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I see a lot of these posts. If you want a meet, be patient. Read the profile you're responding to. People write profiles for a reason. Reply accordingly. Sent a face picture with your first message or say why you haven't. If you get a no, reply saying no problem and good luck. Never treat anybody as a hole. Fab is a great place to meet great people. |
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"I see a lot of these posts. If you want a meet, be patient. Read the profile you're responding to. People write profiles for a reason. Reply accordingly. Sent a face picture with your first message or say why you haven't. If you get a no, reply saying no problem and good luck. Never treat anybody as a hole. Fab is a great place to meet great people."
Wow well said... I just wish there were more with this attitude!! |
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over a year ago
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"I see a lot of these posts. If you want a meet, be patient. Read the profile you're responding to. People write profiles for a reason. Reply accordingly. Sent a face picture with your first message or say why you haven't. If you get a no, reply saying no problem and good luck. Never treat anybody as a hole. Fab is a great place to meet great people."
Easier said than done! when, quite literally, every message you send is read and ignored or deleted! Patience tends to wear very thin and you begin to question yourself as to why you are so unsuccessful! You end up feeling like there's something wrong with you, like you're just not good enough.
And yes, I'm speaking from experience. The 'lucky' people who are successful have absolutely no idea what it's like to send out God knows how many messages, only to be ignored and rejected. |
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You're speaking from experience? You joined a week ago. If you think you're going to be knee deep in sex in a week, you're wrong. If you've been here before and it didn't work, why have you come back? |
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"I see a lot of these posts. If you want a meet, be patient. Read the profile you're responding to. People write profiles for a reason. Reply accordingly. Sent a face picture with your first message or say why you haven't. If you get a no, reply saying no problem and good luck. Never treat anybody as a hole. Fab is a great place to meet great people.
Easier said than done! when, quite literally, every message you send is read and ignored or deleted! Patience tends to wear very thin and you begin to question yourself as to why you are so unsuccessful! You end up feeling like there's something wrong with you, like you're just not good enough.
And yes, I'm speaking from experience. The 'lucky' people who are successful have absolutely no idea what it's like to send out God knows how many messages, only to be ignored and rejected. "
So what exactly did you expect? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok Mr know it all the guy being genuine about how this is fuckin wit his head but all you want to do is try score intellectual points. Try lookin wit both eyes and show some kindness it's free and it will make you come across well. Which is all you care about obviously |
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By *ogglesMan
over a year ago
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"I see a lot of these posts. If you want a meet, be patient. Read the profile you're responding to. People write profiles for a reason. Reply accordingly. Sent a face picture with your first message or say why you haven't. If you get a no, reply saying no problem and good luck. Never treat anybody as a hole. Fab is a great place to meet great people.
Easier said than done! when, quite literally, every message you send is read and ignored or deleted! Patience tends to wear very thin and you begin to question yourself as to why you are so unsuccessful! You end up feeling like there's something wrong with you, like you're just not good enough.
And yes, I'm speaking from experience. The 'lucky' people who are successful have absolutely no idea what it's like to send out God knows how many messages, only to be ignored and rejected. "
Glad to hear I'm not the only one then. |
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"I see a lot of these posts. If you want a meet, be patient. Read the profile you're responding to. People write profiles for a reason. Reply accordingly. Sent a face picture with your first message or say why you haven't. If you get a no, reply saying no problem and good luck. Never treat anybody as a hole. Fab is a great place to meet great people.
Wow well said... I just wish there were more with this attitude!! "
i have a great attitude mrs tartan  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see a lot of these posts. If you want a meet, be patient. Read the profile you're responding to. People write profiles for a reason. Reply accordingly. Sent a face picture with your first message or say why you haven't. If you get a no, reply saying no problem and good luck. Never treat anybody as a hole. Fab is a great place to meet great people.
