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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is it difficult for straight men on here ??????? Women get a right pick of the bunch and all I seem to be getting is men at me, don’t mind the attention but where is the girls at ?? I need verifying ?? |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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If you don't train you can't expect to win the race, besides did you think you would just sign up and be inundated with horny housewifes with husbands that are to busy with golf to sexual satisfy their sex hungry wives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've only been here 8 weeks OP.
What were your ecpectations of the site?
Did you think that all you need do was type a couple of lines of text and upload a couple of pics and be srowning in offers by lunchtime?
Instashag this is not.
Men massively outnumber women and couples on here. Depending on who you talk to it ranges from bewtween 50 and 500 to 1, so yes, the women can afford to be extremely choosy.
Most sungle guys wait around 6 months before getting their first meet. Some fair better, others not so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have the same problem. The reason about the verification is to identify who you are. The best way to get verified is through an arranged meet or venue which you can search for on the Fab site. A number of women will do a social non sexual meet, a get to know you meet, which can be either at a club or another location. Just remember to untick the categories that you aren’t interested in. Most want to meet at a club or other venue for a sexual meet. If you choose to go to a club venue, which isn’t for everyone, the first time is just looking round and chatting to people and you get a lot of people from fab on there who will happily verify you. There is also coffee meets, which are harder to get, but sometimes happen. You can get verified that way. Good luck in getting verified. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Definitely not women are more picky than men and everyone has a preference I signed up at the reference of a friend to see what it’s like I’m fairly new tbf |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Again definitely not I’m not even fussed about a sexual meet it’s not all about sex it’s about experience and exploration for me.. i am fairly new yes I’m here at the reference of a friend |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Definitely not women are more picky than men and everyone has a preference I signed up at the reference of a friend to see what it’s like I’m fairly new tbf "
Women are more picky than men... says the guy looking for an 18-28 year old woman who can accommodate.
Not saying you shouldn't, but you need to get some perspective and realise that what you want will be in very high demand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely not women are more picky than men and everyone has a preference I signed up at the reference of a friend to see what it’s like I’m fairly new tbf
Women are more picky than men... says the guy looking for an 18-28 year old woman who can accommodate.
Not saying you shouldn't, but you need to get some perspective and realise that what you want will be in very high demand. "
I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards. |
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By *hezuMan
over a year ago
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"Definitely not women are more picky than men and everyone has a preference I signed up at the reference of a friend to see what it’s like I’m fairly new tbf
Women are more picky than men... says the guy looking for an 18-28 year old woman who can accommodate.
Not saying you shouldn't, but you need to get some perspective and realise that what you want will be in very high demand. "
Think most women can accommodate a dick  |
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By *ushy 99Man
over a year ago
somewhere nearby |
"Why is it difficult for straight men on here ??????? Women get a right pick of the bunch and all I seem to be getting is men at me, don’t mind the attention but where is the girls at ?? I need verifying ??"
Stand out from the rest bro. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Definitely not women are more picky than men and everyone has a preference I signed up at the reference of a friend to see what it’s like I’m fairly new tbf
Women are more picky than men... says the guy looking for an 18-28 year old woman who can accommodate.
Not saying you shouldn't, but you need to get some perspective and realise that what you want will be in very high demand.
I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards. "
Definitely, I agree. But he doesn't seem to get that everyone else will want that as well, so they won't be rushing to meet him. |
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"Definitely not women are more picky than men and everyone has a preference I signed up at the reference of a friend to see what it’s like I’m fairly new tbf
Women are more picky than men... says the guy looking for an 18-28 year old woman who can accommodate.
Not saying you shouldn't, but you need to get some perspective and realise that what you want will be in very high demand.
I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards.
Definitely, I agree. But he doesn't seem to get that everyone else will want that as well, so they won't be rushing to meet him. "
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"Why is it difficult for straight men on here ??????? Women get a right pick of the bunch and all I seem to be getting is men at me, don’t mind the attention but where is the girls at ?? I need verifying ??"
Try not having a sense of entitlement. Chill..... |
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"Why is it difficult for straight men on here ??????? Women get a right pick of the bunch and all I seem to be getting is men at me, don’t mind the attention but where is the girls at ?? I need verifying ??
Try not having a sense of entitlement. Chill..... "
Exactly this, I hear the types of opening messages ladies receive from guys and it's just plain to see why they struggle to get a meet.
Women on here aren't prices of meat for our enjoyment, soooo much lack of respect.
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"Why is it difficult for straight men on here ??????? Women get a right pick of the bunch and all I seem to be getting is men at me, don’t mind the attention but where is the girls at ?? I need verifying ??"
