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Submissive introduction evening

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Good morning ...

As an experienced ‘Master Dom’ I’ve come to realise after around 8 years on and off, building my reputation and experience on fab, that so many beautiful ladies who are naturally submissive or feel the urge to test there submissive boundaries, are simply choosing to shy away!

As a result I’m going to hold an informal get together at my home on Thursday 8th August from 8pm for those potential ‘Wannabe’ subs who perhaps do not want to play initially, but would instead like to chat have a little banter, a few drinks and see what the fuss is about ...

I enjoy amateur photography as you can see from my profile and so would be happy to photo shoot anyone who fancied it ...

let’s see what interest I generate ..

Master xx

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By *inkyman1964Man over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

So you expect all the shy subs to suddenly not be shy and turn up at a stranger's house?

Not even a social meet in a public place first?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thankyou for your feedback- I’ve inboxed you with my reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thankyou to Kinkyman for pointing out my omission in my post ...

You will see from my profile that I strictly adhere to a Master Dom’s Creed - this is very important to me and will always be adhered to! The five main elements being

Trust

Respect

Discretion

Honesty

and

Safety !

You’ll also see I have several verifications and have collected many more over the years, but clearly I won’t show the older ones ...

if you have any concerns then by all means inbox me for details and I will send you my reassurances as a genuine Master Dom ...

Master xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thankyou to Kinkyman for pointing out my omission in my post ...

You will see from my profile that I strictly adhere to a Master Dom’s Creed - this is very important to me and will always be adhered to! The five main elements being

Trust

Respect

Discretion

Honesty

and

Safety !

You’ll also see I have several verifications and have collected many more over the years, but clearly I won’t show the older ones ...

if you have any concerns then by all means inbox me for details and I will send you my reassurances as a genuine Master Dom ...

Master xx "

That's great you quoting these as the pillars if BDSM but they are all things that are built up over time and should never be given easily.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Veris and words dont mean much to be honest.

For all those that are interested in knowing more about the kink lifestyle. Go to your public local.munches they are all around the country.

Or go to a kink event at a swingers event.

We suggest never turn up at a strangers house who announces they are dominant.

There are many on here that are fake. By getting involved in the local scene you can meet people who can vouch for doms. Going to local kink events you can see play and learn as well

Most events have house doms so you can even try things.

Keep safe and do it right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also keep.in mind there is differences between masters, doms and daddy doms.

As well as a difference between being submissive and being a slave

You have D/s dom and sub

Then you have M/s master and slave

There is a massive difference.

You can be sub without being a slave.

Also most will identify as one or the other. Not in all cases.

And a D/s or M/s takes time to build these are intense dynamics.

If you are turning up to play in that way your really taking on the role of top and btm.

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By *esterLilacCouple over a year ago

Cheshire

"Good morning ...

I enjoy amateur photography as you can see from my profile and so would be happy to photo shoot anyone who fancied it ...

let’s see what interest I generate ..

Master xx "

An informal ‘get together’ for newbie subs to chat about BDSM at your house. So like a Munch....But you’re only choosing to invite ‘beautiful’ female submissives.

I’ve been on the fet scene for a good few years now. For any curious submissives (Male or Female) get yourself to your local munch. Contact them ahead and say you’re attending alone and you’re a bit nervous or new and they will welcome you with open arms.

My advice to newbies... just because someone claims to be a master or experienced, doesn’t make it so. Lean on your local clubs and groups for introductions to other fetishists, and if you want a Photoshoot, go to a local open Photoshoot or go on one of the photography sites and you can quite easily work with reputable photographers for free.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Also keep.in mind there is differences between masters, doms and daddy doms.

As well as a difference between being submissive and being a slave

You have D/s dom and sub

Then you have M/s master and slave

Agreed

There is a massive difference.

You can be sub without being a slave.

Also most will identify as one or the other. Not in all cases.