Wow well said... I just wish there were more with this attitude!! "
i have a great attitude mrs tartan |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I see a lot of these posts. If you want a meet, be patient. Read the profile you're responding to. People write profiles for a reason. Reply accordingly. Sent a face picture with your first message or say why you haven't. If you get a no, reply saying no problem and good luck. Never treat anybody as a hole. Fab is a great place to meet great people."
Well said OP.  |
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"I see a lot of these posts. If you want a meet, be patient. Read the profile you're responding to. People write profiles for a reason. Reply accordingly. Sent a face picture with your first message or say why you haven't. If you get a no, reply saying no problem and good luck. Never treat anybody as a hole. Fab is a great place to meet great people."
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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago
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If you walk in a pub or club and asked all women or couples if they want to hook up chances are they will all tell you to fuck off. Just because its online doesnt make it any different. Just need to change the mindset and how you present yourself. Mingle get to know people without making it feel your after only one thing. I might be wrong but personally any meets I've had have been after long periods of chatting. And as someone will point out it's a big ocean with lots of fish for the ladies and couples to pick from. It's nothing personal everyone has their own wants desires and tastes. Keep your chin up and try not to let it get you down. It will only make you sound more needy. Good luck. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"If you walk in a pub or club and asked all women or couples if they want to hook up chances are they will all tell you to fuck off. Just because its online doesnt make it any different. Just need to change the mindset and how you present yourself. Mingle get to know people without making it feel your after only one thing. I might be wrong but personally any meets I've had have been after long periods of chatting. And as someone will point out it's a big ocean with lots of fish for the ladies and couples to pick from. It's nothing personal everyone has their own wants desires and tastes. Keep your chin up and try not to let it get you down. It will only make you sound more needy. Good luck. "
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"If you walk in a pub or club and asked all women or couples if they want to hook up chances are they will all tell you to fuck off. Just because its online doesnt make it any different. Just need to change the mindset and how you present yourself. Mingle get to know people without making it feel your after only one thing. I might be wrong but personally any meets I've had have been after long periods of chatting. And as someone will point out it's a big ocean with lots of fish for the ladies and couples to pick from. It's nothing personal everyone has their own wants desires and tastes. Keep your chin up and try not to let it get you down. It will only make you sound more needy. Good luck. "
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Ifeel really lucky as we have had 7 meets in 3 months ,but dont get me wrong had loads of time wasters and at least 4 no shows not its not all plain sailing for us ,but a case of patience and sorting out the wheat from the chaff oh and more patience ..   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been on Fab for a long time but only really been seeking meets for the last two months.
It is frustrating to send out messages only for them to be read and deleted or completely ignored but I take on board that ladies get loads of messages and managing them can be difficult.
My plan is to continue to send out confident respectful messages until I see results and luckily I'm not so sensitive that rejection concerns me.
I also plan to attend some organised social events to actually see fabbers face to face in a safe environment as meeting a stranger,alone after just messaging, even in a public place must be quite intimidating for ladies. |
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"Its not instashag ya know 
Yes it is.  "
That's fucking great to hear.
Where do I sign up, I'm in.
Cum get me bitchiz..... I've got a shit profile biog, 42 pics of my cock over a toilet bowl from multiple angles and my knob looks like it's been through a mincer.
*that'll work, right?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its not instashag ya know
Yes it is.
That's fucking great to hear.
Where do I sign up, I'm in.
Cum get me bitchiz..... I've got a shit profile biog, 42 pics of my cock over a toilet bowl from multiple angles and my knob looks like it's been through a mincer.
*that'll work, right?
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Yep, you will be drowning in vaginal juices within a few hours.
After all, the reason so many guys genuinely act that way is because it actually works, right? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Its not instashag ya know
Yes it is.
That's fucking great to hear.
Where do I sign up, I'm in.
Cum get me bitchiz..... I've got a shit profile biog, 42 pics of my cock over a toilet bowl from multiple angles and my knob looks like it's been through a mincer.
*that'll work, right?
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
ribble valley |
"I see a lot of these posts. If you want a meet, be patient. Read the profile you're responding to. People write profiles for a reason. Reply accordingly. Sent a face picture with your first message or say why you haven't. If you get a no, reply saying no problem and good luck. Never treat anybody as a hole. Fab is a great place to meet great people.
