FabSwingers.com > Forums > Introductions > The elusive first meet....
The elusive first meet....
Jump to: Newest in thread
| |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
Hope you enjoy your meet though! | |||
| |||
| |||
 | |||
"I'm going to be quitting soon! hehe Thanks hunny xx "Just ignore me and smoke if you want to - good luck with your meet x | |||
 | |||
"Thanks, am really quite nervous though "Just make out like you meet all the time, be confident and respectful and put your fag out before you go in (so to speak)!!!! | |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
"Thanks for the advice everyone - will think about the cock pic thing bit like eating the cake whole dont you think? " I personally prefer not to see pics of penis's, much rather a nice face/torso and even though yours are blacked out you can practically still make it out - get rid altogether and wait for a request to see it | |||
"Thanks for the advice everyone - will think about the cock pic thing bit like eating the cake whole dont you think? I personally prefer not to see pics of penis's, much rather a nice face/torso and even though yours are blacked out you can practically still make it out - get rid altogether and wait for a request to see it "meant to read "is blacked out" lol | |||
"Hey, thanks for reading. Well I've been on here about 7 months now and finally got a meet sorted out. I know couples are all different and have different rules etc, but are there any set 'rules' or etiquette to follow when doing this? Obviously respect is the main issue and will always do what they wish. Also I have noticed some types of elitism on here I mean e.g 'no varifications dont bother talking to us' I mean come on - everyone started out on here with nothing etc so why be like that or not even getting a 'no thanks' if I'm not their type? What are others views on this subject or if anyone wants to add anything please do. PS any 'seasoned pros' here looking at my profile, if you see anything that can be improved on, please make suggestions." Ok, from a constructive point of view, I haven't even looked at your profile. Didn't get that far 
Why? Because you say respect is the main issue then in the next sentence start going on about eliteism and specifically refer to not getting a "no thanks".
To me that says, actually I'm just saying the respect word because it's what people want to hear, but in reality I don't a trually respect other people's choice on whether they reply to me or don't want to waste their time with people unverified etc...
Sorry if that sounds harsh, just being honest. And I appreciate your asking for advice but thought I'd help point out just how easy it is to give a different impression from the one you believe you are giving.
Forums are very unforgiving places and I'm sure there will be people who look at what I write and discount us.... That's their choice.
Hopefully this will be seen as it was intended just a bit of advice. I do think none of us should have to worry too much about what we put, but unfortunately that's just how it is.
Hope that helps.
Thanks
Dave.
| |||
| |||
  | |||
"Cos i asked in chat what they reckon on cock shots in profiles and they said its normally a no no - plus if you wanna see them, just friend request." yeah that would mean dont show the pics, not show pics with it blanked out lol. just replace them with a body shot wearing boxers or something if you want to show your chest etc off blacking out is just going to confuse people and maybe think that you done a bigger blackout than you should of, either way they meant dont put pics like that up, even if blacked out lol i just write on my profile that them ruder pics are on for my friends list so ask if you want to see | |||
"Hey, thanks for reading. Well I've been on here about 7 months now and finally got a meet sorted out. I know couples are all different and have different rules etc, but are there any set 'rules' or etiquette to follow when doing this? Obviously respect is the main issue and will always do what they wish. Also I have noticed some types of elitism on here I mean e.g 'no varifications dont bother talking to us' I mean come on - everyone started out on here with nothing etc so why be like that or not even getting a 'no thanks' if I'm not their type? What are others views on this subject or if anyone wants to add anything please do. PS any 'seasoned pros' here looking at my profile, if you see anything that can be improved on, please make suggestions. Ok, from a constructive point of view, I haven't even looked at your profile. Didn't get that far
Why? Because you say respect is the main issue then in the next sentence start going on about eliteism and specifically refer to not getting a "no thanks".
To me that says, actually I'm just saying the respect word because it's what people want to hear, but in reality I don't a trually respect other people's choice on whether they reply to me or don't want to waste their time with people unverified etc...
Sorry if that sounds harsh, just being honest. And I appreciate your asking for advice but thought I'd help point out just how easy it is to give a different impression from the one you believe you are giving.
Forums are very unforgiving places and I'm sure there will be people who look at what I write and discount us.... That's their choice.
