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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d change your profile pic to one where you’re not naked and do some work on your profile. "
Thanks uploaded new pic not quite sure what to do with my profile I suck at talking about myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d change your profile pic to one where you’re not naked and do some work on your profile.
Thanks uploaded new pic not quite sure what to do with my profile I suck at talking about myself"
Say what you have to offer potential meets. Saying you get bored and fed up twice in 3 lines is hardly a profile |
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How many 18-30 women do you think are on here ? What if there's a really hot 35 year old who quite liked your pictures, Jennifer Aniston is 50 so maybe up the age.
Pictures are Ok, however if you think you've written a profile that'll attract the women you're after think again. No real content, do a bit of research especially those guys who are successful, get ideas but don't copy. |
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"How many 18-30 women do you think are on here ? What if there's a really hot 35 year old who quite liked your pictures, Jennifer Aniston is 50 so maybe up the age.
Pictures are Ok, however if you think you've written a profile that'll attract the women you're after think again. No real content, do a bit of research especially those guys who are successful, get ideas but don't copy."
Steph beat me to it. Age is only a number. Under 30s on here are in the minority.
Broaden your horizons  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How many 18-30 women do you think are on here ? What if there's a really hot 35 year old who quite liked your pictures, Jennifer Aniston is 50 so maybe up the age.
Pictures are Ok, however if you think you've written a profile that'll attract the women you're after think again. No real content, do a bit of research especially those guys who are successful, get ideas but don't copy."
Didn’t realis that showed! Thought it was just for my quick searches  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can’t get a message back barely anyone seems interested"
It can work the other way too. Messages that are from people who are full of shit!
Lol
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If you find it hard to talk about your self, how are you going to cope in an social ane possibly intimate liaison.
In my opinion and experience, people want sexy pics with thought behind the image in a nice setting ( made bed, uncluttered rooms) They want to read about people's experiences in the life less vanilla in profiles. Attend some clubs, get a few veries on your profile from social kink meets..best wishes Adam |
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"How many 18-30 women do you think are on here ? What if there's a really hot 35 year old who quite liked your pictures, Jennifer Aniston is 50 so maybe up the age.
Pictures are Ok, however if you think you've written a profile that'll attract the women you're after think again. No real content, do a bit of research especially those guys who are successful, get ideas but don't copy.
Didn’t realis that showed! Thought it was just for my quick searches "
So Jennifer is in your age range now, I'll let her know 
Good luck Op |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
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"Can’t get a message back barely anyone seems interested"
Sometimes it's about reading the profile s and what the person wants. So many messages don't match what the person wants or can be abrubt or short. If time is taken to write purposely with that profile in mind it may work |
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"Can’t get a message back barely anyone seems interested"
I wouldnt worry fella ..unless you go to gym every day and can't go commando in a pair of shorts the reality as harsh as it sounds? .. as an ordinary single guy you are just making up the numbers on here most of the time . Sometimes you will get lucky though .. some nice pictures to look at though in here you have to admit ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can’t get a message back barely anyone seems interested
I wouldnt worry fella ..unless you go to gym every day and can't go commando in a pair of shorts the reality as harsh as it sounds? .. as an ordinary single guy you are just making up the numbers on here most of the time . Sometimes you will get lucky though .. some nice pictures to look at though in here you have to admit !"
The first part of this is actually, total rubbish, btw OP. Ypu are a nice looking bloke, someone will come along at some point. Socials are a good way of getting involved and your face and personality known though... Aswell as sprucing up your profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are attractive but your photos let you down. Handbags in the background, messy unmade beds, stuff on the floor. Women notice these things in photos.
You put nothing in your profile about what you have to offer - only what you want.
Start chatting on the forums... |
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I agree. If I saw your face pic I'd reply but dependant on the initial message you sent. Not everything is about sex on here. Make the write up interesting. Make it less sexual and more personal. Make yourself different. Just a personal opinion but I look for different on here rather than the same old thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is true as others have said, your profile does have to stand out amongst the mass of men on here.
If I were you I would listen to the ladies who have replied on this thread with some of their tips and hints, even I think I might make some changes myself
Also perhaps put some normal pics up too. By that I mean some with your clothes on. I've noticed on my own profile that I get more likes of me with just a face pic or with clothes on. Leaves more to the imagination. I think a lot of ladies are kind of fed up with cock pics
Good luck matey |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
Definitely say what kind of lover you are/your style/what you offer.
