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over a year ago
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Believe these too much faffing about too get a meet these days , some couples have very little time we understand as we have to arrange childcare ourselfs,
But most couples have either been watching the only way is Essex too much and want the perfect looking couple or just get off on message people .... thoughts |
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Some of the couples who get off on messaging are most likely single guys, and I myself like to chat for a bit before arranging anything. Got to k iw we all get on and like each other. A good way to sift out alot of time wasters is if you like a couple, and get on after a few messages, just ask for a chat on cam with them both together. Any genuine couple would understand that as I same boat as yourselves. But like above, clubs and socials is the best way. Good luck  |
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For us swinging is a pleasure, not a desperation, tick box or competition to show how many meets we had. We have our preferences and if a couple (or part of it) don't match them - we won't take things further. It's about having fun and enjoying ourselves, not settling for someone who isn't a match just for the sake of it. |
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"Believe these too much faffing about too get a meet these days , some couples have very little time we understand as we have to arrange childcare ourselfs,
But most couples have either been watching the only way is Essex too much and want the perfect looking couple or just get off on message people .... thoughts"
they want people they fancy so that means both of you bet you want that to  |
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"Believe these too much faffing about too get a meet these days , some couples have very little time we understand as we have to arrange childcare ourselfs,
But most couples have either been watching the only way is Essex too much and want the perfect looking couple or just get off on message people .... thoughtsthey want people they fancy so that means both of you bet you want that to "
I think that's the stumbling block here they do but don't think others should have the choice to be fussy. |
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We do clubs a lot and there are a lot of "watchers" , depends what you are looking for really, singles, couples, bi nights, we have gone to clubs and had a great time and gone some nights and its been quite awful leaving one of us quite dejected.
Its a long journey to find what it is you really want x |
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Folk have the right to have a preference with anyone they see online i take it ur not getting any msgs and ur blaming a tv show, i think ur expectations of this site is v wrong no one owes anyone anything! If a couple think ur hot u will recieve a reply if not they arent interested no need to blame |
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I think this aspect of the scene is where swingers clubs and parties come into their own. Rather than sending back and forth messages to no end result, the club scene is an open market to find available (now) consenting play mates. Plus with the added advantage of possibly making connections for future adventures outside of the club/party. You just can't substitute being able to meet people face to face with the possibility of taking things futher then and there should you all fancy it. |
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