Easier said than done! when, quite literally, every message you send is read and ignored or deleted! Patience tends to wear very thin and you begin to question yourself as to why you are so unsuccessful! You end up feeling like there's something wrong with you, like you're just not good enough.
And yes, I'm speaking from experience. The 'lucky' people who are successful have absolutely no idea what it's like to send out God knows how many messages, only to be ignored and rejected. "
You say you begin to question yourself, what answers did you find? All guys get rejected a lot. Try improving your messages and DON'T send cock pics until asked for.  |
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"Its not instashag ya know
Yes it is.
That's fucking great to hear.
Where do I sign up, I'm in.
Cum get me bitchiz..... I've got a shit profile biog, 42 pics of my cock over a toilet bowl from multiple angles and my knob looks like it's been through a mincer.
*that'll work, right?
Yep, you will be drowning in vaginal juices within a few hours.
After all, the reason so many guys genuinely act that way is because it actually works, right?"
They think it'll work, of course.
They want sex.
They find a site where women also want sex.
It'll be easy they think.
They're like the 18 year old piss heads you see in the pub every Saturday, one sniff if the barmans apron and they're smashed.
They join Fab, see dozens of women wanting sex and within seconds they're cunt d*unk and lose any sense of reason. |
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"Its not instashag ya know
Yes it is.
That's fucking great to hear.
Where do I sign up, I'm in.
Cum get me bitchiz..... I've got a shit profile biog, 42 pics of my cock over a toilet bowl from multiple angles and my knob looks like it's been through a mincer.
*that'll work, right?
Yep, you will be drowning in vaginal juices within a few hours.
After all, the reason so many guys genuinely act that way is because it actually works, right?
They think it'll work, of course.
They want sex.
They find a site where women also want sex.
It'll be easy they think.
They're like the 18 year old piss heads you see in the pub every Saturday, one sniff if the barmans apron and they're smashed.
They join Fab, see dozens of women wanting sex and within seconds they're cunt d*unk and lose any sense of reason."
Cunt dr*nk!! I need that on a tshirt.
Perfect. |
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"Its not instashag ya know
Yes it is.
That's fucking great to hear.
Where do I sign up, I'm in.
Cum get me bitchiz..... I've got a shit profile biog, 42 pics of my cock over a toilet bowl from multiple angles and my knob looks like it's been through a mincer.
*that'll work, right?
Yep, you will be drowning in vaginal juices within a few hours.
After all, the reason so many guys genuinely act that way is because it actually works, right?
They think it'll work, of course.
They want sex.
They find a site where women also want sex.
It'll be easy they think.
They're like the 18 year old piss heads you see in the pub every Saturday, one sniff if the barmans apron and they're smashed.
They join Fab, see dozens of women wanting sex and within seconds they're cunt d*unk and lose any sense of reason.
Cunt dr*nk!! I need that on a tshirt.
Perfect."
I'll get the minions to work on it.
Ready for delivery at the Christmas MLS.
Er, *shuffles awkwardly, what size.....  |
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Hi guys, just been reading this. Seems a common theme. Thing is that even with respectful messages that tick all the boxes it's very disheartening when 99% of messages are either left unread or deleted without being read.
So in effect what you've written is irrelevant.
This leads me to believe women are choosing to engage in a chat based purely on pics or have I missed something?
I could send out 50 messages and one that's read without being deleted would he great, to see that magical yellow 1 unread mail box is amazing. And then it's likely just to be a kind lady thanking me for my message but no thanks.
There must be a formula of profile type/message subject that gets a girl to at least engage in minimal chat. I'm sure many would like me if they were to chat a little.
Hmmmm |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
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"Hi guys, just been reading this. Seems a common theme. Thing is that even with respectful messages that tick all the boxes it's very disheartening when 99% of messages are either left unread or deleted without being read.
So in effect what you've written is irrelevant.