Personally I like to read a man's profile and get the sense he has thought deeply about his sexuality and is mature in nature, even if a bit shy or new.
Grammar/good spelling and use of language is a good start for me .. lots of women like intelligence.
Dont send cock picks in your first message.
Stylise your photies a bit, enjoy having a play.
Good luck!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Check out naughtypeeps profile ^^^ (I just did!) .. shining example of a stand out profile I'd say xxx "
Lol you mean the really hot model looking guy haha, says it all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Check out naughtypeeps profile ^^^ (I just did!) .. shining example of a stand out profile I'd say xxx "
There you go guys the truth is there, to stand out you need to look a personal trainer model with a perfect body and a massive cock.
It's all about your personality folks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely say what kind of lover you are/your style/what you offer.
Personally I like to read a man's profile and get the sense he has thought deeply about his sexuality and is mature in nature, even if a bit shy or new.
Grammar/good spelling and use of language is a good start for me .. lots of women like intelligence.
Dont send cock picks in your first message.
Stylise your photies a bit, enjoy having a play.
Good luck!
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Don't mind naughtypeep having his cock out publcially, rules go out the window for a hot guy |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
"Check out naughtypeeps profile ^^^ (I just did!) .. shining example of a stand out profile I'd say xxx
There you go guys the truth is there, to stand out you need to look a personal trainer model with a perfect body and a massive cock.
It's all about your personality folks "
Not at all, put any body in there. It's good clear communication, plenty info, tasteful photos, confidence |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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"Definitely say what kind of lover you are/your style/what you offer.
Personally I like to read a man's profile and get the sense he has thought deeply about his sexuality and is mature in nature, even if a bit shy or new.
Grammar/good spelling and use of language is a good start for me .. lots of women like intelligence.
Dont send cock picks in your first message.
Stylise your photies a bit, enjoy having a play.
Good luck!
Don't mind naughtypeep having his cock out publcially, rules go out the window for a hot guy "
I was talking about in a personal message.
Anyway hon, just trying to be helpful to the original post ay |
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"Check out naughtypeeps profile ^^^ (I just did!) .. shining example of a stand out profile I'd say xxx "
Absolutely agree, the profile text alone is enticing, the pictures are the icing on the cake  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Check out naughtypeeps profile ^^^ (I just did!) .. shining example of a stand out profile I'd say xxx
There you go guys the truth is there, to stand out you need to look a personal trainer model with a perfect body and a massive cock.
It's all about your personality folks
Not at all, put any body in there. It's good clear communication, plenty info, tasteful photos, confidence "
Fine you have to have a pretty face , tastefully photos (good looking), plenty info (completely generic but well written in fairness), confidence (product of being told how good looking you are throughout life)...
Still all about looks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely say what kind of lover you are/your style/what you offer.
Personally I like to read a man's profile and get the sense he has thought deeply about his sexuality and is mature in nature, even if a bit shy or new.
Grammar/good spelling and use of language is a good start for me .. lots of women like intelligence.
Dont send cock picks in your first message.
Stylise your photies a bit, enjoy having a play.
Good luck!
Don't mind naughtypeep having his cock out publcially, rules go out the window for a hot guy
I was talking about in a personal message.
Anyway hon, just trying to be helpful to the original post ay "
What's the difference, if anything it's worse having it public, showing your cock off to the whole world ??
You will bend the rules to suit hottie, say his generic (if well put together) profile is amazing, take his hot pics away you wouldn't go near him fact |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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Daz, apologies, it seems your post has been hijacked by some nit picking over my comments.
Back in response to your original question ... try a few things out that feel right to you, you can always add and change. My profile evolves and changes subtly..just go for it and see if anything shifts for you.
Good luck! X
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Daz, apologies, it seems your post has been hijacked by some nit picking over my comments.
Back in response to your original question ... try a few things out that feel right to you, you can always add and change. My profile evolves and changes subtly..just go for it and see if anything shifts for you.
Good luck! X
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I'm just offering an alternative viewpoint. I'm pessimistic but ultimately a realist. Looks plays a huge part in fab and in general life.
