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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are a single male
You are 24
You have not 1 picture in public
You are bi-curious
Your profile doesn't say a great deal about you
You don't state what it is you are looking for
Do you read profiles properly before messaging ?
Do you send standard copy and paste type messages to those you contact ?
All of these COULD BE factors in why you are getting as many meets as you would like.
I would say it is perhaps a combination of the above.
Remember that none of us is attractive to everyone.
We all have a limited marketplace.
The profile is your space to sell yourself or at least to get people to stop and take a look at what it is you are selling.
Messages that you send out are your 'hard sell' if you like.
They are an extension of your marketing strategy.
Have you done your market research ?
Are you targetting specific households or do you post a standard flier in the letterbox.
All areas for you to consider |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"wot do u mean how im i using lol
if people want pictures i have them when i send a mail i always attatch pic
thanks 4 reply"
but people want to see pictures when they look at your profile in general
doesn't have to be a face pic - a body pic will get interest
you can follow up with a face pic later at the point of contact if you are interested in someone |
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"wot do u mean how im i using lol
if people want pictures i have them when i send a mail i always attatch pic
thanks 4 reply"
i delete unread mail from unknown black shadows, life is to short to see if they have attatched a mail...and i am not alone
Its a networking site...how are you networking...simple question really.
Look at bussy's post for ideas |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nothing wrong with ur profile text...but when browsing, people wanna see something regardless if they wanna shag u or not...I get lots of 'hits'-but thats because my profile is 'loud'
if u want to increase ur base coverage, sell urself(not literally),dont sit back and think people are going to jump into mailing u,when theres other ready made profiles open to view |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People browsing profiles will want to see pics so my advice is to put some up. Only being able to accomodate occasionally during the day could be a hindrance. Good points in Bussy's reply. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ask yourself the question 'what do YOU look for in a profile' - then think about your own.
No pics? Verified (but hidden)? Brief profile content?
There are plenty of more detailed, more imaginative profiles with pics designed to attract interest out there - all 'competing' for the same audience and attention - so you have to try and stand out from the crowd.
If you search previous threads looking for assistance you'll see similar advice on all - the perfect quote often used being "Your profile is your shop window" - you're 'selling' yourself - so be creative and different and reap the rewards!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This site isn't ebay.
You don't bid on what you like and expect to get it.
Showing and describing what you are all about will give others a better idea about you and what you want.
Would/have you contacted people with no pics or text about themselves?
What attracts you to peoples profiles?
You only get back what you give out if you do it right.
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