First of all I love the look of fab, it’s easy to use and is free!! Am considering becoming a site supporter but not sure if this will be a waste.
I’ve been on here now some 3 months but have only ever had 1 meet. I don’t receive any messages and those I send (always respectful) to those couples and singles I like are invariably deleted or reply with no thanks.
Feel free with recommendations to my current profile but have also changed this from time to time to try different approaches. I’ve done everything from no pics through one or two to loads. I’ve tried text being very up front through to the opposite and even just one line. But nothing seems to work.
Bottom line is I’m here to meet, have fun, make new friends and explore........but can’t do that on my own.......any ideas from more experienced fabbers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First of all I love the look of fab, it’s easy to use and is free!! Am considering becoming a site supporter but not sure if this will be a waste.
I’ve been on here now some 3 months but have only ever had 1 meet. I don’t receive any messages and those I send (always respectful) to those couples and singles I like are invariably deleted or reply with no thanks.
Feel free with recommendations to my current profile but have also changed this from time to time to try different approaches. I’ve done everything from no pics through one or two to loads. I’ve tried text being very up front through to the opposite and even just one line. But nothing seems to work.
Bottom line is I’m here to meet, have fun, make new friends and explore........but can’t do that on my own.......any ideas from more experienced fabbers?"
Being a site supporter won't guarantee you of any more meets or replys to your messages. But it does give you a few more bonuses to the site. Some people filter out non site supporters so you can't message them etc.
It's a numbers game on here. There are so many men that you need to stand out from the rest to be noticed. Maybe having the site supporter badge could help a little or maybe not.
Having pictures on is good as not many people want to talk to a shadow pic so you have done the right thing there.
Regarding the message you send there is no right answer. What some people like others don't so you just got to keep at it.
Make sure you read the person's profile and mention something from it that stood out to you. That shows that you havnt just looked at the pretty pictures and though yeah she will do.lol
1 meet in 3 months is considered pretty good on here so your doing something right.
Good luck OP and have fun
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If you join just for meets alone, you will get disheartened.
Fabs have so much more to offer - the chat rooms, the forums, the clubs/parties ads (for you to go to), the pics and now videos (for ego boost and self consolation  ) and of course, the meets.
Make full use of it and enjoy.
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I think it’s a fiver. I don’t know what your hourly rate is, but typing that message up must have taken a fiver’s worth of your time. Try it once, see if the extra access to profiles and functionality helps and if not, then you lost the price of one pint over 50 days.. |
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Yes I agree fab us so much more too and indeed want to go to socials and meet new friends (not necessarily to jump into bed with!). I do find another issue though being a single male as when I enquire about advertised socials the list is always full for single males, or single males aren’t welcome.
But as I said before........will hang in for a little while longer. |
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By *ez1987Man
over a year ago
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Fab for us single guys is like playing Russian roulette, we out number the ladies like 3:1 I reckon so we need to put in more work so to speek.
1 meet in the 3 months you've been here is good as some guys have gone a lot longer with nothing.
All ill say is keep doing what your doing as your doing something right.
Not everyone will reply to messages mainly because they over loaded with them. I was with a meet at the weekend and her messages where going up on the 10s every 5-10 mins. So I 8ndeestand why most of our messages get deleted.
If its more veris your after try going to clubs or social events on your area or close by.
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