People don't like to admit because it's an uncomfortable truth.
Attractive people get given the benefit of the doubt all the time and are more likely to be associated with positive personality traits such as: Intelligence, compassion, kindness, humour etc.
My nitpicking was a classic example of the benefit of the doubt being given. On one post you made it clear cock pics were bad but that rule was looked over because when the gentleman in question was undoubtedly very good looking.
Again you also praised his profile like it had been written by Shakespeare when I'm fact it's pretty generic if tidy and well written. Would you be of so high praise if his pics were average..I imagine you would just say his profile was generic |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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"Daz, apologies, it seems your post has been hijacked by some nit picking over my comments.
Back in response to your original question ... try a few things out that feel right to you, you can always add and change. My profile evolves and changes subtly..just go for it and see if anything shifts for you.
Good luck! X
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I'm with you on this. There is a difference between a dick pic and a pic with a dick on it. The profile you pointed out has a man with his dick out. So many are just a close up penis shot, complete with underpants around knees whilst they sit on a chair!
It's about stylish photos not gratuitous close ups. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Daz, apologies, it seems your post has been hijacked by some nit picking over my comments.
Back in response to your original question ... try a few things out that feel right to you, you can always add and change. My profile evolves and changes subtly..just go for it and see if anything shifts for you.
Good luck! X
I'm with you on this. There is a difference between a dick pic and a pic with a dick on it. The profile you pointed out has a man with his dick out. So many are just a close up penis shot, complete with underpants around knees whilst they sit on a chair!
It's about stylish photos not gratuitous close ups."
Right ok, change the argument after the event because you've been called out...as I said before bending the rules for a hot guy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You may need to explain how you go from been Dom, to eh, not been... I’m sure that confuses some.."
This guy has lots of meets...but wait his profile is bland and he has dick pics...what's going on here surely that doesn't appeal..
Oh wait he has a six pack and is tall |
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"You may need to explain how you go from been Dom, to eh, not been... I’m sure that confuses some..
This guy has lots of meets...but wait his profile is bland and he has dick pics...what's going on here surely that doesn't appeal..
Oh wait he has a six pack and is tall "
Not a lot, but yes, a big dick |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You may need to explain how you go from been Dom, to eh, not been... I’m sure that confuses some..
This guy has lots of meets...but wait his profile is bland and he has dick pics...what's going on here surely that doesn't appeal..
Oh wait he has a six pack and is tall
Not a lot, but yes, a big dick "
Hey this man knows the truth, and you get attention...you didn't need to write a beautiful profile did you good sir. Just a nice big cock and a tall muscular body |
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"You may need to explain how you go from been Dom, to eh, not been... I’m sure that confuses some..
This guy has lots of meets...but wait his profile is bland and he has dick pics...what's going on here surely that doesn't appeal..
Oh wait he has a six pack and is tall
Not a lot, but yes, a big dick
Hey this man knows the truth, and you get attention...you didn't need to write a beautiful profile did you good sir. Just a nice big cock and a tall muscular body "
I didn’t even realise I had anything written there..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You may need to explain how you go from been Dom, to eh, not been... I’m sure that confuses some..
This guy has lots of meets...but wait his profile is bland and he has dick pics...what's going on here surely that doesn't appeal..
Oh wait he has a six pack and is tall
Not a lot, but yes, a big dick
Hey this man knows the truth, and you get attention...you didn't need to write a beautiful profile did you good sir. Just a nice big cock and a tall muscular body
I didn’t even realise I had anything written there.. "
But don't worry all the ladies you met thought it was wonderful. In fact I would say you have a fantastic way with words you just don't realise it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You may need to explain how you go from been Dom, to eh, not been... I’m sure that confuses some..
This guy has lots of meets...but wait his profile is bland and he has dick pics...what's going on here surely that doesn't appeal..
Oh wait he has a six pack and is tall
Not a lot, but yes, a big dick
Hey this man knows the truth, and you get attention...you didn't need to write a beautiful profile did you good sir. Just a nice big cock and a tall muscular body
I didn’t even realise I had anything written there.. "
See op take some profile from this chap, he doesn't even realise he's got a profile text buts he's met a lot more chick's than you.
