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What do Women want to hear
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Display that you've taken the time to read my profile, and understood it. Tell me why you think you're a match for me. Give me reasons to choose to meet you instead of any of the 75 other people messaging me.
Avoid "nice pic's, fancy me stretching that pussy later" approaches. |
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
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Don't come across like you will shag anything. Be polite and respectful, read my profile, if I delete the message don't message again 5 mins later (never goes down well)
Just be one of the good guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As others have said, there is no 'one answer fits all' solutions here. And it's swingers site, not sex site! Women want to be treated as women, not as holes to be filled in or stretched. |
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"So how do you know what she wants to hear "
Read her profile, guess from there. It will often give you a clue or more. And be a version of yourself, don't just say what you think she wants to hear. We've heard it all before. |
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Read the profile. Write a short message introducing yourself and saying why you think you're compatible. This isn't an exercise in finding key words and using them in a correct sequence to be successful. Therefore it's a good idea to be yourself |
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"What about those women who have nothing written on there profile but just pictures?"
Don’t message them. If you can’t tell what they’re hoping for from fab then what’s the point of making contact? Be choosy. Only message women that match YOUR specifications, and be totally honest with yourself about what those are. Don’t treat every female in a 30 km radius a potential FB, just those who’s profiles genuinely speak to you. Make your requirements every bit as important as their’s. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Music to my ears if he's genuinely single, living alone, accomodates and lives within 30 mins drive to me.
I travel, so those words would immediately pique my interest. Then I would look at his pics with fingers crossed for mutual attraction. |
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Look inwards rather than looking at others. What can I do to make myself more attractive to the women I'm trying to attract ? Is it my profile or the message I send, do I have to go to clubs or socials, so those people I'm trying to attract get to know me better?
As it's already been mentioned, there no second guessing on here, part luck part design  |
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"What about those women who have nothing written on there profile but just pictures?
Don’t message them. If you can’t tell what they’re hoping for from fab then what’s the point of making contact? Be choosy. Only message women that match YOUR specifications, and be totally honest with yourself about what those are. Don’t treat every female in a 30 km radius a potential FB, just those who’s profiles genuinely speak to you. Make your requirements every bit as important as their’s. "
He's got it. |
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"Display that you've taken the time to read my profile, and understood it. Tell me why you think you're a match for me. Give me reasons to choose to meet you instead of any of the 75 other people messaging me.
Avoid "nice pic's, fancy me stretching that pussy later" approaches. "
This 100% is so how I would love to be approached |
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"What about those women who have nothing written on there profile but just pictures?
Don’t message them. If you can’t tell what they’re hoping for from fab then what’s the point of making contact? Be choosy. Only message women that match YOUR specifications, and be totally honest with yourself about what those are. Don’t treat every female in a 30 km radius a potential FB, just those who’s profiles genuinely speak to you. Make your requirements every bit as important as their’s. "
This... |
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"Good question? And what do you think is the purpose of the site?"
For folk who enjoy (or would like to try) the swinging lifestyle to connect with / meet with others who enjoy the same lifestyle. Within that there are people who have different tastes, kinks and preferences, obviously.
It's a broad church here  |
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"Good question? And what do you think is the purpose of the site?"
Use the repky and quote function so people know who you are talking to.
All you have done is ask me the question I asked you. Care to answer MY question? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Display that you've taken the time to read my profile, and understood it. Tell me why you think you're a match for me. Give me reasons to choose to meet you instead of any of the 75 other people messaging me.
Avoid "nice pic's, fancy me stretching that pussy later" approaches. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Display that you've taken the time to read my profile, and understood it. Tell me why you think you're a match for me. Give me reasons to choose to meet you instead of any of the 75 other people messaging me.
Avoid "nice pic's, fancy me stretching that pussy later" approaches. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What about those women who have nothing written on there profile but just pictures?
Don’t message them. If you can’t tell what they’re hoping for from fab then what’s the point of making contact? Be choosy. Only message women that match YOUR specifications, and be totally honest with yourself about what those are. Don’t treat every female in a 30 km radius a potential FB, just those who’s profiles genuinely speak to you. Make your requirements every bit as important as their’s. "
Perfectly put |
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By *exy100Woman
over a year ago
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"Display that you've taken the time to read my profile, and understood it. Tell me why you think you're a match for me. Give me reasons to choose to meet you instead of any of the 75 other people messaging me.
Avoid "nice pic's, fancy me stretching that pussy later" approaches. "
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