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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everybody. I used to swing with my ex wife and had a great time, met some great couples and a good time was had by all. My current young wife is not up for it though (not a problem) but I still fancy a dabble, even just a bit of watching maybe. But I seem to be excluded from approach because of my age. I could lie I suppose on the profile, but I am honest and certainly not an old codger. So how about cutting out the age preferences and simply looking at the profiles to decide who tickles your fancy. I am certainly up for tickling your fancy and making you smile !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But, if someone has said 'you're too old for us' then you are too old ... similarly, if someone says 'great, come join us' then you're not ..
I've been told I'm too young, ce la vie...
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By *ppleby11Couple
over a year ago
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Aren't you in the situation where a club may be more appropriate.
Watching may well be an option and people will judge you on you as a person as opposed to what is written on a website.
Just a thought.
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"The fact that you are married and playing alone will have more of a baring than your age "
If you knew you liked swinging why did you marry someone who wasnt into it...especially if you knew you had no intention of giving up? |
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"Hi everybody. I used to swing with my ex wife and had a great time, met some great couples and a good time was had by all. My current young wife is not up for it though (not a problem) but I still fancy a dabble, even just a bit of watching maybe. But I seem to be excluded from approach because of my age. I could lie I suppose on the profile, but I am honest and certainly not an old codger. So how about cutting out the age preferences and simply looking at the profiles to decide who tickles your fancy. I am certainly up for tickling your fancy and making you smile !!!"
I am quite a bit older than you, but still get my share of meets, so it's certainly not age that's doing it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
Taken on board all your comments for which I thank you. I agree with the comments that I already have a young wife that is unaware and I wish to play alone, but thought that I would be honest with everybody on here. Which is why my profile is a bit longer than most. |
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