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How did you get into swinging?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

First off Hi to everyone. I was curious on how people first came (excuse the pun) into finding swinging was for them, I know the obvious answer is 'SEX' but wondered if anyone had any other reason behind it. For me well I found it by accident. It started when I was at my local gym and I went for a sauna and forgot my trunks do I just used my towel, I had a feeling of freeness and excitement as it was empty I ditched the towel and felt such a rebel. So next step was to find a naturist spa which I found but was also a swingers club after my first visit i thought wow this is the way forward. So I guess I went from being forgetful to grateful.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I got a book from the library

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I got a book from the library

Was it intentional or were you a fan of swings?

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple over a year ago

Boldon

I got into it by accident - was on another site - nothing to do with swinging, met this guy for fabulous sex and after chatting he said that he felt I was more of a swinger as wanted a rapport and friendship with my meets so we sat there and I joined up - got an almost instant verification from him and never looked back - he was right - I am a swinger rather than just on the look out for the next shag!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was dating someone and we got onto talking about fantasies, as you do. I said I'd always been intrigued by the idea of playing with another woman and his answer was "well there are sites you can go to for that." I was very innocent and had always assumed swinging was just the stereotype of wife swapping...

He'd been on the scene for years and introduced me to another web site and it went from there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was doing a very demanding job at the time that involved lots of working away and was nt exactly the safest work I ve ever done. This cost me a long term relationship as I had got addicted to the buzz of the work. I decided my ex was right to leave me but a bloke has needs lol and it suited my lifestyle. Some very good friends were members of this site and they suggested i had a go.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always new i was BI , and had a few Bi friends, but when i met my first wife ,i wan working away from home ,and came home on extended leave and litlary found her in my bed with another guy ,big row ,but we made it up, for a few months i new she was seing men ,and ,sounds corny but loved dipping it into her when i new she was full of cum ,and going down on her was heaven ,a guys cum and hers , she did not no at this point i was BI,, so one night in bed i told her i knew she was still seing other guys ,and sujested she took them back hear ,things moved from there we had quiet a few sexy meets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have been bi since I was very young

When I was 17 I started going to a normal sauna and in the quiet times you got to know who ya could play with

That lead to blokes taking me home to play with and in front of their wives

I got to know their friends and so on

It's nearly thirty years and three long term swinging relationships later I find myself still here lol xx

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By *weet DevilMan over a year ago

dukinfield

i had a 3 some at a very early age and thought wow that was good ! as the internet came into being it really took off and never looked back enjoy all types of fun nowadays and more importantly i have met some great peeps who are genuine friends what more could one ask

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By *exy n up 4 itCouple over a year ago

western isles

me and now wife had been together a few years and in that time had both been caught out having a bit of outside interests!! We both got over it and stayed together as we loved each other so much but when that opportunity for a bit of sexual excitement came along we had both succumbed to the thrill!!

After much chat about the whys and wherefors we realised we both wanted to have that extra excitement in our lives but couldnt stand the thought of losing the other so swinging eventually became the natural conclusion................ we both love it, have loads of fun and find the most excitement is telling each other about what we have done and felt about it all!!! We find ourselves far stronger and more in love than ever and our own sex life is the best its ever been xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I got a book from the library

Was it intentional or were you a fan of swings?

Okay seriously, I was on a social network type site, chatted to a guy on there, he asked if I had ever tried swinging, told him was on a site but wasn't getting anywhere, he told me about this one and here I am 2.5 years later

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By *rifters22Couple over a year ago

Manchester/malta

we took our bridemaid to bed after the wedding reception due to a few drinks, that was just over 40yrs ago and we never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was always curious probably due to seeing it in porn! I was 17 and met a late 20's couple on a phone-chat line... they picked me up one night after-work in his van and we drove out to a park and shagged in the back of the van... never looked back!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I met a guy on the chatlines and he took me to Cupids. I realised it was just the sort of thing I loved doing and so carried on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"we took our bridemaid to bed after the wedding reception due to a few drinks, that was just over 40yrs ago and we never looked back.

Maybe thats why all these recent marriages are not lasting wedding orgies are the future

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

had a chat with wife, and joined last year, but really took off after xmas, and now she enjoys camming and chat!! been to our 1st club (H ON E)ans really enjoyed that too !!!

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple over a year ago

Boldon

"we took our bridemaid to bed after the wedding reception due to a few drinks, that was just over 40yrs ago and we never looked back.

Maybe thats why all these recent marriages are not lasting wedding orgies are the future

We're going to a wedding in July that will have swingers at it - both me and mrshields will be 'joining the bride and groom' later

. Also, when we get married, ours will be a swinging wedding with all our girlie friends form the chat rooms as bridesmaids - who wants to be best man lol

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

Was looking for garden play equipment and..... nah lol!

Actually, we have a great sex life together, and we talked a lot during sex about fantasies, the more we talked, the more turned on we got, and eventually we decided to see about making one or two fantasies reality.... tried one or two other sites with very limited success, and then someone mentioned this site and we havent looked back since!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just wanted sex

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By *landPeggyCouple over a year ago

Holland !

hmmmm, Elvis ( in Vegas ) just dropped a place in our remarriage possibility plans.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple over a year ago

hexham

Kev and i shared fantsises, including sharing the cock of his best mate...we decieded to make it happen, few drinks in the student union bar and he was happy to help...we had a three way relationship for the next 3 years and are still good mates.

We didnt consider ourselves swingers, despite various 3 somes over the years and having a pretty much open relationship ,until we went online. We considered swinging to be wife swapping...now we know better

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"we took our bridemaid to bed after the wedding reception due to a few drinks, that was just over 40yrs ago and we never looked back.

Maybe thats why all these recent marriages are not lasting wedding orgies are the future

We're going to a wedding in July that will have swingers at it - both me and mrshields will be 'joining the bride and groom' later

. Also, when we get married, ours will be a swinging wedding with all our girlie friends form the chat rooms as bridesmaids - who wants to be best man lol

Every wedding should have a swingers table

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By *ibrosMan over a year ago

harrow

As a single guy I didn't consider myself a swinger. I was just looking for sex.

Now I know better and that swinging is for singles and couples. Things really took off once I started going to socials and clubs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we were talking about sexual fantasies and we both said that, after being wed for nearly 25yrs, that we'd like to experience sex with someone else, but neither of us wanted to cheat on the other.

We talked about swinging, and although we didn't know any swingers, we thought we'd explore, and so a new fantasy started.

We talked some more and decided to turn the fantasy into reality

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We talked about it for a few years before actually doing anything. It just seemed to be a natural progression in our sex life and we flipping love it!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A guy I met on another normal site introduced me when we had sex on cam and i loved it

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