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over a year ago
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So i just learned my wife is ok with me having meet on my own, she is genuine about it and apparently told me months ago it was ok, the one time i should have been listening i guess, do i go for it?????. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Yea for sure, but lets say i have a fantasy she would not really be into, that would make a good reason to meet solo rihht? it feels dis honest, im not sure |
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"Yea for sure, but lets say i have a fantasy she would not really be into, that would make a good reason to meet solo rihht? it feels dis honest, im not sure"
I think you would be better with full communication, so that you understand the consent that you have from her - if there are limitations upon what/who you could engage with etc. You could both be part of the arrangement making but just one of you at the meets.
If there's not 100% certainty and trust, then it's worth postponing, until there is, or to pursue alternative options. |
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Why does it feel like a trap, why would your wife be trying to trap you by telling you that its ok to do something? Will your wife be ok with you discussing this with us? As you can tell I'm confused by this  |
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My partner let's me meet with others on my own as he has a very low sex drive. I will always be open and honest about each meet both before and after they take place. He has the option to join or watch if he wishes but rarely takes up the offer. |
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"So i just learned my wife is ok with me having meet on my own, she is genuine about it and apparently told me months ago it was ok, the one time i should have been listening i guess, do i go for it?????."
Noooooooooooo its a trap a sneaky one! Ok yes.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"nope she said i can do anytging, as long safe and protected
Use reply and quote, we'll know who you're talking to. 
would defo meet u
We're way over your maximum age "
Tis but a number
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"So i just learned my wife is ok with me having meet on my own, she is genuine about it and apparently told me months ago it was ok, the one time i should have been listening i guess, do i go for it?????."
As your a couple it is a fair assumption that you have spoken about this. And as such, why would you not take her for her word? |
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Perhaps claim you’ve done it and see what the reaction is?? 