What he does have though is a big cock and a gym bod |
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"You may need to explain how you go from been Dom, to eh, not been... I’m sure that confuses some..
This guy has lots of meets...but wait his profile is bland and he has dick pics...what's going on here surely that doesn't appeal..
Oh wait he has a six pack and is tall
Not a lot, but yes, a big dick
Hey this man knows the truth, and you get attention...you didn't need to write a beautiful profile did you good sir. Just a nice big cock and a tall muscular body
I didn’t even realise I had anything written there..
But don't worry all the ladies you met thought it was wonderful. In fact I would say you have a fantastic way with words you just don't realise it."
Ah, words is over rated, just drop the merchandise on the table and they come flocking.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You may need to explain how you go from been Dom, to eh, not been... I’m sure that confuses some..
This guy has lots of meets...but wait his profile is bland and he has dick pics...what's going on here surely that doesn't appeal..
Oh wait he has a six pack and is tall
Not a lot, but yes, a big dick
Hey this man knows the truth, and you get attention...you didn't need to write a beautiful profile did you good sir. Just a nice big cock and a tall muscular body
I didn’t even realise I had anything written there..
See op take some profile from this chap, he doesn't even realise he's got a profile text buts he's met a lot more chick's than you.
What he does have though is a big cock and a gym bod "
Profile advice I should say |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You may need to explain how you go from been Dom, to eh, not been... I’m sure that confuses some..
This guy has lots of meets...but wait his profile is bland and he has dick pics...what's going on here surely that doesn't appeal..
Oh wait he has a six pack and is tall
Not a lot, but yes, a big dick
Hey this man knows the truth, and you get attention...you didn't need to write a beautiful profile did you good sir. Just a nice big cock and a tall muscular body
I didn’t even realise I had anything written there..
But don't worry all the ladies you met thought it was wonderful. In fact I would say you have a fantastic way with words you just don't realise it.
Ah, words is over rated, just drop the merchandise on the table and they come flocking.. "
He's barely even literate and still gets women, but don't worry guys out there...it's all about your profile texts and your personality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well that escalated quickly"
Sorry I just can't stomach the rubbish on these forums...
The previous gentleman man really did help me make my point though |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
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Well of course, it is mainly about aesthetics and fitting a physical profile on here. Personality and attitude can help tip the odds in one's favour but looks and physique will be an initial filter, for most. It's a sad truth. Accept it and move on I think is the best way forward. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well of course, it is mainly about aesthetics and fitting a physical profile on here. Personality and attitude can help tip the odds in one's favour but looks and physique will be an initial filter, for most. It's a sad truth. Accept it and move on I think is the best way forward. "
I completely agree, it's why many guys including myself feel the pressure you keep in good shape. Thankfully I quite enjoy being physically active
You're judged by appearance and you have to try and make yourself competitive.
I just don't like when people make excuses and will never admit it about looks, they say one thing and then all there meets are of hot guys with nothing on their profile. |
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"I know right! And people don't say sense of humour is important anymore these days. Know why? Cos it ain't. I'm hilarious. It's simply wasted on here though  "
Yeah me too.. I’m a laugh a minute but no one cares.. #metoo |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"I know right! And people don't say sense of humour is important anymore these days. Know why? Cos it ain't. I'm hilarious. It's simply wasted on here though
Yeah me too.. I’m a laugh a minute but no one cares.. #metoo "
That is a funny reply. You deserve some kind of handjob for that at least. |
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You seem to be putting everyone in the same box here. Personally I think that what she says is right in the sense that there is a difference in how a photo is taken. I hate to see poorly taken photos with the trousers at their ankles. Having said that I hate to see cock pics as much as I hate to see the birth canal of Batbara cartlands womb too. Less is more but that's just my opinion.
You can look like Adonis but have the personality of a toenail or you can look like a toad and ooze sex appeal. A good sense of humour, personality and conversation is all part of that sex appeal but that doesn't always mean talking about sex all the time.
A bitter outlook isn't pleasing and that is quite off putting where as a little confidence without being arrogant is a good thing. Not sure why he's being attacked for having a well written profile here even if it is things that has been written before. At least it's something to read that's positive. |
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"Well of course, it is mainly about aesthetics and fitting a physical profile on here. Personality and attitude can help tip the odds in one's favour but looks and physique will be an initial filter, for most. It's a sad truth. Accept it and move on I think is the best way forward.
