I came back on this site 2 week ago after being on for 2 week when first joined and got into relationship so didnt come on. Since being back on I've not got nowhere with meets for single meets for me and a woman or for couple meet with me and my lady friend. Anyone any tips or pointers |
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You do know this isn't instashag don't you?
2 weeks is nothing.
Most single guys will wait around 6 months before getting their first meet. Some wait even longer than that.
Men massively outnumber single women and couples on here, so really have to put the effort in to get anywhere - and even then. there's no guarantee of anything.
I think you should look at what your expectations of the site were when you first joined |
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"You do know this isn't instashag don't you?
2 weeks is nothing.
Most single guys will wait around 6 months before getting their first meet. Some wait even longer than that.
Men massively outnumber single women and couples on here, so really have to put the effort in to get anywhere - and even then. there's no guarantee of anything.
I think you should look at what your expectations of the site were when you first joined"
Yh I had a profile and was on for 6 month never met anyone fergot log in details username and email and had make new one (this one) was on for two weeks and got into relationship went off and now back |
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I know we say it alot on here. And it's not much use..
But you have been on here a very short time in fab terms.
Some people do expect to get a meet within a few days..
Sadly that's not the case
Your male so it's easy to get lost in the sea of male profiles... And will probably take alot of effort on your part to even get noticed.(just because there are so many guys on here)
Be patient. Be active and get your name out there in the forums.
Give this link a read through to help you on your way
Good luck
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/868684 |
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Op, If your approach to us tonight is any measure of what you have been trying to do, then it is not a surprise that you aren't getting anywhere.
We are not allowed, or even thinking to reveal what you wrote. Rest assured that sending two winks and a fourteen word question is highly unlikely to get you anywhere. Especially as the answer to the question is clearly written on the profile.
In the nicest possible way, you need to rethink your whole approach. It is somewhat ironic that you have wrote 'Don't bother boring me with the standard 'Hi' message. I will just delete your message. Need someone to catch my eye  ' but don't seem to think that applies to the messages you send.
As for your profile. I'd suggest changing a few of your pics, they are all pretty much the same. A little variety would go a long way.
I'd recommend you drop the legal nonsense from your profile. It means absolutely nothing and is not enforceable in any way.
Also, your lady friend. Can she not verify you at least? |
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"Op, If your approach to us tonight is any measure of what you have been trying to do, then it is not a surprise that you aren't getting anywhere.
We are not allowed, or even thinking to reveal what you wrote. Rest assured that sending two winks and a fourteen word question is highly unlikely to get you anywhere. Especially as the answer to the question is clearly written on the profile.
In the nicest possible way, you need to rethink your whole approach. It is somewhat ironic that you have wrote 'Don't bother boring me with the standard 'Hi' message. I will just delete your message. Need someone to catch my eye ' but don't seem to think that applies to the messages you send.
As for your profile. I'd suggest changing a few of your pics, they are all pretty much the same. A little variety would go a long way.
I'd recommend you drop the legal nonsense from your profile. It means absolutely nothing and is not enforceable in any way.
Also, your lady friend. Can she not verify you at least?"
My lady friend is not on her we met on Facebook and will be making one soon. Also send me private message with what you think is best to do |
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"Op, If your approach to us tonight is any measure of what you have been trying to do, then it is not a surprise that you aren't getting anywhere.
We are not allowed, or even thinking to reveal what you wrote. Rest assured that sending two winks and a fourteen word question is highly unlikely to get you anywhere. Especially as the answer to the question is clearly written on the profile.
In the nicest possible way, you need to rethink your whole approach. It is somewhat ironic that you have wrote 'Don't bother boring me with the standard 'Hi' message. I will just delete your message. Need someone to catch my eye ' but don't seem to think that applies to the messages you send.
As for your profile. I'd suggest changing a few of your pics, they are all pretty much the same. A little variety would go a long way.
I'd recommend you drop the legal nonsense from your profile. It means absolutely nothing and is not enforceable in any way.
Also, your lady friend. Can she not verify you at least?
My lady friend is not on her we met on Facebook and will be making one soon. Also send me private message with what you think is best to do "
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"I came back on this site 2 week ago after being on for 2 week when first joined and got into relationship so didnt come on. Since being back on I've not got nowhere with meets for single meets for me and a woman or for couple meet with me and my lady friend. Anyone any tips or pointers "
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"I came back on this site 2 week ago after being on for 2 week when first joined and got into relationship so didnt come on. Since being back on I've not got nowhere with meets for single meets for me and a woman or for couple meet with me and my lady friend. Anyone any tips or pointers "
Within the comments on this thread you'll find a couple of Web links.
I'd suggest you follow them, read them, think about them and see what conclusions you could draw from them.
Sounds like you're going to need all the help you can get.
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My lady friend is not on her we met on Facebook and will be making one soon. Also send me private message with what you think is best to do "
Are you always this entitled? You asked for advice then tell someone to pm you the info. Why should they? People have offered you advice here, which is more than you are owed. This is a swingers site not a sex site, and as a single guy here you may need to review your approach. Try attending clubs and socials to start meeting people. |
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"Op, If your approach to us tonight is any measure of what you have been trying to do, then it is not a surprise that you aren't getting anywhere.
We are not allowed, or even thinking to reveal what you wrote. Rest assured that sending two winks and a fourteen word question is highly unlikely to get you anywhere. Especially as the answer to the question is clearly written on the profile.
In the nicest possible way, you need to rethink your whole approach. It is somewhat ironic that you have wrote 'Don't bother boring me with the standard 'Hi' message. I will just delete your message. Need someone to catch my eye ' but don't seem to think that applies to the messages you send.
As for your profile. I'd suggest changing a few of your pics, they are all pretty much the same. A little variety would go a long way.
I'd recommend you drop the legal nonsense from your profile. It means absolutely nothing and is not enforceable in any way.
Also, your lady friend. Can she not verify you at least?
My lady friend is not on her we met on Facebook and will be making one soon. Also send me private message with what you think is best to do "
I think the above reply to this message has given you some great advice
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