And a D/s or M/s takes time to build these are intense dynamics.

If you are turning up to play in that way your really taking on the role of top and btm. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Good morning ...

I enjoy amateur photography as you can see from my profile and so would be happy to photo shoot anyone who fancied it ...

let’s see what interest I generate ..

Master xx

An informal ‘get together’ for newbie subs to chat about BDSM at your house. So like a Munch....But you’re only choosing to invite ‘beautiful’ female submissives.

Couldn’t agree more ...!

But the scene does not revolve around your own scene ... there are many aspects of it and many what’s in which to experience it, simply saying ‘Your way is the right way’ is not correct and very blinkered ... but I appreciate your comments nonetheless ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thankyou to Kinkyman for pointing out my omission in my post ...

You will see from my profile that I strictly adhere to a Master Dom’s Creed - this is very important to me and will always be adhered to! The five main elements being

Trust

Respect

Discretion

Honesty

and

Safety !

You’ll also see I have several verifications and have collected many more over the years, but clearly I won’t show the older ones ...

if you have any concerns then by all means inbox me for details and I will send you my reassurances as a genuine Master Dom ...

Master xx

That's great you quoting these as the pillars if BDSM but they are all things that are built up over time and should never be given easily.

Couldn’t agree more!! Thankyou for your input

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Veris and words dont mean much to be honest.

For all those that are interested in knowing more about the kink lifestyle. Go to your public local.munches they are all around the country.

Or go to a kink event at a swingers event.

We suggest never turn up at a strangers house who announces they are dominant.

There are many on here that are fake. By getting involved in the local scene you can meet people who can vouch for doms. Going to local kink events you can see play and learn as well

Most events have house doms so you can even try things.

Keep safe and do it right

Couldn’t agree more, thankyou for your input

- As I have said not all BDSM / D/s etc revolves around one particular scene or area... it’s varied and diverse ... not everyone wants to share in the clubs, meets in large groups etc ... sometimes keeping it intimate, personal and involves a great deal of discretion is a preferred option ... All good Doms are not known in the scene for that exact reason ...

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By *winkleFairyCouple over a year ago

You need to type your reply under the quote that it automatically puts into the reply box. Otherwise it’s impossible to follow who said what

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Veris and words dont mean much to be honest.

For all those that are interested in knowing more about the kink lifestyle. Go to your public local.munches they are all around the country.

Or go to a kink event at a swingers event.

We suggest never turn up at a strangers house who announces they are dominant.

There are many on here that are fake. By getting involved in the local scene you can meet people who can vouch for doms. Going to local kink events you can see play and learn as well

Most events have house doms so you can even try things.

Keep safe and do it right

Couldn’t agree more, thankyou for your input

Yes it takes discretion but I would still say it's dangerous to attend a strangers house full stop and even more so when you are new to the bdsm scene and you dont know the knowledge or skill of the person calling themself a dom

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not agreed

M "

What you dont agree there is an fundamental difference between a master, a dom or a daddy dom

Or you dint agree that there is a difference between a slave and a sub

Or that a dynamic needs building and growing

Or playnos just that play. It has nothing to do with a D/s or M/s

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By *exyFunAshWoman over a year ago

Mansfield

As.someone that has been around the lifestyle and is a female sub/brat babygirl

My advice is ladies stay well clear of ahy dom that is saying come to my house for an introduction evening.

You have no understanding of how knowledgable that dom is.

Also it can be scary to go to munches ext but this is a safe way.

Or chat and get to know someone do.public social meets etc.

From experience on here there are very few doms that actually know what they are doing but alot of sexually dominant men. There is a big difference

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By *exyFunAshWoman over a year ago

Mansfield

OP if you really want to help.newbies learn about the lifestyle why dont you do a get together for doms domme and subs no matter their gender.

As is just seems you looking for unexpected newbies to take advatage of

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By *istress CockneyWoman over a year ago

LONDON

Every sub is unique in needs, desires and limits.

