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My profile must be rubbish?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know a cock pic doesn't help but it is a sex site after all?
Other than that, is there anything about my profile that justifies me getting nowhere at all?
Any help would be greatly appreciated. |
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If you want honest feedback...
Usual mistakes; cock pic only (although a fairly decent cock pic admittedly), says straight but looking for men (mixed messages), profile text is a bit "I want this, I love this" rather than saying what you would bring to the table
And the bit about "hubby is fine to listen, watch or join in" would definitely put us off. This is a swinging site so kind of a given really, not something to list as a perk!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know a cock pic doesn't help but it is a sex site after all?
Other than that, is there anything about my profile that justifies me getting nowhere at all?
Any help would be greatly appreciated."
Sorry us girls can't be dial a shag for you.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have not seen the previous version, this one's looking ok though there are still some bits that need ironing out.
You're saying you've got a cock pic because it's a sex site (it's not!), then in your profile text you say you'd love to meet a couple for 'mutually exclusive' relationship, and that you don't want to meet couples who have multiple partners in a week. Sorry to break it to you, OP, but that's what swinging is supposed to be about, being able to meet other people, socially and, if wanted, sexually, too. Not restricting yourself to just one partner.
I'm not saying you're not going to find a couple who may want an exclusive relationship with just you, but it's not going to be easy.
Definitely more pics, please! Everyone knows how a cock looks like.
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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I've not read either version. My 2p's worth. Its generic advice.
1p. Your profile won't appeal to all, so those saying its not for them isn't a problem unless they're your target audience.
2p. If you think it informs others of your wants desires and sells you to others leave it as it is.
3p. Create interest in the words and pictures you use.
4p. Do it your way you can't do it any other.
5p. I'm Not very good a witht pennies.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have not seen the previous version, this one's looking ok though there are still some bits that need ironing out.
You're saying you've got a cock pic because it's a sex site (it's not!), then in your profile text you say you'd love to meet a couple for 'mutually exclusive' relationship, and that you don't want to meet couples who have multiple partners in a week. Sorry to break it to you, OP, but that's what swinging is supposed to be about, being able to meet other people, socially and, if wanted, sexually, too. Not restricting yourself to just one partner.
I'm not saying you're not going to find a couple who may want an exclusive relationship with just you, but it's not going to be easy.
Definitely more pics, please! Everyone knows how a cock looks like.
Good luck and happy Fabbing"
Agree it's like your saying you want to meet a couple on a swinging site who once they have found you are to stop swinging?
We have never known a 3rd party male who wants to find a couple who on meeting him are to effectively quit swinging and then become essentially monogamous with him.
You see something new everyday.
Good luck OP
KJ x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also it says you can't accommodate its worth explaining why if there's a genuine reason e.g shared house etc.
That way people won't assume you are cheating.
If it's because you are cheating (surely it isn't given that you want a couple to become exclusive to you) then at least be upfront about it so people can then make an informed choice.
Good luck and happy fabbing x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know a cock pic doesn't help but it is a sex site after all?
Other than that, is there anything about my profile that justifies me getting nowhere at all?
Any help would be greatly appreciated."
I know that a pic of me after coming straight off the back of a fortnight away with work and taking the bins out, snapped hastily with a Nokia 3310 wouldn't help our profile much.
The difference being that at no point did I even consider putting it on our profile regardless?
If you KNOW this for yourself already then why have it as your only pic, much less as your avatar?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not read either version. My 2p's worth. Its generic advice.
1p. Your profile won't appeal to all, so those saying its not for them isn't a problem unless they're your target audience.
2p. If you think it informs others of your wants desires and sells you to others leave it as it is.
3p. Create interest in the words and pictures you use.
4p. Do it your way you can't do it any other.
5p. I'm Not very good a witht pennies. "
Hehe love this response 
And my pennieth worth is stop the confusion and sex might be a part of a swinging life but this isn't a sex site.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well on the plus side it's more than 2 words long. We personally don't like cock pic as a profile pic. Try adding some more pictures and not just of your cock at 100 different angles.
Remember it's a swinging site not a sex site.
Try looking and reading some male profiles. Some guys have been very successful. Get Some direction from them but remember to taylor your profile to you.
Don't layout all your wants and needs on your profile. It's good to read what you can offer.
Read profiles when messaging. Respect people's profiles if you don't meet or match their criteria don't think 'sod it I'll message and try my luck because you will fail. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell people what your into that isn't sex. What are your hobbies and interests. It's alot easier to strat a conversation about something you got in common. |
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"Swinging, for a lot, is as much about the social aspect as it is about the sex x
This!!! the social side is fantastic..love it!!!"
I don't think I'd have sex much if I had to rely on just fab. The clubs are a great place to see someone in 3D and gauge attraction instead of relying on just pics and text. Plus it's great to chat in person with like minded people x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Re-written, Is it any better now?"
Do you think it's better - that's what matters!
Remember to read their profiles too and ask questions about it to try and get a response x
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for some good posts. Nice when blokes don't just get slated. A refreshing change.
I bet i'm not the only bloke who thinks of this as a sex site! Lol
I know it's more than that. Exclusive...i don't mean for life. Just for a while, assuming there are couples who come here looking for a third wheel (or leg) to add to the mix.
OK, so i didn't go down the root of popping to Boots for a miniature anti-perspirant to make my cock look huge! Lmao
I am attached and wished my partner would swing but she won't. We've talked about it and since ot's about the only thing less than perfect in our relationship we have agreed that am allowed to socialise (and more) with another couple. Hence wanting it to be mutually exclusive. I would say i have permission but do people actually read past that or believe it if they do?
Just skipped it but would not omit it when messages are received/sent.
My hobbies are flower arranging, dress making, visiting orphanages and children's hospitals and given one wish i'd ask for world peace! Lmfao
OK... that last bit was a complete lie, except for world peace. I might go for unlimited wishes and make number 2 world peace! Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a huge difference between a swinging Male and a man who is looking for sex. The swinger has learned how to talk to people, how to approach and how to be appealing. We only meet swingers and it’s easy to tell the difference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for some good posts. Nice when blokes don't just get slated. A refreshing change.
I bet i'm not the only bloke who thinks of this as a sex site! Lol
I know it's more than that. Exclusive...i don't mean for life. Just for a while, assuming there are couples who come here looking for a third wheel (or leg) to add to the mix.
OK, so i didn't go down the root of popping to Boots for a miniature anti-perspirant to make my cock look huge! Lmao
I am attached and wished my partner would swing but she won't. We've talked about it and since ot's about the only thing less than perfect in our relationship we have agreed that am allowed to socialise (and more) with another couple. Hence wanting it to be mutually exclusive. I would say i have permission but do people actually read past that or believe it if they do?
Just skipped it but would not omit it when messages are received/sent.
My hobbies are flower arranging, dress making, visiting orphanages and children's hospitals and given one wish i'd ask for world peace! Lmfao
OK... that last bit was a complete lie, except for world peace. I might go for unlimited wishes and make number 2 world peace! Lol
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What you will find is many couples will consider playing with a single male who is married / attached but has permission but they would expect to be able genuinely confirm thats the case.
So would your wife confirm you can play away to the other female of the couple on the phone. Our experience is most men run for the hills at that request because they were lying about having permission but if you do have permission that confirmation call wouldn't be an issue?
KJ x |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"I know a cock pic doesn't help but it is a sex site after all?
Other than that, is there anything about my profile that justifies me getting nowhere at all?
Any help would be greatly appreciated."
Inject some of your personality in to your profile instead of being a advert for beige furniture. |
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