This leads me to believe women are choosing to engage in a chat based purely on pics or have I missed something?
I could send out 50 messages and one that's read without being deleted would he great, to see that magical yellow 1 unread mail box is amazing. And then it's likely just to be a kind lady thanking me for my message but no thanks.
There must be a formula of profile type/message subject that gets a girl to at least engage in minimal chat. I'm sure many would like me if they were to chat a little.
Hmmmm"
Formula!!! Are you kidding me? Every woman is different, it's not one size fits all. Remember, the fun is in the chase, you've got to impress, just like the real world. Do you find it easy on a night out? If yes, talk to the ladies like that. It's a big learning curve, try asking respectful questions, that may help to achieve a better response rate. Also think carefully about what you put in the top subject box, this is seen, without opening mails. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its not instashag ya know
Yes it is.
That's fucking great to hear.
Where do I sign up, I'm in.
Cum get me bitchiz..... I've got a shit profile biog, 42 pics of my cock over a toilet bowl from multiple angles and my knob looks like it's been through a mincer.
*that'll work, right?
Yep, you will be drowning in vaginal juices within a few hours.
After all, the reason so many guys genuinely act that way is because it actually works, right?
They think it'll work, of course.
They want sex.
They find a site where women also want sex.
It'll be easy they think.
They're like the 18 year old piss heads you see in the pub every Saturday, one sniff if the barmans apron and they're smashed.
They join Fab, see dozens of women wanting sex and within seconds they're cunt d*unk and lose any sense of reason.
Cunt dr*nk!! I need that on a tshirt.
Perfect.
I'll get the minions to work on it.
Ready for delivery at the Christmas MLS.
Er, *shuffles awkwardly, what size..... "
King size duvet size.
Don't really do one! You're an angel and I know you would. X
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"That's the point, the content, questions etc seem irrelevant as messages aren't read. Maybe the subject box needs more focus... "
A funny subject that makes me laugh is good. "Fanny like a baked beans can" would work great from the right person.
Some women may not like this approach however.  |
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"Its not instashag ya know
Yes it is.
That's fucking great to hear.
Where do I sign up, I'm in.
Cum get me bitchiz..... I've got a shit profile biog, 42 pics of my cock over a toilet bowl from multiple angles and my knob looks like it's been through a mincer.
*that'll work, right?
Yep, you will be drowning in vaginal juices within a few hours.
After all, the reason so many guys genuinely act that way is because it actually works, right?
They think it'll work, of course.
They want sex.
They find a site where women also want sex.
It'll be easy they think.
They're like the 18 year old piss heads you see in the pub every Saturday, one sniff if the barmans apron and they're smashed.
They join Fab, see dozens of women wanting sex and within seconds they're cunt d*unk and lose any sense of reason.
Cunt dr*nk!! I need that on a tshirt.
Perfect.
I'll get the minions to work on it.
Ready for delivery at the Christmas MLS.
Er, *shuffles awkwardly, what size.....
King size duvet size.
Don't really do one! You're an angel and I know you would. X
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"That's the point, the content, questions etc seem irrelevant as messages aren't read. Maybe the subject box needs more focus...
A funny subject that makes me laugh is good. "Fanny like a baked beans can" would work great from the right person.
Some women may not like this approach however. "
I'll use this and blame you if I get reported |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"I see a lot of these posts. If you want a meet, be patient. Read the profile you're responding to. People write profiles for a reason. Reply accordingly. Sent a face picture with your first message or say why you haven't. If you get a no, reply saying no problem and good luck. Never treat anybody as a hole. Fab is a great place to meet great people."
I call it natural selection.. those that get, understand or have the right attitude will already be doing this.