I personally would never consider this as a way to meet men interested in submissive exploration.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Every sub is unique in needs, desires and limits.

I personally would never consider this as a way to meet men interested in submissive exploration."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Veris and words dont mean much to be honest.

For all those that are interested in knowing more about the kink lifestyle. Go to your public local.munches they are all around the country.

Or go to a kink event at a swingers event.

We suggest never turn up at a strangers house who announces they are dominant.

There are many on here that are fake. By getting involved in the local scene you can meet people who can vouch for doms. Going to local kink events you can see play and learn as well

Most events have house doms so you can even try things.

Keep safe and do it right

Couldn’t agree more, thankyou for your input

As I say I’ve nothing to prove to you, or did I ask for your quotes on here or your personal opinion of me, particularly as you do not know me as a person or a Master Dom. It’s pretty disrespectful of you to state otherwise as I would never give an opinion of you without knowing you .... but it’s a free forum and open to everyone to make comment ...

I am as I state in my profile and have been around the scene for a very long time ... so unless it’s positive comment or a respectful one then it’s better unsaid I think ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As.someone that has been around the lifestyle and is a female sub/brat babygirl

My advice is ladies stay well clear of ahy dom that is saying come to my house for an introduction evening.

You have no understanding of how knowledgable that dom is.

Also it can be scary to go to munches ext but this is a safe way.

Or chat and get to know someone do.public social meets etc.

From experience on here there are very few doms that actually know what they are doing but alot of sexually dominant men. There is a big difference "

Oh dear ! ... okay Thankyou for your input

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Every sub is unique in needs, desires and limits.

I personally would never consider this as a way to meet men interested in submissive exploration."

Thankyou for your input ... my style has stood me in good for many many years ... but I appreciate your opinion

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By *istress CockneyWoman over a year ago

LONDON

"Veris and words dont mean much to be honest.

For all those that are interested in knowing more about the kink lifestyle. Go to your public local.munches they are all around the country.

Or go to a kink event at a swingers event.

We suggest never turn up at a strangers house who announces they are dominant.

There are many on here that are fake. By getting involved in the local scene you can meet people who can vouch for doms. Going to local kink events you can see play and learn as well

Most events have house doms so you can even try things.

Keep safe and do it right

Couldn’t agree more, thankyou for your input

I am as I state in my profile and have been around the scene for a very long time ... so unless it’s positive comment or a respectful one then it’s better unsaid I think ...

M "

OP forum posts will produce a range of responses and quite rightly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP if you really want to help.newbies learn about the lifestyle why dont you do a get together for doms domme and subs no matter their gender.

As is just seems you looking for unexpected newbies to take advatage of

The meeting was very specific to a type or genre of sub or potential sub .. whether it being a Couple, FF or F ... the current list I have is going to be shortlisted and then full contact made ... it’s a very personal and unique meeting ... ‘Bespoke’

I do not seek or want experienced Subs at this meet.... But I Thankyou for your input ..

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

This is an absolutely terrible idea, and honestly OP, reading some of your responses has only made me feel worse about the idea.

New subs do not need to go to your house for you to explain the scene to them, you've stated yourself that there are many aspects to the scene, you will only be telling them about how YOU view the scene, they would be much better off going to a munch or a newbie event at a fetish club where they can see a wide range of aspects, not just your 'master dom' side.

Honestly, you actually make me feel uncomfortable, so how would these ladies feel so you think?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Veris and words dont mean much to be honest.

For all those that are interested in knowing more about the kink lifestyle. Go to your public local.munches they are all around the country.

Or go to a kink event at a swingers event.

We suggest never turn up at a strangers house who announces they are dominant.

There are many on here that are fake. By getting involved in the local scene you can meet people who can vouch for doms. Going to local kink events you can see play and learn as well

Most events have house doms so you can even try things.