I completely agree, it's why many guys including myself feel the pressure you keep in good shape. Thankfully I quite enjoy being physically active
You're judged by appearance and you have to try and make yourself competitive.
I just don't like when people make excuses and will never admit it about looks, they say one thing and then all there meets are of hot guys with nothing on their profile."
That’s such bollocks. It’s about personality and attitude and effort and connection. Men who aren’t doing well on Fab reassure themselves that it’s due to factors they can’t change (“these women all want tall men, with six packs and ten inch cocks”) rather than factors the can control such as:
- profile text
- well taken arty photos
- the messages they send out
- whether they accommodate/smoke
- veris (from socials, clubs attendance etc before you get 1-1 meets)
- engaging positively in the forum
- becoming a regular at your local clubs
- building a wide group of Fab friends
Instead they sit at home, behind a crap profile and rubbish photos, getting angrier and angrier at their lack of success.
I regularly meet about a dozen men. Only one or two of them would be considered gym fit. The rest are, like me, “normal”, down to earth, and put significant effort into Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well of course, it is mainly about aesthetics and fitting a physical profile on here. Personality and attitude can help tip the odds in one's favour but looks and physique will be an initial filter, for most. It's a sad truth. Accept it and move on I think is the best way forward.
I completely agree, it's why many guys including myself feel the pressure you keep in good shape. Thankfully I quite enjoy being physically active
You're judged by appearance and you have to try and make yourself competitive.
I just don't like when people make excuses and will never admit it about looks, they say one thing and then all there meets are of hot guys with nothing on their profile.
That’s such bollocks. It’s about personality and attitude and effort and connection. Men who aren’t doing well on Fab reassure themselves that it’s due to factors they can’t change (“these women all want tall men, with six packs and ten inch cocks”) rather than factors the can control such as:
- profile text
- well taken arty photos
- the messages they send out
- whether they accommodate/smoke
- veris (from socials, clubs attendance etc before you get 1-1 meets)
- engaging positively in the forum
- becoming a regular at your local clubs
- building a wide group of Fab friends
Instead they sit at home, behind a crap profile and rubbish photos, getting angrier and angrier at their lack of success.
I regularly meet about a dozen men. Only one or two of them would be considered gym fit. The rest are, like me, “normal”, down to earth, and put significant effort into Fab. "
I love how you assume I'm failing, it's hard but I've had meets more so than a lot of the people on these forums.
That doesn't change my viewpoint at all though. For you personality may be important I'm not disputing that but for a lot of women it's clearly not. The proof of which is the ease of which so many guys who put no effort in whatever do very well..
What factor do these guys have in common, very good looking |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You seem to be putting everyone in the same box here. Personally I think that what she says is right in the sense that there is a difference in how a photo is taken. I hate to see poorly taken photos with the trousers at their ankles. Having said that I hate to see cock pics as much as I hate to see the birth canal of Batbara cartlands womb too. Less is more but that's just my opinion.
You can look like Adonis but have the personality of a toenail or you can look like a toad and ooze sex appeal. A good sense of humour, personality and conversation is all part of that sex appeal but that doesn't always mean talking about sex all the time.
A bitter outlook isn't pleasing and that is quite off putting where as a little confidence without being arrogant is a good thing. Not sure why he's being attacked for having a well written profile here even if it is things that has been written before. At least it's something to read that's positive. "
I'm not attacking the man what so ever. He's profile is well written but generic and he's very good
looking.
What I pointed out was it's how people were saying oh look how wonderful his profile "it really stands out". So I had a look and what did I see, a hot guy with a bland generic profile text.
What makes it more laughable was said hot guy had pics of his dick everywhere, which there is nothing wrong with in general..only the same person who held this mans profile up as a beaming example, also simultaneously told op cock pics were bad. . But as is clearly obvious in today's world, rules can be bent for pretty boy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can’t get a message back barely anyone seems interested"
The trouble is that 95% of the people here do not understand what swinging is about!
They put no effort in to creating a profile, sit back and expect the SHAGS to come rolling in!
Either that or they make contact expecting a SHAG to be a GIMME!
