I sent a compliment to someone, and she said that as it was too early in the conversation for a compliment!!!
My question is how can it be too early to subtly compliment someone if you are making conversation?  |
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"I sent a compliment to someone, and she said that as it was too early in the conversation for a compliment!!!
My question is how can it be too early to subtly compliment someone if you are making conversation? "
I really wouldn't dwell on it. Some people just can't take a compliment. |
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Everyone and each context is different Imo. And part of fab is that you can be yourself here, subject to site and general restrictions.
It's worth bearing in mind that women get tons of messages, including ones that complement them, so ideally your message will get to standout somehow.
Sexual comments bordering on complements around 
I suggest your earlier messages don't predominately feature them, whilst you get to build understanding of each other primarily |
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"I sent a compliment to someone, and she said that as it was too early in the conversation for a compliment!!!
My question is how can it be too early to subtly compliment someone if you are making conversation? "
it's the age old ' you're only complimenting to get in my knickers ' syndrome and you are aren't you cmon admit it  |
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One has to be able to judge how and when to compliment, and what form it takes. One woman’s cheeky banter is another’s inappropriate talk. Above all, it needs to be genuine, respectful and sincere, (even if it’s explicit), and not just for the sake of something to say, or to go through a tick list |
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The reality is a lot of men use complements here to get a reply and the complement isn't really one its an opening gambit to get a reply. Its disingenuous remarks like this that can actually have the opposite effect and put people off. |
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