Keep safe and do it right

Couldn’t agree more, thankyou for your input

I am as I state in my profile and have been around the scene for a very long time ... so unless it’s positive comment or a respectful one then it’s better unsaid I think ...

OP forum posts will produce a range of responses and quite rightly!"

I agree and rightly so ... it’s an open forum for that very reason , but it’s not here to make personal assumptions on any individual or individuals ... Respect is also required in such a forum ... I’m happy to discuss my style to anyone if there unsure who or what I’m about .... this is my first delve into the open forum and wow it’s opened my eyes haha ... I’ve enjoyed it though !

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This is an absolutely terrible idea, and honestly OP, reading some of your responses has only made me feel worse about the idea.

Honestly, you actually make me feel uncomfortable, so how would these ladies feel so you think? "

I can only apologise if this makes you feel uncomfortable and of course you have the option of not reading it?

But i accept my style is not for everyone especially you it seems

....

However as I have said, it’s stood me in good stead for many years as a Master Dom ...

To be frank I’ve attended and visited several fetish events over the years, and would never recommend them to any potential sub or couple.. there riddled sadly with fakes, wannabes and inexperienced Doms ... I’ve known many subs over the years who would agree with me from there own experiences ...

But again as with the other comments on this open forum ... Thankyou for your input

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By *esterLilacCouple over a year ago

Cheshire

"This is an absolutely terrible idea, and honestly OP, reading some of your responses has only made me feel worse about the idea.

Honestly, you actually make me feel uncomfortable, so how would these ladies feel so you think? "

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"This is an absolutely terrible idea, and honestly OP, reading some of your responses has only made me feel worse about the idea.

Honestly, you actually make me feel uncomfortable, so how would these ladies feel so you think?

I can only apologise if this makes you feel uncomfortable and of course you have the option of not reading it?

But i accept my style is not for everyone especially you it seems

....

However as I have said, it’s stood me in good stead for many years as a Master Dom ...

But again as with the other comments on this open forum ... Thankyou for your input

M "

I was actually on the fet scene before swinging, I have been to events, parties etc and you do get 'wannabe' doms, most of whom I've seen doing exactly what you're doing, pulling subs away from the scene and showing them only one aspect of what fet can be about.

It actually really concerns me that you want to do this and keep referring to yourself as a 'master dom', you're only either of those things if someone chooses to give you their submission.

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By *esterLilacCouple over a year ago

Cheshire

"This is an absolutely terrible idea, and honestly OP, reading some of your responses has only made me feel worse about the idea.

Honestly, you actually make me feel uncomfortable, so how would these ladies feel so you think?

I can only apologise if this makes you feel uncomfortable and of course you have the option of not reading it?

But i accept my style is not for everyone especially you it seems

....

However as I have said, it’s stood me in good stead for many years as a Master Dom ...

But again as with the other comments on this open forum ... Thankyou for your input

It actually really concerns me that you want to do this and keep referring to yourself as a 'master dom', you're only either of those things if someone chooses to give you their submission."

Usually the ‘experienced ones’ that shy away from clubs, events and munches are usually the ones I used to avoid.

For anyone reading, definitely seek out an organised event. For newbie female subs... approach other female subs online. They’ll point you in the right direction of local organised events.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This is an absolutely terrible idea, and honestly OP, reading some of your responses has only made me feel worse about the idea.

Honestly, you actually make me feel uncomfortable, so how would these ladies feel so you think?

I can only apologise if this makes you feel uncomfortable and of course you have the option of not reading it?

But i accept my style is not for everyone especially you it seems

....

However as I have said, it’s stood me in good stead for many years as a Master Dom ...

But again as with the other comments on this open forum ... Thankyou for your input

It actually really concerns me that you want to do this and keep referring to yourself as a 'master dom', you're only either of those things if someone chooses to give you their submission."

Sorry I did not understand the last part of your response? It did not make sense? ..

