I recently returned to this site but I’m struggling to get attention from females . Seems to only be men coming towards me . I’m a straight fit and healthy male and I want to have some NSA fun. Shouldn’t be this hard ? What do I do? |
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Welcome back.
Plenty of advice on improving profile if search forums. Look up how succesful men do. Profile is what people look at. Time and effort needed. Would lose the disclaimer on yours. It pointless and looks like it just there to pad out.
Personalise messages you send to people and engage with people based on theirs.
It only as hard as you make it. Just be polite and friendly and things will happen. |
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over a year ago
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First of all, I'd sort out the profile if I were you. Plenty of advice on forum, as well as there are links to great advice on my profile.
Your pics are good but your profile text lets you down big time. |
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"First of all, I'd sort out the profile if I were you. Plenty of advice on forum, as well as there are links to great advice on my profile.
Your pics are good but your profile text lets you down big time. "
See above, 2nd forum advice link is amazeballs 
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Being black in Devon you would have a field day hahaha as alot like black and very few in devon in London u don't stand out as lots of coloured guys u look attractive though so I'm surprised u anit getting some action lol good luck |
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"Being black in Devon you would have a field day hahaha as alot like black and very few in devon in London u don't stand out as lots of coloured guys u look attractive though so I'm surprised u anit getting some action lol good luck"
Could be the most gorgeous man in the world that everyone one wants. Still would not give the time of day if boring as hell. If cannot spend a few minutes on a profile can you spend longer than that in bed?
What attracts people here is differant for all. |
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Can't see nothing wrong with your profile tbf mate, short but straight to the point, no messing, got some body there mate, looking like the hulk lol, surely these women must be blowing up ya inbox,! Perhaps they may even think your a bit out of there league, who knows. I suggest going to the club's, events, can make good connections there |
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Losing the warning from profiles, ref EU etc, helps quite a few people here, as others say.
Selling yourself, what you have to offer, is key - as there are thousands of other single men. People want personality as well as the physical. A smiling face always helps draw people too.
Meet people socially - say that you will, if you would. Go to Fab socials and attend clubs.
Perhaps make it clearer what geographic area you're interested.
You've mentioned bi interest from others - you could be clearer on whether you'll meet bi couples, so people will have certainty. |
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, I would suggest either showing your face or having at least one photo in a suit and/or without a baseball hat.