two and get know. This is insta shag and think about logical hit a couple or single female doenst know you it’s unlikely they will meet you in a hotel to fuck.
Not saying it doesn’t happen just unusual and you would have to be exactly what they are looking for
I tend to get to know people from club scene. Even with a certain friend I finally played on Saturday after 18 months of knowing her. Still didn’t fuck but sometimes it’s right place right time
Some people can be fussy for example they may want a certain guy to fulfil a fantasy or certain type of guy. They may play with you in the future |
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"For me my advice if you don’t mind is go to a social or two and get know. This is insta shag and think about logical hit a couple or single female doenst know you it’s unlikely they will meet you in a hotel to fuck.
Not saying it doesn’t happen just unusual and you would have to be exactly what they are looking for
I tend to get to know people from club scene. Even with a certain friend I finally played on Saturday after 18 months of knowing her. Still didn’t fuck but sometimes it’s right place right time
Some people can be fussy for example they may want a certain guy to fulfil a fantasy or certain type of guy. They may play with you in the future "
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I been here for months with no real success. It's just luck to find someone you click with. Most women get inundated with meaningless messages. So if you really like a profile, stand out from the crowd with your sincere words and just accept that person doesn't find your profile attractive enough to want to reply. Try sex clubs if you're looking for action and help you get verified. Your profile needs to be more approachable. Your profile looks like you're abit shady to me. Good luck fabbing |
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"I been here for months with no real success. It's just luck to find someone you click with. Most women get inundated with meaningless messages. So if you really like a profile, stand out from the crowd with your sincere words and just accept that person doesn't find your profile attractive enough to want to reply. Try sex clubs if you're looking for action and help you get verified. Your profile needs to be more approachable. Your profile looks like you're abit shady to me. Good luck fabbing "
Shady how? |
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"I been here for months with no real success. It's just luck to find someone you click with. Most women get inundated with meaningless messages. So if you really like a profile, stand out from the crowd with your sincere words and just accept that person doesn't find your profile attractive enough to want to reply. Try sex clubs if you're looking for action and help you get verified. Your profile needs to be more approachable. Your profile looks like you're abit shady to me. Good luck fabbing
Shady how? "
The touching the eye thing is one. It’s like when they try decipher wether Beyoncé and lady Gaga are sending out messages for the illuminati |
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"I been here for months with no real success. It's just luck to find someone you click with. Most women get inundated with meaningless messages. So if you really like a profile, stand out from the crowd with your sincere words and just accept that person doesn't find your profile attractive enough to want to reply. Try sex clubs if you're looking for action and help you get verified. Your profile needs to be more approachable. Your profile looks like you're abit shady to me. Good luck fabbing
Shady how?
The touching the eye thing is one. It’s like when they try decipher wether Beyoncé and lady Gaga are sending out messages for the illuminati "
I was just being artistic and creative. Not into taking your usual standard poses. Thanks for the feedback guys its much appreciated |
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No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you |
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"No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you "
What does a nose pierced and hairstyles have anything to do with being gay? I think your stuck in the olden times fella. Only someone uncomfortable with their sexuality would think like that #getwithit |
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"No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you
What does a nose pierced and hairstyles have anything to do with being gay? I think your stuck in the olden times fella. Only someone uncomfortable with their sexuality would think like that #getwithit"
I suppose as a raving gayer he’s allowed to say it as he sees it.
I like your profile though OP! I think it has your personality in it and that’s good that that shines through. |
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"No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you
What does a nose pierced and hairstyles have anything to do with being gay? I think your stuck in the olden times fella. Only someone uncomfortable with their sexuality would think like that #getwithit
I suppose as a raving gayer he’s allowed to say it as he sees it.
I like your profile though OP! I think it has your personality in it and that’s good that that shines through. "
I mean ill take it as a compliment i suppose.
Thanks also for the feedback on the profile Im slowly adding more content and things in bio to make it as detailed as possiblex
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"No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you
What does a nose pierced and hairstyles have anything to do with being gay? I think your stuck in the olden times fella. Only someone uncomfortable with their sexuality would think like that #getwithit
I suppose as a raving gayer he’s allowed to say it as he sees it.
I like your profile though OP! I think it has your personality in it and that’s good that that shines through. "
Raving gayer Genuinely made me lol |
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"No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you
What does a nose pierced and hairstyles have anything to do with being gay? I think your stuck in the olden times fella. Only someone uncomfortable with their sexuality would think like that #getwithit"
I am referring to gay stereotypes and you look one, just being honest and helping you out saying so. Not trying to wind you up. It will explain why some gays are messaaging, although I would never go for that look on a bloke other gays like it |
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"No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you
What does a nose pierced and hairstyles have anything to do with being gay? I think your stuck in the olden times fella. Only someone uncomfortable with their sexuality would think like that #getwithit
I suppose as a raving gayer he’s allowed to say it as he sees it.