As I have said in this forum, I’m simply a Master Dom who chooses not to go to clubs or events for the reasons outlined ... this is not a compulsory element of D/s ... I have a very busy and fulfilling personal life outside of this part of me ..

I have been playing my part over many years very successfully and have met some truly wonderful people, some of whom are very good friends of mine now so please please do not get hung up on my offer to host a get together ... if your not happy then that’s absolutely fine and I appreciate your concerns but really the lifestyle does not revolve around clubs and events .. honestly t doesn’t... perhaps it’s time you pushed your own boundaries .... as always I’m happy to receive positive general comments from anyone ..

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This is an absolutely terrible idea, and honestly OP, reading some of your responses has only made me feel worse about the idea.

Honestly, you actually make me feel uncomfortable, so how would these ladies feel so you think?

I can only apologise if this makes you feel uncomfortable and of course you have the option of not reading it?

But i accept my style is not for everyone especially you it seems

....

However as I have said, it’s stood me in good stead for many years as a Master Dom ...

But again as with the other comments on this open forum ... Thankyou for your input

It actually really concerns me that you want to do this and keep referring to yourself as a 'master dom', you're only either of those things if someone chooses to give you their submission.

Usually the ‘experienced ones’ that shy away from clubs, events and munches are usually the ones I used to avoid.

For anyone reading, definitely seek out an organised event. For newbie female subs... approach other female subs online. They’ll point you in the right direction of local organised events. "

I agree to a certain extent ... we’re all adults and all aware of our personal safety .. god knows you need it on fab!!

But I’d say also never shut yourself from anything that can enhance your experience .. clearly if your not happy or do not want to meet then this is a personal choice and not compulsory

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Veris and words dont mean much to be honest.

For all those that are interested in knowing more about the kink lifestyle. Go to your public local.munches they are all around the country.

Or go to a kink event at a swingers event.

We suggest never turn up at a strangers house who announces they are dominant.

There are many on here that are fake. By getting involved in the local scene you can meet people who can vouch for doms. Going to local kink events you can see play and learn as well

Most events have house doms so you can even try things.

Keep safe and do it right

Couldn’t agree more, thankyou for your input

I am as I state in my profile and have been around the scene for a very long time ... so unless it’s positive comment or a respectful one then it’s better unsaid I think ...

M "

Your getting upset when I have made no personal.comments about you.

All we have done is put the opinion about safety and another way of doing it.

None of it has been directed at you or your skill the fact that you highlight that its personal makes us laugh

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"This is an absolutely terrible idea, and honestly OP, reading some of your responses has only made me feel worse about the idea.

Honestly, you actually make me feel uncomfortable, so how would these ladies feel so you think?

I can only apologise if this makes you feel uncomfortable and of course you have the option of not reading it?

But i accept my style is not for everyone especially you it seems

....

However as I have said, it’s stood me in good stead for many years as a Master Dom ...

But again as with the other comments on this open forum ... Thankyou for your input

It actually really concerns me that you want to do this and keep referring to yourself as a 'master dom', you're only either of those things if someone chooses to give you their submission.

Sorry I did not understand the last part of your response? It did not make sense? ..

Thankyou

M "

Unfortunately you are likely to get negative comments when you post something like this on an open forum.

I have explored and pushed my boundaries in safe places, not some 'master doms' house, someone I've never met, spoken to, and who expects me to trust his knowledge based on some verifications on a swinging website.

If you look at it from the other side of the argument, you might see what we are trying to do. Encourage these new subs to meet in a safe place, why not organise your get together in a quiet pub?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Veris and words dont mean much to be honest.

For all those that are interested in knowing more about the kink lifestyle. Go to your public local.munches they are all around the country.

Or go to a kink event at a swingers event.

We suggest never turn up at a strangers house who announces they are dominant.

There are many on here that are fake. By getting involved in the local scene you can meet people who can vouch for doms. Going to local kink events you can see play and learn as well

Most events have house doms so you can even try things.

