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"So any starting tips for younger guys? I feel there isnt much of an audience for us"
Firstly your wrong, there is an audience for you, but you have to find it. Just like everyone else.
Secondly, your meet verifications prove that you have some idea what your doing, so good on you.
You will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.
Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.
Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.
Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great. You appear to have a nice body, so get creative and show it off.
However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.
Good luck. |
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I think it shows the difference between men and women.
Older guys hardly bat an eye lid if a young woman started coming on to them, whereas women take a more moral view, but also much more mental stimulation, which doesn't really happen across a large age gap. for me, anyone young enough to be my son is out. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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You've only been here a week and thinking of leaving already? Just what were your expectations on joing fab OP? Were you seriously thinking you would be knee deep in clunge and having women at your beck and call 24/7?!  |
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"So any starting tips for younger guys? I feel there isnt much of an audience for us
Firstly your wrong, there is an audience for you, but you have to find it. Just like everyone else.
Secondly, your meet verifications prove that you have some idea what your doing, so good on you.
You will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.
Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.
Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.
Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great. You appear to have a nice body, so get creative and show it off.
However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.
Good luck."
This is the best advice.
It's all about networking.
Get to socials and clubs.
You'll never please everyone.
Each to their own.
Personally.... I meet guys your age. It's the distance that's a problem for me.
Good luck op xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So any starting tips for younger guys? I feel there isnt much of an audience for us
Firstly your wrong, there is an audience for you, but you have to find it. Just like everyone else.
Secondly, your meet verifications prove that you have some idea what your doing, so good on you.
You will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.
Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.
Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.
Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great. You appear to have a nice body, so get creative and show it off.
However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.
Good luck.
This is the best advice.
It's all about networking.
Get to socials and clubs.
You'll never please everyone.
Each to their own.
Personally.... I meet guys your age. It's the distance that's a problem for me.
Good luck op xx"
Thank you! Haha funnily enough I'm in gosport |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You've only been here a week and thinking of leaving already? Just what were your expectations on joing fab OP? Were you seriously thinking you would be knee deep in clunge and having women at your beck and call 24/7?! "
No course I wasnt expecting that |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"You've only been here a week and thinking of leaving already? Just what were your expectations on joing fab OP? Were you seriously thinking you would be knee deep in clunge and having women at your beck and call 24/7?!
No course I wasnt expecting that "
Then try having some patience. Read the threads giving profile advice, try and get networking at socials and clubs. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You've only been here a week and thinking of leaving already? Just what were your expectations on joing fab OP? Were you seriously thinking you would be knee deep in clunge and having women at your beck and call 24/7?!
Thank you. I've had some luck on here already so I'll stick with it
No course I wasnt expecting that
Then try having some patience. Read the threads giving profile advice, try and get networking at socials and clubs. Good luck. "
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"So any starting tips for younger guys? I feel there isnt much of an audience for us
Firstly your wrong, there is an audience for you, but you have to find it. Just like everyone else.
Secondly, your meet verifications prove that you have some idea what your doing, so good on you.
You will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.
Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.
Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.
Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great. You appear to have a nice body, so get creative and show it off.
However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.
Good luck.
This is the best advice.
It's all about networking.
Get to socials and clubs.
You'll never please everyone.
Each to their own.
Personally.... I meet guys your age. It's the distance that's a problem for me.
Good luck op xx
Thank you! Haha funnily enough I'm in gosport "
Music to my ears.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So any starting tips for younger guys? I feel there isnt much of an audience for us
Firstly your wrong, there is an audience for you, but you have to find it. Just like everyone else.
Secondly, your meet verifications prove that you have some idea what your doing, so good on you.
You will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.
Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.
Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.
Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great. You appear to have a nice body, so get creative and show it off.
However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.
Good luck.
This is the best advice.
It's all about networking.
Get to socials and clubs.
You'll never please everyone.
Each to their own.
Personally.... I meet guys your age. It's the distance that's a problem for me.
Good luck op xx
Thank you! Haha funnily enough I'm in gosport
Music to my ears.... "
Maybe drop me a message as I cant message you because of age limit you have set |
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"You would actually be surprised the best advice I can give is be patient, participate in threads on here, go to clubs and go into chat "
And in about 28 years time you'll come to realise like the rest of us that this place is a feckin waste of your time  |
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By *wansfeetCouple
over a year ago
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"You would actually be surprised the best advice I can give is be patient, participate in threads on here, go to clubs and go into chat
And in about 28 years time you'll come to realise like the rest of us that this place is a feckin waste of your time "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So any starting tips for younger guys? I feel there isnt much of an audience for us
Firstly your wrong, there is an audience for you, but you have to find it. Just like everyone else.
Secondly, your meet verifications prove that you have some idea what your doing, so good on you.
You will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.
Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.
Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.
Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great. You appear to have a nice body, so get creative and show it off.
However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.
Good luck."
Do not use face pics! You might want a career that may leave you vulnerable to scams. Be smart limit the amount of face pics you send out its not worth loosing your privacy for a shag. Think do you want your future kids to stumble on them? Think longterm. |
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