People on this site are the same people that you would meet in public and that seems to be overlooked! |
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"Can’t get a message back barely anyone seems interested
The trouble is that 95% of the people here do not understand what swinging is about!
They put no effort in to creating a profile, sit back and expect the SHAGS to come rolling in!
Either that or they make contact expecting a SHAG to be a GIMME!
People on this site are the same people that you would meet in public and that seems to be overlooked!"
Exactly. Hence why I find that the social evenings work. The transformations I've seen people go through over the last 12 months have been amazing.
Ita quote simple really. If what a person is doing now isn't working, then change it. Logic |
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"Can’t get a message back barely anyone seems interested
The trouble is that 95% of the people here do not understand what swinging is about!
They put no effort in to creating a profile, sit back and expect the SHAGS to come rolling in!
Either that or they make contact expecting a SHAG to be a GIMME!
People on this site are the same people that you would meet in public and that seems to be overlooked!"
Exactly, I’ve had a couple message me earlier saying “nice pics, cum fuck the wife” ..  |
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"Can’t get a message back barely anyone seems interested
I wouldnt worry fella ..unless you go to gym every day and can't go commando in a pair of shorts the reality as harsh as it sounds? .. as an ordinary single guy you are just making up the numbers on here most of the time . Sometimes you will get lucky though .. some nice pictures to look at though in here you have to admit !"
First part of this, total tosh.
I walk past the gym twice a day. Dad bod, no hair, old, tiny cock.
I've met plenty of lovely people...
If I can do it, anyone can. |
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Life is full of people who think they're better than you..
The fucking cool kids, this place is no fucking different....the hotties get their own way and the rest of the losers are left to rot like sub human scum.
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"The fucking cool kids, this place is no fucking different....the hotties get their own way and the rest of the losers are left to rot like sub human scum. "
I have read plenty of bullshit on the forum, and this thread has more than its first share, but that, my friend, is top of the pile. The one thing that women (and couples, and men for that matter) on fab don’t like is incel crap like that. We all get exactly out of this site as much as we are prepared to put into it, and blaming those who you perceive as “hotties” for your lack of success is absolutely not the way to engage with the site, or life in general. It shows a complete lack of respect for women and more importantly, perhaps, for yourself |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"School, university, work all the fucking same...full of pricks who think their better..
And women usually like the pricks...fab is no different"
Most of us don't. Effort in means rewards out on fab, same as real life. You are responsible for your own success, nobody else's fault if you aren't successful. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"You may need to explain how you go from been Dom, to eh, not been... I’m sure that confuses some..
This guy has lots of meets...but wait his profile is bland and he has dick pics...what's going on here surely that doesn't appeal..
Oh wait he has a six pack and is tall
Not a lot, but yes, a big dick
Hey this man knows the truth, and you get attention...you didn't need to write a beautiful profile did you good sir. Just a nice big cock and a tall muscular body
I didn’t even realise I had anything written there..
See op take some profile from this chap, he doesn't even realise he's got a profile text buts he's met a lot more chick's than you.
What he does have though is a big cock and a gym bod "
And what he doesn't have is a negative attitude. |
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"The fucking cool kids, this place is no fucking different....the hotties get their own way and the rest of the losers are left to rot like sub human scum.
I have read plenty of bullshit on the forum, and this thread has more than its first share, but that, my friend, is top of the pile. The one thing that women (and couples, and men for that matter) on fab don’t like is incel crap like that. We all get exactly out of this site as much as we are prepared to put into it, and blaming those who you perceive as “hotties” for your lack of success is absolutely not the way to engage with the site, or life in general. It shows a complete lack of respect for women and more importantly, perhaps, for yourself "
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"School, university, work all the fucking same...full of pricks who think their better..
And women usually like the pricks...fab is no different"
Women like men who don't blame others for their own lack of social skills. Get yourself out there and charm them. If you can, of course. |
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You know.... It is possible to actually GO to the fucking gym. If it bothers you that much that you've got no muscle definition and other men have they get some. Put the work in. Make the effort. Or would you then not be able to use it as an excuse any more? I'm overweight but it's because I don't make an effort to lose weight, I don't bitch about slim women. ( I know the dudes gone but I hear this all the time and it annoys me) |
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