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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often see the same from men via my local updates list.
If I'm free and in a helpful mood, I offer to meet them for a Starbucks during the day.
If they don't fit what I'm looking for, I still offer to help but make it clear I'm only helping to verfi them. As in they look like their pics, they're genuine and kind type of men.
May be you could ask the same from those local to you?? Put it on your status etc. |
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Have to remember everyone was in the same boat when first started.
People do meet with no verifications. Yes a lot do filter them out but others do not.
Go to club or social as suggested or concentrate on the ones that will meet. |
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By *alcmarCouple
over a year ago
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And remember it is harder for a single guy. Our rule when we were active in the UK was we were happy to meet couples who didn't have verification if they were new. No problem with people who were just putting their toes in the water.
But if a couple didn't have verifications after a year then we just assumed they were phonies who were either not a couple at all, or were happy just texting. Which wasn't what we were looking for.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's plenty of ways of getting started (& therefore verified!) in this world - just be yourself, always honest & polite - and above all, patient: You'll find the experiences you're seeking if you do all of the above I'm sure. Good luck  |
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