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How can I improve my profile?
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"Having no luck on here and I’m sure it’s because my profile is the bare bones. But I’m a bit crap at writing about myself. Any advice from longtime fabbers?" You’ve only been on a few months - very little time in Fab terms especially as a single male. You need more photos. Show off a bit. Show off your assets. You might think it’s engaging and thought provoking putting something like ‘just ask me if you want to know anymore’ but the fact is single guys are in abundance here. No one is interested in speaking to every single person with that in their profile to try and find out anything about you as a person. You have to sell yourself on here to get noticed. And veri’s help. My recommendation is get to some clubs and get chatting to folk. Get spread out a little bit and meet people. Then things would pick up. Good luck | |||
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"Take the dick pick off the top spot, take around 10 pictures in various states of undress but leave your boxers on. Take a look at the regular Male posters on the forum for ideas. Write at least 150 words about yourself that DO NOT INCLUDE anything about sex. Be honest about your sexual experience and swing experience. Get to your local club and get verified by a meet! " Great advice  | |||
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"You say you want someone to stimulate you mentally then say your profile is blah blah blah. I don't think any mentally stimulating women will bother messaging such a profile. " This 
The pictures will not attract those mentally stimulating women either.
You need to do some research, it’s easy on here look at other guys Profiles, get some ideas just don’t copy.
More effort means potentially more meets | |||
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"Having no luck on here and I’m sure it’s because my profile is the bare bones. But I’m a bit crap at writing about myself. Any advice from longtime fabbers?" Been here since 2012 | |||
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"I've got the written component of my profile the way I want. I'm just wondering what sort of pics should I use?" It would be a good idea setting up your own post, rather than hijacking somebody else’s!! | |||
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"Personally you could have the best profile ever. Until I see a face picture. And I don't fancy you. Its a no. " This | |||
"So many stupid look at me threads..2 days ago he did this no reply .. just entered my block list never mind help list "I haven’t replied because it’s Xmas and it’s quite a busy time for me as I’m sure it is for most people. I don’t spend my life on here, so sorry I couldn’t acknowledge you any sooner. Thank you everyone else, I’ll take all your advice into consideration. | |||
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"Get off to the clubs, you'll have more success in a few weeks than you'll have on here in 12 months, Fab is just full of keyboard dreamers and timewasters even if they do speak to you. " Any suggestions? | |||
"Any suggestions?" Start your own thread and don’t hijack someone else’s | |||
"Get off to the clubs, you'll have more success in a few weeks than you'll have on here in 12 months, Fab is just full of keyboard dreamers and timewasters even if they do speak to you. Any suggestions?" This is not strictly true, Merely turning up at a club does not mean you’ll be any more or less successful so don’t get your hopes up. As with all things you’ll only get out of it what you put in. | |||
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"Any suggestions? Start your own thread and don’t hijack someone else’s" what did I miss a hi jacking more drama on here than eastenders | |||
"Is it just my profile pics that are letting mine down?" no yours is fine | |||
"Having no luck on here and I’m sure it’s because my profile is the bare bones. But I’m a bit crap at writing about myself. Any advice from longtime fabbers?" The only person that can write about yourself is you, nobody else knows who you are or what you want and offer like you do. However you don't seel yourself to prospective meets when you sum yourself up as blah blah blah. | |||
"Any suggestions? Start your own thread and don’t hijack someone else’s what did I miss a hi jacking more drama on here than eastenders "I thought exactly the same lol | |||
"Get off to the clubs, you'll have more success in a few weeks than you'll have on here in 12 months, Fab is just full of keyboard dreamers and timewasters even if they do speak to you. " Good idea. At least in clubs everyone has made the effort to attend. Also, don't just try one night, clubs can be hit and miss so go a few times before you write them off. Maybe one that only invites selected singles, bit more effort but worth it, give it a whirl. Most single guys we meet are either at clubs, parties or swingers holidays. Tends to attract guys who like to make an effort. Piss easy to knock out a message on here. Good luck, let us know how you get along. | |||
"So many stupid look at me threads..2 days ago he did this no reply .. just entered my block list never mind help list
I haven’t replied because it’s Xmas and it’s quite a busy time for me as I’m sure it is for most people. I don’t spend my life on here, so sorry I couldn’t acknowledge you any sooner.
Thank you everyone else, I’ll take all your advice into consideration."If your so busy at xmas then try posting for help after when you have the time to at least reply we get called ignorant on here for doing exactly what you have done and that isn't a dig at you x | |||
" I haven’t replied because it’s Xmas and it’s quite a busy time for me as I’m sure it is for most people. I don’t spend my life on here, so sorry I couldn’t acknowledge you any sooner. If your so busy at xmas then try posting for help after when you have the time to at least reply " I agree. OP today will you have time to remove "blah blah blah" from your profile ? | |||
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"Take the dick pick off the top spot, take around 10 pictures in various states of undress but leave your boxers on. Take a look at the regular Male posters on the forum for ideas. Write at least 150 words about yourself that DO NOT INCLUDE anything about sex. Be honest about your sexual experience and swing experience. Get to your local club and get verified by a meet! Great advice "Thanks I will make a note of that. More classy revealing pictures without the obvious boner?? | |||
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"You say you want someone to stimulate you mentally then say your profile is blah blah blah. I don't think any mentally stimulating women will bother messaging such a profile. This
The pictures will not attract those mentally stimulating women either.
You need to do some research, it’s easy on here look at other guys Profiles, get some ideas just don’t copy.
More effort means potentially more meets
So in your opinion is it the pictures or the bio that catches the attention of women?" | |||
