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"what do i have to do to get women to talk to me i have no problem anywhere else so why here .... any advice is welcome or critism"
Your profile text is next to useless. Admitting that you don’t know how this site works pretty much gives you no chance. There are many, many threads which deal with profile and site advice. Read through them and respond appropriately. |
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"what do i have to do to get women to talk to me i have no problem anywhere else so why here .... any advice is welcome or critism"
It depends what you are sending out to people a lot don't even look at your profile if the first message is poor. You need to make it personal to them and get their attention.
Also beware of males trying to neg you out some on here only have the intention of driving other men away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just my personal opinion and no offence intended but more photos and much more information on your profile. Tell people about yourself. What do you want from people,what do you have to offer? Read profiles of other guys to get some ideas. Be honest but try to make yourself stand out. Just remember us guys outnumber the ladies by 20/1 so be patient. And the most obvious is you need to Message as nothing will just fall in your lap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile reads like you've given up and thrown your toys out if the pram!
What are your likes? What are you looking for specifically?
Stop being narky and just roll with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Patience is king. Men outnumber women here so badly, you have to either stand out from the rest, invest a lot of tine and effort in how you present yourself on here, or simply wait until your luck comes in. |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
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Read your profile aloud to yourself. Would you meet you? If I responded to your profile, I would have to ask 20 questions about you, but the next profile, might be easier to respond to. Do you have any good points, which interest me?. What would you like in someone, other than just being female. Ladies do respond but need something more to go on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have a look at the bottom of my bio for some great advice for single guys on here.
Ditch the cock pics guys It really won't get you anywhere.. When I had a couples profile it really put us off. |
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It's much harder on here than a dating site or real world situations. As there are plenty of Men and very few women, so you're competing with guys who know how it works. They're are the ones who'll get the meets, as they take decent photos and spend time writing a witty and intelligent profile text, they'll also be here on the forums and gain interest because of their overall presence on the site.
It's not a site for everyone, the reality without sugar coating is put in a lot of effort and you may get lucky, no effort no reward |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what do i have to do to get women to talk to me i have no problem anywhere else so why here .... any advice is welcome or critism"
If you have no problem elsewhere, why look on here? Not being sarcy, genuine question.  |
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"what do i have to do to get women to talk to me i have no problem anywhere else so why here .... any advice is welcome or critism"
Maybe you could try posting on the forums and getting to know people that way. However, try to keep it relevant to the thread which is something you have struggled to do so far. |
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"what do i have to do to get women to talk to me i have no problem anywhere else so why here .... any advice is welcome or critism"
I'm no expert but your profile really let's you down. You need to put things in there, just like you would with a CV. You should sell yourself.
You don't need to put 'females only' you can adjust your settings as to who gets to message you.
I've only had a couple of meets on here that turned into FB's. But I had to do a lot of work and put the effort in before said meets. I've met a few for socials which didn't go any further. And I've talked to lots of lovely ladies on here. End of the day, nothing is guaranteed.
You have to be patient. As others have said, guys outnumber girls so it's supply and demand. Ladies can afford to be picky.
So read their profiles, if you think you have things in common then send them a message which picks up on their bio.
You still might not get anything but it's worth a shot!
Good luck |
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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago
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"what do i have to do to get women to talk to me i have no problem anywhere else so why here .... any advice is welcome or critism
It depends what you are sending out to people a lot don't even look at your profile if the first message is poor. You need to make it personal to them and get their attention.
Also beware of males trying to neg you out some on here only have the intention of driving other men away. "
Noticed that myself.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile is very boring imho. Put some effort into it and you may get a response or even a meet. Ask the female intelligent questions which show your looking to connect not also sexually but intellectually. Not every woman on here thinks of themseleves as just a hole! |
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"what do i have to do to get women to talk to me i have no problem anywhere else so why here .... any advice is welcome or critism"
Your profile is hopeless.
It somehow makes you look like a single guy who can't be bothered making any form of effort and moans when it doesn't go his way.
All in all, not a winning formula.
Sadly, you may be the most dynamic, charming, witty guy that ever drew breath but your profile says something entirely different.
Hope this helps. Xx |
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"what do i have to do to get women to talk to me i have no problem anywhere else so why here .... any advice is welcome or critism
Your profile text is next to useless. Admitting that you don’t know how this site works pretty much gives you no chance. There are many, many threads which deal with profile and site advice. Read through them and respond appropriately. "
Ouch.
"Females only". Not really a complete picture is it? |
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"Have a look at the bottom of my bio for some great advice for single guys on here.
Ditch the cock pics guys It really won't get you anywhere.. When I had a couples profile it really put us off. "
Not totally true as i love seeing what the guy got on offer but not tons of similar cock pics and nothing else. It's bare back sex and sex with many different people I personally don't like seeing. Yes I know they can have sex, but do I need to see the proof?? |
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