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Helloooo

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hey everyone, I'm jay, been on here a couple of weeks now, this is the first websute/forum/dating whatever you wanna call it, I've ever signed up for.

Read a lot of negative reviews before I signed up, but ya know, I thought I'd just jump in and make my own mind up.

So far I think it's really cool. I think your all great,really welcoming, accepting.

I came on here with an open mind, didn't really expect anything, I know I'm not perfect, definitely no angel either, but I haven't really been able to connect with anyone, which is fine, I accept I'm not everyones cup of tea,

But to be honest, it's just making me feel a bit of a freak, ugly,unwanted,

Which is a bit shit at times! Don't think anyone should ever feel down on themselves, big up yaself always!

Just wondered if anyone has or is feeling the same on here?

What did you do? Did you stick with fab? Should I stay or should I go?

Any advice ,insight would be most welcome,

Unsure wether to stick with this ,or just delete and move on, I'm patient, very patient, but I'm not a fantasist.

I see you all having great times, just wanted to get involved really! I'm really not so bad once people get to know me, anyway hope you all good and smashing Easter weekend, like I said any advice would be most welcome.

Thanks for reading

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

A man with two laundry baskets is impressive

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lol, ya know what, really good point! Im a good clean man,even know how to work the washing machine lol and i didnt really think to remove em from photo, I like it ina way, it's real, unedited, .

Anyway thanks your comment did make me laugh! Got coffee everywhere

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By *viatrixWoman over a year ago

Redhill

You’ve got one verification within 7 weeks of joining- that is not bad at all.

If you want to get involved in the swinging scene, my suggestion would be to attend organised social events- with likeminded people who are all very welcoming and nice.

As far as connecting with people on the site- it’s a matter of look, look and keep looking until you strike gold. I know I have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeah, ones better than none I suppose.! Have been thinking about attending the club's, heard eurekas is ace, also these cougar and cub nights, everyone rates them, think I will Deffo go to the next one. Thanks for your comment!

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By *revaunanceCouple over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP,

Don't let it get you down. You are unfortunately just one single man in a sea of single men.

As an example, and totally non scientific experiment, have a look at the ratios. There are currently 139 single male profiles looking for women within 5 miles of your current location. Conversely there are just 10 single female profiles looking for men in the same area, and half of them haven't been online in a month.

Like I said, it's not very scientific, but it will give you an idea of the sort of ratios on here, and hopefully help manage your expectations more.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hello mate, wow them sheer numbers are incredible to be fair, needle in a haystack comes to mind!

Also, I've seen a post from an gent here earlier, much the same thing, and honestly the guy looked like Adonis, muscles on muscles, six pack all that,

So like you said nothing to get down about, the numbers are definetly a factor here,

And you know what it's turned out a really great day, having an epic 420 so far!

Gotta be.like Rocky and pick yaself up every time you get down, like a champion

Thanks for the comment ,hope ya weekends great

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try pleasures on a Friday night. It's a good club for beginners and probably closer to you

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