Be careful not to sound whiney and entitled... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards.
So people with 18-99 have no standards? What a complete crock ......"
Not our original comment, but you'd shag a 98 year old would you?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it difficult for straight men on here ??????? Women get a right pick of the bunch and all I seem to be getting is men at me, don’t mind the attention but where is the girls at ?? I need verifying ??"
That is your perception of it honestly, us women do not have pick of the bunch at all. I
It isn't Lidls, Men are not bananas...
It can be hard work for any gender to find decent people to meet with.
Just stick around, be respectful and be patient
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I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards.
So people with 18-99 have no standards? What a complete crock ......
Not our original comment, but you'd shag a 98 year old would you? "
I doubt it very much but the nowhere do we say we would shag anyone that contacts us either but the message button still shows on our profile and allows anyone to contact us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it difficult for straight men on here ??????? Women get a right pick of the bunch and all I seem to be getting is men at me, don’t mind the attention but where is the girls at ?? I need verifying ??
That is your perception of it honestly, us women do not have pick of the bunch at all. I
It isn't Lidls, Men are not bananas...
It can be hard work for any gender to find decent people to meet with.
Just stick around, be respectful and be patient
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This!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards.
So people with 18-99 have no standards? What a complete crock ......"
Yeah, 18-99 suggests (to me) that you don’t give a fuck who you meet and literally anyone will do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards.
So people with 18-99 have no standards? What a complete crock ......
Yeah, 18-99 suggests (to me) that you don’t give a fuck who you meet and literally anyone will do. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards.
So people with 18-99 have no standards? What a complete crock ......
Not our original comment, but you'd shag a 98 year old would you?
I doubt it very much but the nowhere do we say we would shag anyone that contacts us either but the message button still shows on our profile and allows anyone to contact us."
So why leave it at 18-99 then?
No one outside our age range can contact us, so you're inviting everyone in and saying message us, obviously it's your choice but if that's something we see, it makes us think twice about messaging. |
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I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards.
So people with 18-99 have no standards? What a complete crock ......
Yeah, 18-99 suggests (to me) that you don’t give a fuck who you meet and literally anyone will do. "
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"Why is it difficult for straight men on here ??????? Women get a right pick of the bunch and all I seem to be getting is men at me, don’t mind the attention but where is the girls at ?? I need verifying ??"
The 'pick of the bunch' is like finding a needle in a haystack. It isn't necessarily easier for women here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On my way, OP!!
Hang on. You cannot accommodate.
Damn."
This and his chosen username suggest he is on this site hoping to cheat on his partner so those factors will put a lot of potential women off.
If you are cheating by been on here then at least be fair and explain that upfront in your profile so potential meets can make an informed choice.
If you are genuinely single then explain why you can't accommodate e.g house share, live with parents etc. Also maybe change your username aswell.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it difficult for straight men on here ??????? Women get a right pick of the bunch and all I seem to be getting is men at me, don’t mind the attention but where is the girls at ?? I need verifying ??"
Don’t help mate I get more men look and offer me sex or blow jobs than women |
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By *ixen500Couple
over a year ago
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"Why is it difficult for straight men on here ??????? Women get a right pick of the bunch and all I seem to be getting is men at me, don’t mind the attention but where is the girls at ?? I need verifying ??"
you joined 8 weeks ago ! No profile really mòre men than ladies and you sound a bit cocky sorry just my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To start with it can be hard to get a reply as your fighting against a full inbox of "fancy a fuck" and "Meet now" messages. Stand out from the crowd! Everyone is looking for something different just have to keep searching and putting the effort in and im sure your efforts won't be in vain. Goodluck OP |
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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago
Filthy Desires Upon Trent |
Just give up and get yourself to Wetherspoons. You probably stand more chance in there to be honest.
Your Profile is Crap. You look like a Chav and there are 1 Zillion Gazzilion Guys to choose from on here who are offering so much more than you.
Sorry. Just saying what a lot of people are thinking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just give up and get yourself to Wetherspoons. You probably stand more chance in there to be honest.
Your Profile is Crap. You look like a Chav and there are 1 Zillion Gazzilion Guys to choose from on here who are offering so much more than you.
Sorry. Just saying what a lot of people are thinking "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are probably like 50 men per woman in here.
400 to 1more like
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Seems more realistic
OP, you've only been here 9 weeks - which is nothing.
Most guys wait 6 months to a year before getting their first meet.
Some do fair better, some worse.
Have patience.
Be realistic about your expectations of the site.
This is not instashag. |
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And I’m more then happy about that 