Those that don't will fail delete their profile or figure it out,
Having it spoon fed doesn't help anyone. It murkies the water.  |
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"If you walk in a pub or club and asked all women or couples if they want to hook up chances are they will all tell you to fuck off. Just because its online doesnt make it any different. Just need to change the mindset and how you present yourself. Mingle get to know people without making it feel your after only one thing. I might be wrong but personally any meets I've had have been after long periods of chatting. And as someone will point out it's a big ocean with lots of fish for the ladies and couples to pick from. It's nothing personal everyone has their own wants desires and tastes. Keep your chin up and try not to let it get you down. It will only make you sound more needy. Good luck. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Delete the dick pics would be a great start. We know what one looks like and if you did get a meet anyway, would you slap it out and say pleased to meet you?!?? |
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over a year ago
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"Delete the dick pics would be a great start. We know what one looks like and if you did get a meet anyway, would you slap it out and say pleased to meet you?!??"
Glad I’m not the only one who thinks that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While I agree, I think some people are blissfully unaware of how it is for men on here.
Some men are accused of not making an effort but you can have a great profile, have an excellent opening, and be polite and respectful (as you should be anyway), but you have a very high chance of your message being ignored anyway |
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Men usually send generic copy and paste messages without reading the profile.
Ultimately, if the woman doesn't find your profile attractive, she won't bother responding. Everyone looking for different things so please men, read profiles, write personal respectful messages |
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We have found clubs, parties and holidays in GC and Cap D'Agde best.
Cuts out a lot of timewasters, no shows and dreamers.
Most of the single guys we meet at private parties have attended a few socials first and got themselves known.
Standing at the bar all night and looking a bit forlorn, is not the best idea and don't start off the conversation with ...what you two into.
Like lots of things in life you can get the rewards if you put in the effort. Not always, but put nothing in and you most definitely will get nothing out.
We always make a special effort to chat to single guys as we understand how difficult the night can be but guys make an effort..... don't wear tee shirts with comedy shit on the front.
Have fun. |
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"Some men usually send generic copy and paste messages without reading the profile.
Ultimately, if the woman doesn't find your profile attractive, she won't bother responding. Everyone looking for different things so please men, read profiles, write personal respectful messages "
FTFY.  |
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"That's the point, the content, questions etc seem irrelevant as messages aren't read. Maybe the subject box needs more focus...
A funny subject that makes me laugh is good. "Fanny like a baked beans can" would work great from the right person.
Some women may not like this approach however.
I'll use this and blame you if I get reported "
Let me know how it goes. |
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"Some men usually send generic copy and paste messages without reading the profile.
Ultimately, if the woman doesn't find your profile attractive, she won't bother responding. Everyone looking for different things so please men, read profiles, write personal respectful messages
FTFY. "
What does ftfy mean!??? |
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"We have found clubs, parties and holidays in GC and Cap D'Agde best.
Cuts out a lot of timewasters, no shows and dreamers.
Most of the single guys we meet at private parties have attended a few socials first and got themselves known.
Standing at the bar all night and looking a bit forlorn, is not the best idea and don't start off the conversation with ...what you two into.
Like lots of things in life you can get the rewards if you put in the effort. Not always, but put nothing in and you most definitely will get nothing out.
We always make a special effort to chat to single guys as we understand how difficult the night can be but guys make an effort..... don't wear tee shirts with comedy shit on the front.
Have fun."
Looking forward to my first club experience as its a minefield online... People are too different online |
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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago
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"Delete the dick pics would be a great start. We know what one looks like and if you did get a meet anyway, would you slap it out and say pleased to meet you?!??"
My partner gave me a meat feast.... And I'm still wi him don't know thou |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"Its not instashag ya know
Yes it is.
Only if you're a woman.
You can be extremely specific,but you tend to choose no-one and say you cant find anyone "
Yeah thats right guys have no choices on here... oh wait.. theres a memo I read ..guys can and should be as specific and have exactly the same choices
Yes please
Or
No thanks.
Know your worth, |
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"Some men usually send generic copy and paste messages without reading the profile.
Ultimately, if the woman doesn't find your profile attractive, she won't bother responding. Everyone looking for different things so please men, read profiles, write personal respectful messages
FTFY.
What does ftfy mean!??? "
Fixed That For You |
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