Hopefully this will be seen as it was intended just a bit of advice. I do think none of us should have to worry too much about what we put, but unfortunately that's just how it is.
Hope that helps.
Thanks
Dave.
"yeah i know what you mean, like quite a non pushy, easy going fun guy who likes a laugh and yeah im very respectfull too. but i dont need to write it on my profile, thats something for people to find out about you and make their own minds up if your respectfull and easy going or not. its something that should come accross from the messages you send. you also never want anything negative on your profile at all. of course they be people who act ways you dont like on this site, thats a given, talk about what you do like the positives not the negatives. and always your profile must give the people viewing it the thought of "phroaarr yes please" so sell yourself, put up photos of yourself looking the best (quality over quanitity everytime, as one bad photo kills 10 great ones) stuff about you being respectfull etc is for others to make their mind up, once you had a few meets, if thats the case then people will mention it in your verifications. just take a look at my profile, i list my selling points, say a little what im like without going on and on, ive put up some choice photos of myself to get some attraction on the go, and i had a meet in my first week and never looked back. profile should make them go phroarrr and fancy you and list your positive points without sounding like your bragging or bullshitting verifications should say what people think about you and what your like in the bedroom the sort of stuff people write about you on your verifications you shouldnt really write about yourself, as anyone can say that and it means next to nothing even if true unless it comes from the mouth of another! | |||
| |||
"Hey, thanks for reading. Well I've been on here about 7 months now and finally got a meet sorted out. I know couples are all different and have different rules etc, but are there any set 'rules' or etiquette to follow when doing this? Obviously respect is the main issue and will always do what they wish. Also I have noticed some types of elitism on here I mean e.g 'no varifications dont bother talking to us' I mean come on - everyone started out on here with nothing etc so why be like that or not even getting a 'no thanks' if I'm not their type? What are others views on this subject or if anyone wants to add anything please do. PS any 'seasoned pros' here looking at my profile, if you see anything that can be improved on, please make suggestions. Ok, from a constructive point of view, I haven't even looked at your profile. Didn't get that far
Why? Because you say respect is the main issue then in the next sentence start going on about eliteism and specifically refer to not getting a "no thanks".
To me that says, actually I'm just saying the respect word because it's what people want to hear, but in reality I don't a trually respect other people's choice on whether they reply to me or don't want to waste their time with people unverified etc...
Sorry if that sounds harsh, just being honest. And I appreciate your asking for advice but thought I'd help point out just how easy it is to give a different impression from the one you believe you are giving.
Forums are very unforgiving places and I'm sure there will be people who look at what I write and discount us.... That's their choice.
Hopefully this will be seen as it was intended just a bit of advice. I do think none of us should have to worry too much about what we put, but unfortunately that's just how it is.
Hope that helps.
Thanks
Dave.
yeah i know what you mean, like quite a non pushy, easy going fun guy who likes a laugh and yeah im very respectfull too.
but i dont need to write it on my profile, thats something for people to find out about you and make their own minds up if your respectfull and easy going or not.
its something that should come accross from the messages you send.
you also never want anything negative on your profile at all. of course they be people who act ways you dont like on this site, thats a given, talk about what you do like the positives not the negatives.
and always your profile must give the people viewing it the thought of "phroaarr yes please" so sell yourself, put up photos of yourself looking the best (quality over quanitity everytime, as one bad photo kills 10 great ones)
stuff about you being respectfull etc is for others to make their mind up, once you had a few meets, if thats the case then people will mention it in your verifications.
just take a look at my profile, i list my selling points, say a little what im like without going on and on, ive put up some choice photos of myself to get some attraction on the go, and i had a meet in my first week and never looked back.
profile should make them go phroarrr and fancy you and list your positive points without sounding like your bragging or bullshitting
verifications should say what people think about you and what your like in the bedroom
the sort of stuff people write about you on your verifications you shouldnt really write about yourself, as anyone can say that and it means next to nothing even if true unless it comes from the mouth of another!" to both of the above.
As for rules, they vary from meet to meet, so the only paople who can help are the couple you are meeting...ask them ,it shows you are respectful far moe than saying it on your profile. | |||
x | |||
| |||
