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By *jb773 OP Man
over a year ago
Bishops Stortford |
Hey everyone
So i recently updated my profile and was hoping for some feedback and your opinions on it
Also i have trouble thinking of what to write in my first message to someone and would love to hear some examples.and what to put in the message subject as i have only met one couple and no single females but would like to |
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7 weeks in, met 4 times.
"Also i have trouble thinking of what to write in my first message to someone and would love to hear some examples."
Examples:
Hi
Hi?
Hi HRU
Hi HRU?
Hi How are you
Hi how are you?
Hi, how are you?
Etc
You have met four people in seven weeks! most people would die for that record!
So if you truly cant be arsed to write your own message try this:
Hi, nice beard, but with your bald head I was slightly worried I was looking at the pic upside down. You say you're fairly slim? Is that genetic or do you work out a lot? For a specific reason maybe? You say your curvy, but that's surely a lie as you look quite slim in your pics and your dark hair isn't fading at all etc etc etc etc
Come on, you need 'example's' on how to write to people?
It's not that hard.
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By *jb773 OP Man
over a year ago
Bishops Stortford |
"7 weeks in, met 4 times.
Also i have trouble thinking of what to write in my first message to someone and would love to hear some examples.
Examples:
Hi
Hi?
Hi HRU
Hi HRU?
Hi How are you
Hi how are you?
Hi, how are you?
Etc
You have met four people in seven weeks! most people would die for that record!
So if you truly cant be arsed to write your own message try this:
Hi, nice beard, but with your bald head I was slightly worried I was looking at the pic upside down. You say you're fairly slim? Is that genetic or do you work out a lot? For a specific reason maybe? You say your curvy, but that's surely a lie as you look quite slim in your pics and your dark hair isn't fading at all etc etc etc etc
Come on, you need 'example's' on how to write to people?
It's not that hard.
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i was worried the hi hru? Was a bit generic and the message example if i wrote like that for a woman it sounds a bit sarcastic, but couldn't hurt to try |
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"i was worried the hi hru? Was a bit generic and the message example if i wrote like that for a woman it sounds a bit sarcastic, but couldn't hurt to try "
You're right. It is sarcastic, and it was deliberately written so.
Why? Because each and every person on here is an individual, and so you should take the time to write an individual message to them. Show that you have read their profile, comment on it or pull out some specific detail. There is no magic formula or 'one message fits all' approach for this site.
With four meets in seven weeks you are clearly doing well for yourself, so just keep doing whatever it is your doing. |
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By *jb773 OP Man
over a year ago
Bishops Stortford |
"i was worried the hi hru? Was a bit generic and the message example if i wrote like that for a woman it sounds a bit sarcastic, but couldn't hurt to try
You're right. It is sarcastic, and it was deliberately written so.
Why? Because each and every person on here is an individual, and so you should take the time to write an individual message to them. Show that you have read their profile, comment on it or pull out some specific detail. There is no magic formula or 'one message fits all' approach for this site.
With four meets in seven weeks you are clearly doing well for yourself, so just keep doing whatever it is your doing. "
i am trying but so far anyone i have messaged has either said no or just deleted the message, was my bio ok and were my pics ok to? |
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