Keep safe and do it right

Couldn’t agree more, thankyou for your input

I am as I state in my profile and have been around the scene for a very long time ... so unless it’s positive comment or a respectful one then it’s better unsaid I think ...

Your getting upset when I have made no personal.comments about you.

All we have done is put the opinion about safety and another way of doing it.

None of it has been directed at you or your skill the fact that you highlight that its personal makes us laugh "

Thankyou for the response and note your comments ... I would like to wish your well for the future ...

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By *exyFunAshWoman over a year ago

Mansfield

"OP if you really want to help.newbies learn about the lifestyle why dont you do a get together for doms domme and subs no matter their gender.

As is just seems you looking for unexpected newbies to take advatage of

I do not seek or want experienced Subs at this meet.... But I Thankyou for your input ..

See for someone that has been on the scene for a long time and have had long term D/s relationships I feel your response was dismissive.

I did not say anything about experienced subs I was saying if it was a genuine social get tougher to ask questions about the lifestyle open it up to all newbies.

The fact that you responded how you have just shows that all you are trying g to do is get laid and it has nothing to do with bothering advice and answering questions to newbies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This is an absolutely terrible idea, and honestly OP, reading some of your responses has only made me feel worse about the idea.

Honestly, you actually make me feel uncomfortable, so how would these ladies feel so you think?

I can only apologise if this makes you feel uncomfortable and of course you have the option of not reading it?

But i accept my style is not for everyone especially you it seems

....

However as I have said, it’s stood me in good stead for many years as a Master Dom ...

But again as with the other comments on this open forum ... Thankyou for your input

It actually really concerns me that you want to do this and keep referring to yourself as a 'master dom', you're only either of those things if someone chooses to give you their submission.

Sorry I did not understand the last part of your response? It did not make sense? ..

Thankyou

Unfortunately you are likely to get negative comments when you post something like this on an open forum.

If you look at it from the other side of the argument, you might see what we are trying to do. Encourage these new subs to meet in a safe place, why not organise your get together in a quiet pub? "

I could not agree more with you .... My style is a million miles from simply expecting anyone wether that be a couple or a single female from attending my home off the back of a couple of messages! That’s ridiculous ... as I’ve said, once interest is generated then contact is initiated and the process of building trust to enable a situation where a visit can take place or not as the case may be .... (personal choice)

I have Safety features in place I have used over many years that creates this environment.

My home contains a room that I have built and developed over many years. This contains various furniture and structures that can only be used in my home. You’ll see some of these in my photos I’ve produced.

Once trust is achieved with anyone then there is nothing more fulfilling than a meet in this way, away from the masses of couples and Doms scrambling around in clubs and at events ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good morning ...

I enjoy amateur photography as you can see from my profile and so would be happy to photo shoot anyone who fancied it ...

let’s see what interest I generate ..

Master xx "

We could actually get into a "debate" here about this whole thread

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"This is an absolutely terrible idea, and honestly OP, reading some of your responses has only made me feel worse about the idea.

Honestly, you actually make me feel uncomfortable, so how would these ladies feel so you think?

I can only apologise if this makes you feel uncomfortable and of course you have the option of not reading it?

But i accept my style is not for everyone especially you it seems

....

However as I have said, it’s stood me in good stead for many years as a Master Dom ...

But again as with the other comments on this open forum ... Thankyou for your input

It actually really concerns me that you want to do this and keep referring to yourself as a 'master dom', you're only either of those things if someone chooses to give you their submission.

Sorry I did not understand the last part of your response? It did not make sense? ..

Thankyou

Unfortunately you are likely to get negative comments when you post something like this on an open forum.

If you look at it from the other side of the argument, you might see what we are trying to do. Encourage these new subs to meet in a safe place, why not organise your get together in a quiet pub?

I have Safety features in place I have used over many years that creates this environment.

