You do not "get meets". You meet people. They are either interested in you or not. Think of it as being in a normal nightclub: would everyone there be interested in you? You need to use your personality and manners. |
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Good and bad news. You single men are in abundance and it will typically take months to get established. Those of you who invest your efforts wisely and have staying power can do better than someone identical who doesn't. Do you have what it takes?
Most men don't get their profile right. It's your sales tool. Does it sell you? They have to make others know what you have that's great to make us want you, instead of some lazy ass guy who promotes what he wants. Pick your target friends wisely. Use your profile to show the pics that others' must have to have any clue whether they might fancy you. If you don't, people skip to the thousands of others who do have pics.
Swinging clubs and fab social events are places to meet and get to know others. |
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"You do not "get meets". You meet people. They are either interested in you or not. Think of it as being in a normal nightclub: would everyone there be interested in you? You need to use your personality and manners."
 True you just need to appear interesting to people. |
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"How do you actually get meets on here? Is anyone actually succesfull?"
Yes people are successful, you'd be surprised that some of the guys are just regular looking as well. You don't have to be gym fit or look like Tom Hardy etc..
However it's hard work for a single bloke, you're competing with some switched on guys here. They use their profile and pictures well, contribute to interesting topics on the forums and in time they're known and generate interest from the women they're trying to attract.
Not all can cut the mustard, do the work and you never know |
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First rule of here is to treat everyone with respect. No one owes you anything, least of all sex. Even on a club night you may well not have sex.
Next thing is make sure your profile says something about you - why you stand out. Be honest about it though. And it cant just be about what you want but what you can offer others. As those above have said, no pictures does not help as you'll be overlooked for those that do have them. Your profile pic doesn't need to be a head shot but you need something there. And don't post endless cock shots.
Finally if you are messaging remember you are one of many. Read the profile, be courteous and accept that not every person will want to have sex with you. If you get rejected then move on.
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"You do not "get meets". You meet people. They are either interested in you or not. Think of it as being in a normal nightclub: would everyone there be interested in you? You need to use your personality and manners.
True you just need to appear interesting to people."
I keep wondering how many of these "unlucky" men are successful with women outside the scene. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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"First rule of here is to treat everyone with respect. No one owes you anything, least of all sex. Even on a club night you may well not have sex.
Next thing is make sure your profile says something about you - why you stand out. Be honest about it though. And it cant just be about what you want but what you can offer others. As those above have said, no pictures does not help as you'll be overlooked for those that do have them. Your profile pic doesn't need to be a head shot but you need something there. And don't post endless cock shots.
Finally if you are messaging remember you are one of many. Read the profile, be courteous and accept that not every person will want to have sex with you. If you get rejected then move on.
Good luck!"
Totally agree with this
I would say your profile needs jazzing up a bit, a few pics for all to see would help for sure |
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