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Hi! Inexperienced looking for mates and advice
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi there
So long story short! Use to think I was gay until about 2 years ago!
Know it’s odd as it’s normally the other way round (straight guys getting Bi curiosities etc) but here I am.
Bit nervous as experience with women is limited but very keen to meet a horny couple or single female who will be sensitive to my situation.
Happy fabbing everyone! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best way to get going in this lifestyle is to attend socials and clubs. Scared the life out of me going to a club first time on my own, it was so out of my comfort zone but now I absolutley love it. |
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"Best way to get going in this lifestyle is to attend socials and clubs. Scared the life out of me going to a club first time on my own, it was so out of my comfort zone but now I absolutley love it. "
Well said! Go to clubs and talk to people. Swingers are the friendliest people around |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi there
So long story short! Use to think I was gay until about 2 years ago!
Know it’s odd as it’s normally the other way round (straight guys getting Bi curiosities etc) but here I am.
Bit nervous as experience with women is limited but very keen to meet a horny couple or single female who will be sensitive to my situation.
Happy fabbing everyone! X"
so youre str8 curious? |
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You're in a good part of the country to start your search. I used to live in Bognor and Worthing so know the area. I'm sure there will be a social or two close by, take the plunge and see how it goes.
Unfortunately bi guys can struggle on here, but I truly hope you find what you're looking for  |
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Sexual orientation is potentially fluid, rather than static and doesn't just adjust in one direction.
Perhaps you could consider bi nights at clubs, so that you'd be able to explore, potentially with less pressure? As people of all genders would be there, it gives opportunity to mix things up a bit. You'd also potentially meet and get to know others for meets away from the club too. Your confidence and understanding of your broader interests may develop refreshingly easy, where you're involved with multiple people, in less constrained ways than on more fixed meets arranged privately. |
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"Sexual orientation is potentially fluid, rather than static and doesn't just adjust in one direction.
Perhaps you could consider bi nights at clubs, so that you'd be able to explore, potentially with less pressure? As people of all genders would be there, it gives opportunity to mix things up a bit. You'd also potentially meet and get to know others for meets away from the club too. Your confidence and understanding of your broader interests may develop refreshingly easy, where you're involved with multiple people, in less constrained ways than on more fixed meets arranged privately."
This, must admit when I've been to bi nights it's easier to meet a great range of people |
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