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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wasn’t quite sure where to post this so I gave up looking and thought fuck it.
So me an H love the sex we have, but would like to try and make it less repetitive. We’ve not tried massive of things really.
We’d love some advice on things we can do to excite each other a little more.
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By *histlerMan
over a year ago
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Make each other cum by just using your mouths; both blindfolded; anal; go somewhere public and play; have sex on cam; tell each other your dirtiest fantasy; mutual masturbation... to name a few lol |
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It's difficult to advise someone else on the detail of good sex because what works for one person won't for another. Find out which parts of the body each of you enjoy being touched/licked/stroked etc and experiment with different ways of doing it. Do you like all over massage or oral sex or lots of kissing, the list is endless? |
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By *histlerMan
over a year ago
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"It's difficult to advise someone else on the detail of good sex because what works for one person won't for another. Find out which parts of the body each of you enjoy being touched/licked/stroked etc and experiment with different ways of doing it. Do you like all over massage or oral sex or lots of kissing, the list is endless? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah I get that. Just wondering if there was any general like things people really enjoy. Like some people like bondage. Which were up for trying but need advice on things to try. |
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By *histlerMan
over a year ago
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"Well like blow jobs and stuff like that??
Just would like ideas to put into the hat. Like blow job slow/fast. Make sense?
Yeah, could give each other challenges too?
Yhhh! Just don’t want simple blow job or eat out. Need some interesting ideas. Do you have Kik? Maybe we could get some ideas across that way. Save the forum lol "
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"Yeah I get that. Just wondering if there was any general like things people really enjoy. Like some people like bondage. Which were up for trying but need advice on things to try. "
Ok if you want to try a bit of bondage start small with scarves or ties. Never tie tight and if the person being restrained feels any numbness or tingling don't wait untie them immediately. Always agree beforehand on a word the tied up person can use to bring things to a halt and ALWAYS stop if they use it. You can add a blindfold to make things a bit more interesting. Sometimes tracing an ice cube over someone's body can be fun or stroking them with a fur glove. |
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"Yeah I get that. Just wondering if there was any general like things people really enjoy. Like some people like bondage. Which were up for trying but need advice on things to try.
Ok if you want to try a bit of bondage start small with scarves or ties. Never tie tight and if the person being restrained feels any numbness or tingling don't wait untie them immediately. Always agree beforehand on a word the tied up person can use to bring things to a halt and ALWAYS stop if they use it. You can add a blindfold to make things a bit more interesting. Sometimes tracing an ice cube over someone's body can be fun or stroking them with a fur glove."
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"Yeah I get that. Just wondering if there was any general like things people really enjoy. Like some people like bondage. Which were up for trying but need advice on things to try.
Ok if you want to try a bit of bondage start small with scarves or ties. Never tie tight and if the person being restrained feels any numbness or tingling don't wait untie them immediately. Always agree beforehand on a word the tied up person can use to bring things to a halt and ALWAYS stop if they use it. You can add a blindfold to make things a bit more interesting. Sometimes tracing an ice cube over someone's body can be fun or stroking them with a fur glove.
Sounds amazing "
There you go then. That's tomorrow night taken care of  |
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"Yeah I get that. Just wondering if there was any general like things people really enjoy. Like some people like bondage. Which were up for trying but need advice on things to try.
Ok if you want to try a bit of bondage start small with scarves or ties. Never tie tight and if the person being restrained feels any numbness or tingling don't wait untie them immediately. Always agree beforehand on a word the tied up person can use to bring things to a halt and ALWAYS stop if they use it. You can add a blindfold to make things a bit more interesting. Sometimes tracing an ice cube over someone's body can be fun or stroking them with a fur glove.
Sounds amazing
There you go then. That's tomorrow night taken care of "
Would love some more advice hehe  |
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"Yeah I get that. Just wondering if there was any general like things people really enjoy. Like some people like bondage. Which were up for trying but need advice on things to try.
Ok if you want to try a bit of bondage start small with scarves or ties. Never tie tight and if the person being restrained feels any numbness or tingling don't wait untie them immediately. Always agree beforehand on a word the tied up person can use to bring things to a halt and ALWAYS stop if they use it. You can add a blindfold to make things a bit more interesting. Sometimes tracing an ice cube over someone's body can be fun or stroking them with a fur glove.
Sounds amazing
There you go then. That's tomorrow night taken care of
Would love some more advice hehe "
In what way? |
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"Yeah I get that. Just wondering if there was any general like things people really enjoy. Like some people like bondage. Which were up for trying but need advice on things to try.
Ok if you want to try a bit of bondage start small with scarves or ties. Never tie tight and if the person being restrained feels any numbness or tingling don't wait untie them immediately. Always agree beforehand on a word the tied up person can use to bring things to a halt and ALWAYS stop if they use it. You can add a blindfold to make things a bit more interesting. Sometimes tracing an ice cube over someone's body can be fun or stroking them with a fur glove.
Sounds amazing
There you go then. That's tomorrow night taken care of
Would love some more advice hehe
In what way? "
Anything that’s worth a try
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"Yeah I get that. Just wondering if there was any general like things people really enjoy. Like some people like bondage. Which were up for trying but need advice on things to try.
Ok if you want to try a bit of bondage start small with scarves or ties. Never tie tight and if the person being restrained feels any numbness or tingling don't wait untie them immediately. Always agree beforehand on a word the tied up person can use to bring things to a halt and ALWAYS stop if they use it. You can add a blindfold to make things a bit more interesting. Sometimes tracing an ice cube over someone's body can be fun or stroking them with a fur glove.
Sounds amazing
There you go then. That's tomorrow night taken care of
Would love some more advice hehe
In what way?
Anything that’s worth a try
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Ah now, there's a line to be drawn. Anything I might think is worth a try might not be for you. I'm all for giving people the tools and letting them find out for themselves.
How about you take it in turns to discuss your fantasies and agree on which of them you'd both be willing to try?
Some people love to use toys others hate it, some love oral etc |
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OP you’ve been given some really great tips but it’s also something you need to be discussing together to see what works best you both.
It’s similar to when people ask for profile advice. You can help but you can’t write it for them.
Explore together and have fun!
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