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Finding this site hard to connect with people

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I’m fairly new on this site and I’m just struggling to get anything going I’m not just looking to fuck my way through it but have a fun time and talk, meet like minded people but not happening

What am I doing wrong

I like to give what people ask so if I read and they say they like to talk and get to know me I go in softly and if they say they like to be told I go in and tell them

Nothings working

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There is no magic formula, if someone finds you attractive then they'll respond.

You can increase your chances by getting involved in things like the forums or chatrooms but the general advice is to attend socials or clubs.

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Usually when guys say they are struggling to get replies to messages or meets it's down to one of five things:

Profile - is it appealing? Does it tell the reader who you are, what you're looking for and what you think you can offer?

Pictures - are they appealing? Do they show you and your body off well?

Attitude - have you got the right attitude, staying positive and being respectful and considerate etc?

Approach - have you found the right approach in messages, do you go straight in with sex talk and looking to meet, or take a more measured approach? Is sending messages even the right approach for you?

Expectations - what are your expectations of the site? Are they set correctly?

My advice would be to take a look at each of those and see if there's anything you can change to help improve your experience - there's no guarantees of course.

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

There are popular organized socials that takes place in Swansea and in Newport that are attended by many sexy fabbers and that might be a great way of meeting local people. I found them to be great fun and very productive Check the Welsh forum to see when the next editions take place. Obviously going with a right attitude helps immensely.

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