"We are very new, so is oral considered to be soft swing  "
We are full swap but when profiles state soft swap we would consider that to mean everything up to & including oral but intercourse to be with own partner only. |
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As with all things fab even soft swing has different definitions. It's always best to talk about boundaries before play so that all are aware. We're happy with soft or full swing but we talk about what's ok or not as the case may be. Mr |
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Everyone likes different things x
There's something for everyone on here the best way we've found is just message/chat to people sometimes I leads to something new xxx
We never thought of meeting up with another couple but when we chatted it worked out and Lou played with the woman while me and the other guy just chatted about work and football !!! But it worked for us xxx
Ray |
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"Exactly what we are looking for, however most couples seem to want full swap"
We've been here for a few years now have remained soft swing everything except full penetration.
Yep, some say yuk, some say maybe, some great, at the end of it all. its your bodies your desires so treat others how you want to be treated. Enjoy the adventure and pass on the pleasures. |
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"Our experience is of soft swing (foreplay) leading on to full swap.what could be more natural.. Leave the green eyed monster at the door.. Simples x"
Agree no room for jealousy in this life style but soft doesn't equate to that just the same as anything else others may dismiss as not for them doesn't equate anything else other than their choice.  |
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"All these replies seem to be from couples, there's a lady who is only interested in soft swing on this site. What is a soft swing when it's a lady looking for men?"
It can be anything as long as there is no penetrative sex. Some of my best meets have been soft swing only. |
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We are soft swing and there is lots of nice couples like us too, just do what your happy with and it’s trial and error. Full swap isn’t for everyone and same as soft, that’s the beauty of the lifestyle there’s so many people in the scene with varied tastes and boundaries x |
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By *gamnonMan
over a year ago
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"We are new to this so no verifications! We are looking for Softswing fun to start with lots of flirting touching and oral.
Will that fact that we only want Softswing put couples off?"
Definitely not as we are exactly the same  |
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"We are new to this so no verifications! We are looking for Softswing fun to start with lots of flirting touching and oral.
Will that fact that we only want Softswing put couples off?"
It will put some off. But some, including us, love it. |
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I like soft swing with new and experienced alike. I have been lucky to introduce a handful of people to the scene, especially couples who continue to play soft as it’s fulfilling in its own way. candles, bubblies, soft music, massages.. what’s not to like |
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"We are new to this so no verifications! We are looking for Softswing fun to start with lots of flirting touching and oral.
Will that fact that we only want Softswing put couples off?"
Not put off at all! |
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"We are new to this so no verifications! We are looking for Softswing fun to start with lots of flirting touching and oral.
Will that fact that we only want Softswing put couples off?"
We would be more put off by the fact that you have been on here as a couple since Oct 2016 (or earlier) and have no veris, but yes soft swing couples wo put us off as well. |
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Soft swinging is what we, and I imagine plenty of others, started off doing.
Many years ago since we last did any soft swinging but wouldn't mind playing again sometime.
Has a sort of innocent appeal to it. |
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