I like your profile though OP! I think it has your personality in it and that’s good that that shines through.
Raving gayer Genuinely made me lol"
I am a raving gayer, I suck dick and smash bums and everything |
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"No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you
What does a nose pierced and hairstyles have anything to do with being gay? I think your stuck in the olden times fella. Only someone uncomfortable with their sexuality would think like that #getwithit
I suppose as a raving gayer he’s allowed to say it as he sees it.
I like your profile though OP! I think it has your personality in it and that’s good that that shines through.
Raving gayer Genuinely made me lol
I am a raving gayer, I suck dick and smash bums and everything "
They gayest that gay can be!
And hot with it! Haha! Shame for me! |
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"No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you
What does a nose pierced and hairstyles have anything to do with being gay? I think your stuck in the olden times fella. Only someone uncomfortable with their sexuality would think like that #getwithit
I am referring to gay stereotypes and you look one, just being honest and helping you out saying so. Not trying to wind you up. It will explain why some gays are messaaging, although I would never go for that look on a bloke other gays like it "
Fair point ill take on the compliment lol |
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"No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you
What does a nose pierced and hairstyles have anything to do with being gay? I think your stuck in the olden times fella. Only someone uncomfortable with their sexuality would think like that #getwithit
I suppose as a raving gayer he’s allowed to say it as he sees it.
I like your profile though OP! I think it has your personality in it and that’s good that that shines through.
Raving gayer Genuinely made me lol
I am a raving gayer, I suck dick and smash bums and everything
They gayest that gay can be!
And hot with it! Haha! Shame for me! "
I know. I’m sat here cursing my vagina haha |
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"No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you
What does a nose pierced and hairstyles have anything to do with being gay? I think your stuck in the olden times fella. Only someone uncomfortable with their sexuality would think like that #getwithit
I suppose as a raving gayer he’s allowed to say it as he sees it.
I like your profile though OP! I think it has your personality in it and that’s good that that shines through.
Raving gayer Genuinely made me lol
I am a raving gayer, I suck dick and smash bums and everything
They gayest that gay can be!
And hot with it! Haha! Shame for me! "
Haha well I go through cycles of bicuriosity, that is why I originally joined Fab. I took bicurious off stats though as sad gay/ bi men were fetishising me thinking I was a curious straight man, their beggy messages wore me down |
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"No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you
What does a nose pierced and hairstyles have anything to do with being gay? I think your stuck in the olden times fella. Only someone uncomfortable with their sexuality would think like that #getwithit
I suppose as a raving gayer he’s allowed to say it as he sees it.
I like your profile though OP! I think it has your personality in it and that’s good that that shines through.
Raving gayer Genuinely made me lol
I am a raving gayer, I suck dick and smash bums and everything
They gayest that gay can be!
And hot with it! Haha! Shame for me!
I know. I’m sat here cursing my vagina haha"
If you can’t turn him there’s no hope for the rest of us! Maybe a really convincing strap on?! Might not notice! Ha! Xx |
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"No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you
What does a nose pierced and hairstyles have anything to do with being gay? I think your stuck in the olden times fella. Only someone uncomfortable with their sexuality would think like that #getwithit
I suppose as a raving gayer he’s allowed to say it as he sees it.
I like your profile though OP! I think it has your personality in it and that’s good that that shines through.
Raving gayer Genuinely made me lol
I am a raving gayer, I suck dick and smash bums and everything
They gayest that gay can be!
And hot with it! Haha! Shame for me!
Haha well I go through cycles of bicuriosity, that is why I originally joined Fab. I took bicurious off stats though as sad gay/ bi men were fetishising me thinking I was a curious straight man, their beggy messages wore me down "
Gah I can only imagine. We get them and my husband is clearly listed as straight so I imagine 100 times worse if you are listed as bi!
But you know, if you ever do suddenly decide you are fully bisexual and find curvy women irresistible and come back to Manchester I totally volunteer as tribute! |
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"No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you
What does a nose pierced and hairstyles have anything to do with being gay? I think your stuck in the olden times fella. Only someone uncomfortable with their sexuality would think like that #getwithit
I suppose as a raving gayer he’s allowed to say it as he sees it.
I like your profile though OP! I think it has your personality in it and that’s good that that shines through.
