How do you start a conversation on this site. No matter what u try people don't like come on strong people think ur a creep. Be polite and people think ur harmless and not fit for this site. Confused |
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over a year ago
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"How do you start a conversation on this site. No matter what u try people don't like come on strong people think ur a creep. Be polite and people think ur harmless and not fit for this site. Confused"
Many people wont talk to a pictureless and poorly written profile. That may be why your having trouble!
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over a year ago
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Not Gunna lie I agree, not being a moaner but its crazy. I don't wanna come across as a creep or message like mad but then I wanna have banter and wanna show abit spice either in my bio or even with my pictures. Like WTF I need help
I've taken down all face pics and also wonder what it is I've actually got to do to be successful with this site. I've got NO Verifs which could be one reason one but Im genuine soooooooo yeah...Help a brother, peeps. Frustrating |
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Be engaging ask question not make statements about yourself
Make sure sure you've read there profile
And not be pushing or demanding to start with
Don't open with what you'd like to experience with that person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had pictures up and was advised to take them down to keep them private "
If someone advised you to jump off a cliff, would you do it?
It's your profile and therefore ultimately entirely up to you whether or not to display photos and which photos to display.
You will, however, find it much more difficult on fab without photos on your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we were to put percentages to it, it would read like this
Polite message = 1%
Profile related message = 15%
Something filthy minded = 84%
The maths don't lie ladies  |
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"Just say something that makes it clear you've read their profile, comment on something you like, or have noticed or have in common."
But don't comment on their pictures, because apparently that's creepy.... |
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"Not Gunna lie I agree, not being a moaner but its crazy. I don't wanna come across as a creep or message like mad but then I wanna have banter and wanna show abit spice either in my bio or even with my pictures. Like WTF I need help
I've taken down all face pics and also wonder what it is I've actually got to do to be successful with this site. I've got NO Verifs which could be one reason one but Im genuine soooooooo yeah...Help a brother, peeps. Frustrating"
Get to a club to get verified.
I work in a club and verify newbies when they attend. |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
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Ok.... Try putting "important Account information" in the subject box. For the first two lines of the message, write something like "Congratulations, being our 10 million'th message sender.. You have won!"
At least you know it'll get read!
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"Not Gunna lie I agree, not being a moaner but its crazy. I don't wanna come across as a creep or message like mad but then I wanna have banter and wanna show abit spice either in my bio or even with my pictures. Like WTF I need help
I've taken down all face pics and also wonder what it is I've actually got to do to be successful with this site. I've got NO Verifs which could be one reason one but Im genuine soooooooo yeah...Help a brother, peeps. Frustrating"
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Well, here's a case in point: if you want to talk in 'street speak' like Wu Tang Clan, Big Daddy Kane or Busta Rhymes then that's fine. But if you want to write an introductory message to someone on here then make sure it's grammatically correct, polite, natural and articulate.
And you don't want to undo all that with a photo of your cock against a remote control in the same vein as Flavor Flav wearing his huge clock around his neck.
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Good luck bro. |
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I wouldn’t accept a message from a profile with no picture. I’d delete straight away. And if the message made clear that they hadn’t read my profile I’d delete that too.
I wouldn’t want war and peace as a opener though. Tbh you won’t please everyone. |
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