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By *un C OP Man over a year ago

Basingstoke

Hi All,

I've been on here a week or so and have spoken to a couple very interesting women who I hope will develop into meets.

I was just wondering if any lovely ladies have some advice on how to get to even talk to more of you gorgeous women.

I can accommodate, I can travel etc..

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take a look at all the advice there are. That should help

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By *un C OP Man over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Take a look at all the advice there are. That should help"

Thank you. Just wondered what I in particular was doing wrong x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You've only been in here a week. What did you expect?

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"Just wondered what in particular was doing wrong x"

You haven't got a profile pic and your only photo is your cock.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just wondered what in particular was doing wrong x

You haven't got a profile pic and your only photo is your cock. "

I would agree it doesn't really promote you OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Check your grammar and avoid repeating yourselves. Very long winded!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your picture is very crass, I suggest changing it hun.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Get a profile pic.

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By *un C OP Man over a year ago

Basingstoke

Thank you. I guess I didn't want my face on here (although more than happy to send in messages). I will get another pic up xx

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By *un C OP Man over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Just wondered what in particular was doing wrong x

You haven't got a profile pic and your only photo is your cock.

I would agree it doesn't really promote you OP."

Ok thank you Cora. All noted. I have removed the picture of my cock. I will get a new pic up soon, just didn't want to put a pic of my face on here, but will always send in messages etc.

Thank you for the input though hun xx

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By *un C OP Man over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Your picture is very crass, I suggest changing it hun. "

Thank you. I have removed the pic. I will put a new one soon. Xx

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By *un C OP Man over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Get a profile pic. "

Thank you, I will do. Love yours!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/868684

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/877648

Have a look through those threads, they provide very good advice for single guys. And don't expect results after just a week or so. This site is saturated with single men.

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By *un C OP Man over a year ago

Basingstoke

"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/868684

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/877648

Have a look through those threads, they provide very good advice for single guys. And don't expect results after just a week or so. This site is saturated with single men. "

Thank you MissDevil I really appreciate your help. Hopefully I can even get to chat to a few women soon.

Ps. Gorgeous x

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman over a year ago

Victoria, London

Doubt I'd ask to see you. no pic, no likey!

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By *un C OP Man over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Doubt I'd ask to see you. no pic, no likey!"

I totally understand that hun. But personally I don't particularly want to put my face on my profile. But more than happy to send in a private message etc xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Doubt I'd ask to see you. no pic, no likey!

I totally understand that hun. But personally I don't particularly want to put my face on my profile. But more than happy to send in a private message etc xx"

Try a body picture. Doesn't have to include your face.

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By *un C OP Man over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Doubt I'd ask to see you. no pic, no likey!

I totally understand that hun. But personally I don't particularly want to put my face on my profile. But more than happy to send in a private message etc xx

Try a body picture. Doesn't have to include your face. "

Thank you. That's what I'll put up I think.

I just think to myself that people just purely won't want to know because my face isn't on show. But can only try.

Thanks for the message x

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By *ollydoesWoman over a year ago

Shangri-La

No profile pic and I'd just move on..like they say above it dosnt have to be your face.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

OP Any progress on a profile pic ?

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By *un C OP Man over a year ago

Basingstoke

"No profile pic and I'd just move on..like they say above it dosnt have to be your face. "

Thank you Dollydoes for the message. I will 100% get a pic up asap. Xx

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By *un C OP Man over a year ago

Basingstoke

"OP Any progress on a profile pic ?"

Incoming ???? xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP Any progress on a profile pic ?

Incoming ???? xx"

I think the point is being made you got advice and kind of ignored a lot of it expecialy on getting photos up. Its ok to ask advice but you kind of really need to take it or people just think you are a bovine's lady garden if you ignore all of it.

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By *un C OP Man over a year ago

Basingstoke

"OP Any progress on a profile pic ?

Incoming ???? xx

???? thanks for the message Mate. I will get a picture up. Without fail.

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By *un C OP Man over a year ago

Basingstoke

So, pic is now up.. this ok? X

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By *lorious hole bs16Man over a year ago

Bristol

I do wish you well and would suggest you settle in, work out what you want and try and offer something a little different..Be patient and be yourself...

Right now you are creating a profile that others want you to have, it therefore ceases to be you...Hang around and tweek as you go along...Remember also some women like cock pics.

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By *un C OP Man over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I do wish you well and would suggest you settle in, work out what you want and try and offer something a little different..Be patient and be yourself...

Right now you are creating a profile that others want you to have, it therefore ceases to be you...Hang around and tweek as you go along...Remember also some women like cock pics."

Thank you for the comment. I really appreciate it. I understand what you are saying but seems that most don't want those kinda pics. Maybe in private chats.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive said it before and ill say it again, the future is cake.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The more effort you put in will improve what you get out of fab its as simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi All,

I've been on here a week or so and have spoken to a couple very interesting women who I hope will develop into meets.

I was just wondering if any lovely ladies have some advice on how to get to even talk to more of you gorgeous women.

I can accommodate, I can travel etc..

Thank you x"

do a search

talk to people in the forum

go to a club

be respectful if we say NO thanks or do not respond back as guys do it too!

have a good knowledge of what you want and dont and get chatting!

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

Before reading any message the first thing we would do is look at your pics. Not having a cock pic would probably put us of even reading the message.

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

And why does no-one answer the "what did you expect" question?

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By *un C OP Man over a year ago

Basingstoke

"The more effort you put in will improve what you get out of fab its as simple as that. "

Thank you for the message hun. Ok, so lots of pics? Or message lots? Putting more effort in, I'm what way..

By the way.. you are unreal x

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By *un C OP Man over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Before reading any message the first thing we would do is look at your pics. Not having a cock pic would probably put us of even reading the message."

Ah ok. See this is where it's so torn on here. As you can see, quite a few people say no cock pics and others like you guys would rather see a cock pic. It's so difficult as I hate being ruled out on that basis. I'm more than happy to shoe my cock but don't want people to think " Not another one" if you know what I mean.

Honestly, I didn't expect much but to possibly chat to a few women / couples to start with. I know it wasn't going to be a fuckfest from the off lol

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