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Hello, I've been on here a few months now and finding it hard to elicit a response from most people, especially younger people. I understand people have their preferences, and maybe I just don't understand that women get A LOT of messages, but I do try and put effort into my text especially if they have a good bio. What does everyone else think? |
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"Hello, I've been on here a few months now and finding it hard to elicit a response from most people, especially younger people. I understand people have their preferences, and maybe I just don't understand that women get A LOT of messages, but I do try and put effort into my text especially if they have a good bio. What does everyone else think?"
Whilst we can't speak for your messages, you have a decent bio/profile OP. The only major issue with it is that it's a bit vague on what it is you like/are looking for on here. You have only been on here 4 months though, so that's forgivable 
If you do have a clear idea of what you're looking for, don't be afraid to be more up front about it on your profile. Yes you'll put some people off, but that's kind of the point! You should also make sure you're messaging people who are looking for the same things as you by reading their profiles thoroughly before you message. A few more (tasteful) pics wouldn't hurt too 
Other than that, you're doing better than most guys! Just accept you won't be for everyone and everyone won't be for you  |
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"Hello, I've been on here a few months now and finding it hard to elicit a response from most people, especially younger people. I understand people have their preferences, and maybe I just don't understand that women get A LOT of messages, but I do try and put effort into my text especially if they have a good bio. What does everyone else think?
Whilst we can't speak for your messages, you have a decent bio/profile OP. The only major issue with it is that it's a bit vague on what it is you like/are looking for on here. You have only been on here 4 months though, so that's forgivable
If you do have a clear idea of what you're looking for, don't be afraid to be more up front about it on your profile. Yes you'll put some people off, but that's kind of the point! You should also make sure you're messaging people who are looking for the same things as you by reading their profiles thoroughly before you message. A few more (tasteful) pics wouldn't hurt too
Other than that, you're doing better than most guys! Just accept you won't be for everyone and everyone won't be for you "
They're all good points, thank you! Yeah I didn't really think about being up front about what it is exactly I'm after, 1 good message back is better than 3 naff ones I suppose. |
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"Hello, I've been on here a few months now and finding it hard to elicit a response from most people, especially younger people. I understand people have their preferences, and maybe I just don't understand that women get A LOT of messages, but I do try and put effort into my text especially if they have a good bio. What does everyone else think?"
You are right people can get a lot of messages and its impossible to answer all of them in the spare time people get to allocate to fab. So you have to make your message stand out. How you do that is down to you and expressing your personality to the person you are mailing. |
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