Once trust is achieved with anyone then there is nothing more fulfilling than a meet in this way, away from the masses of couples and Doms scrambling around in clubs and at events ...

But you've decided that in 1 weeks time you want these potential subs to come to your house? Surely you can't build trust with multiple women in 1 week?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP if you really want to help.newbies learn about the lifestyle why dont you do a get together for doms domme and subs no matter their gender.

As is just seems you looking for unexpected newbies to take advatage of

I do not seek or want experienced Subs at this meet.... But I Thankyou for your input ..

See for someone that has been on the scene for a long time and have had long term D/s relationships I feel your response was dismissive.

I did not say anything about experienced subs I was saying if it was a genuine social get tougher to ask questions about the lifestyle open it up to all newbies.

The fact that you responded how you have just shows that all you are trying g to do is get laid and it has nothing to do with bothering advice and answering questions to newbies "

Thankyou for your input ... your entitled to your opinion so thankyou.

I clearly think your wrong and you have misinterpreted my response and have seen it as I would expect someone who attends events and clubs would interpret it... as always i appreciate your comments albeit I don’t agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This is an absolutely terrible idea, and honestly OP, reading some of your responses has only made me feel worse about the idea.

Honestly, you actually make me feel uncomfortable, so how would these ladies feel so you think?

I can only apologise if this makes you feel uncomfortable and of course you have the option of not reading it?

But i accept my style is not for everyone especially you it seems

....

However as I have said, it’s stood me in good stead for many years as a Master Dom ...

But again as with the other comments on this open forum ... Thankyou for your input

It actually really concerns me that you want to do this and keep referring to yourself as a 'master dom', you're only either of those things if someone chooses to give you their submission.

Sorry I did not understand the last part of your response? It did not make sense? ..

Thankyou

Unfortunately you are likely to get negative comments when you post something like this on an open forum.

If you look at it from the other side of the argument, you might see what we are trying to do. Encourage these new subs to meet in a safe place, why not organise your get together in a quiet pub?

I have Safety features in place I have used over many years that creates this environment.

Once trust is achieved with anyone then there is nothing more fulfilling than a meet in this way, away from the masses of couples and Doms scrambling around in clubs and at events ...

But you've decided that in 1 weeks time you want these potential subs to come to your house? Surely you can't build trust with multiple women in 1 week? "

Yes that’s right... I’m genuine, pure and simple. Once phone and messenger contact is initiated

Then this is a simple process just to enable the occasion to go ahead safely ... if I were not genuine then this would be quickly identified do you not think?

Clearly then if any D/s relationship were to progress ... the real trust element begins along with the implementation of my own Creed I’ve developed over the years

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By *exyFunAshWoman over a year ago

Mansfield

"OP if you really want to help.newbies learn about the lifestyle why dont you do a get together for doms domme and subs no matter their gender.

As is just seems you looking for unexpected newbies to take advatage of

I do not seek or want experienced Subs at this meet.... But I Thankyou for your input ..

See for someone that has been on the scene for a long time and have had long term D/s relationships I feel your response was dismissive.

I did not say anything about experienced subs I was saying if it was a genuine social get tougher to ask questions about the lifestyle open it up to all newbies.

The fact that you responded how you have just shows that all you are trying g to do is get laid and it has nothing to do with bothering advice and answering questions to newbies

Thankyou for your input ... your entitled to your opinion so thankyou.

M "

No I have not misinterpreted my response. And I actually play more out of clubs nd events with a dom that has spent weeks and months building me up and earning my trust.

Yes I Hve been to clubs and events and it was a great place for me to learn and ask questions without someone having an alternative meeting.

The fact you are dismissive of what is being said on here makes me smile.

The general response from those commenting is safery first and speak to people if your new and make friends with other submissive so you have someone to ask questions of.

Also go to events and munches.

All of these are valid and safe options for new people as you get many different views of what D/s and M/s is. And the important differents on what titles people wear etc.