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Ok... what is wrong with my profile...?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello, first post on here and just thought I would pose the question to asertain what is wrong with my profile? Been on here a few months and only had a handful of replies to my messages I send. I am a true gent and tailor each message. Any help would be great! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello and welcome to the forum. Your profile seems ok, you chose your age range, did not tick all the interests going and have no dick pics. I would work on a few slightly more imaginative photos, but also wouldn't count just on meeting people through here. If you can, get yourself to some organised social or a club and get others to know you. Also, post on forums, that's a good way of getting some recognition, too.
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"Hello and welcome to the forum. Your profile seems ok, you chose your age range, did not tick all the interests going and have no dick pics. I would work on a few slightly more imaginative photos, but also wouldn't count just on meeting people through here. If you can, get yourself to some organised social or a club and get others to know you. Also, post on forums, that's a good way of getting some recognition, too.
Good luck."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Better pics would do. Your profile is fine otherwise. Remember it can take single guys over a year to get established and start getting regular meets through fab too.
I also cannot recommend clubs enough |
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It's a numbers thing here for you single guys - you outnumber everyone else, so it's tough.
Keep your profile focused on selling you, 99% and less on what you don't want.
Whilst it's useful to know who you want to meet, it's much more important for viewers to know if they'd potentially like to meet you. You pick who you message, so let them pick you too.
Pics need to do likewise. Make them support someone being able to determine if they could be attracted to physical contact with you. Think about it. Decide what they'd need to see about you to then take their decision - and then take lots of pics, picking out the better ones that fit that goal. They can't judge if you are attractive until you make it easy enough. It also shows that you have considered what they want, instead of imposing what you think they should need.
When you don't make it easy for others, they move on to the next person, until they get it. |
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
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Mate, welcome to the life of a male on Fab.
This is a world where men (hugely) outnumber the women who have their pick of the crop and can take the cream (no pun intended).
It is also a very superficial and subjective world, so you can hold so many great qualities but they will not come through in the harsh online world.
It's a mix of:
Persistence - which doesn't mean keep badgering the same person but just keep trying with different people
Judgement - don't get desperate in your messages. Understand who you are talking to and pitch the message appropriately. Respect their pace;
Patience - Hang in there, wait to find 'that' person who wants to take a chance on you. Play the numbers by all means but no point shagging anything with a pulse (if you have standards)
Tactics - Now I haven't done this myself but, as suggested by others, get yourself known by attending socials and clubs. I do it through forums. It's basically networking, lol
In short, it needs more strategy than finding a job! Lol
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A pair of underpants with a slight bulge and a chin. That's what a woman would see, so the profile text won't matter as she's moved on. Make sure you get better photos asap.
The text has some of your personality coming through, but it's still pretty generic in parts. At least there is an effort to be unique (your words)
Good luck Op |
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Yup OP those boxers are not the best! Get some better more imaginative pics done. I particularly like shoulders and thighs  . I also recommend a club social. If you free tomorrow daytime I'll veri you by cam if that helps. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yup OP those boxers are not the best! Get some better more imaginative pics done. I particularly like shoulders and thighs . I also recommend a club social. If you free tomorrow daytime I'll veri you by cam if that helps. "
Oh yes please! xx
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"Yup OP those boxers are not the best! Get some better more imaginative pics done. I particularly like shoulders and thighs . I also recommend a club social. If you free tomorrow daytime I'll veri you by cam if that helps.
Oh yes please! xx
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Have PM'd you hun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yup OP those boxers are not the best! Get some better more imaginative pics done. I particularly like shoulders and thighs . I also recommend a club social. If you free tomorrow daytime I'll veri you by cam if that helps.
Oh yes please! xx
Have PM'd you hun "
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