Raving gayer Genuinely made me lol
I am a raving gayer, I suck dick and smash bums and everything
They gayest that gay can be!
And hot with it! Haha! Shame for me!
Haha well I go through cycles of bicuriosity, that is why I originally joined Fab. I took bicurious off stats though as sad gay/ bi men were fetishising me thinking I was a curious straight man, their beggy messages wore me down
Gah I can only imagine. We get them and my husband is clearly listed as straight so I imagine 100 times worse if you are listed as bi!
But you know, if you ever do suddenly decide you are fully bisexual and find curvy women irresistible and come back to Manchester I totally volunteer as tribute! "
Cough cough wheres my tribute lol |
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"No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you
What does a nose pierced and hairstyles have anything to do with being gay? I think your stuck in the olden times fella. Only someone uncomfortable with their sexuality would think like that #getwithit
I suppose as a raving gayer he’s allowed to say it as he sees it.
I like your profile though OP! I think it has your personality in it and that’s good that that shines through.
Raving gayer Genuinely made me lol
I am a raving gayer, I suck dick and smash bums and everything
They gayest that gay can be!
And hot with it! Haha! Shame for me!
I know. I’m sat here cursing my vagina haha
If you can’t turn him there’s no hope for the rest of us! Maybe a really convincing strap on?! Might not notice! Ha! Xx"
I am on a strap-on free zone here ladies lol, I am the post man not the post box x |
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"No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you
What does a nose pierced and hairstyles have anything to do with being gay? I think your stuck in the olden times fella. Only someone uncomfortable with their sexuality would think like that #getwithit
I suppose as a raving gayer he’s allowed to say it as he sees it.
I like your profile though OP! I think it has your personality in it and that’s good that that shines through.
Raving gayer Genuinely made me lol
I am a raving gayer, I suck dick and smash bums and everything
They gayest that gay can be!
And hot with it! Haha! Shame for me!
I know. I’m sat here cursing my vagina haha
If you can’t turn him there’s no hope for the rest of us! Maybe a really convincing strap on?! Might not notice! Ha! Xx
I am on a strap-on free zone here ladies lol, I am the post man not the post box x"
Post man not post box
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"No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you
What does a nose pierced and hairstyles have anything to do with being gay? I think your stuck in the olden times fella. Only someone uncomfortable with their sexuality would think like that #getwithit
I suppose as a raving gayer he’s allowed to say it as he sees it.
I like your profile though OP! I think it has your personality in it and that’s good that that shines through.
Raving gayer Genuinely made me lol
I am a raving gayer, I suck dick and smash bums and everything
They gayest that gay can be!
And hot with it! Haha! Shame for me!
Haha well I go through cycles of bicuriosity, that is why I originally joined Fab. I took bicurious off stats though as sad gay/ bi men were fetishising me thinking I was a curious straight man, their beggy messages wore me down
Gah I can only imagine. We get them and my husband is clearly listed as straight so I imagine 100 times worse if you are listed as bi!
But you know, if you ever do suddenly decide you are fully bisexual and find curvy women irresistible and come back to Manchester I totally volunteer as tribute!
Cough cough wheres my tribute lol "
Ha I’m sorry OP! I’m sure for some you will be exactly what they are looking for! Xx |
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"No offence original poster but you look bit camp in some of your pics with your pierced nose and your hair styles are like teeny bopper styles, rather than a straight man in his mid 30s. Maybe that is putting some females off? May also explain why some gay and TV you rant about message you
What does a nose pierced and hairstyles have anything to do with being gay? I think your stuck in the olden times fella. Only someone uncomfortable with their sexuality would think like that #getwithit
I suppose as a raving gayer he’s allowed to say it as he sees it.
I like your profile though OP! I think it has your personality in it and that’s good that that shines through.
Raving gayer Genuinely made me lol
I am a raving gayer, I suck dick and smash bums and everything
They gayest that gay can be!
And hot with it! Haha! Shame for me!
Haha well I go through cycles of bicuriosity, that is why I originally joined Fab. I took bicurious off stats though as sad gay/ bi men were fetishising me thinking I was a curious straight man, their beggy messages wore me down
Gah I can only imagine. We get them and my husband is clearly listed as straight so I imagine 100 times worse if you are listed as bi!
But you know, if you ever do suddenly decide you are fully bisexual and find curvy women irresistible and come back to Manchester I totally volunteer as tribute!
Cough cough wheres my tribute lol
Ha I’m sorry OP! I’m sure for some you will be exactly what they are looking for! Xx"
Well im a firm believer that theres someone for everyone! |
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