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hi tall, vwe daddy dom soldier here
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"Love to chat with anyone really, am laidback with GSOH, please get in touch" Welcome! Hope you have a wicked time on Fab  | |||
"I have the highest respect for the armed services. However, I find it sad that some members feel the need to use the fact they're in the military to get their leg over. It doesn't sit well with me, just my opinion."  | |||
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"Love to chat with anyone really, am laidback with GSOH, please get in touch" welcome to fab and the forums, jump on in 
what is a daddy dom btw? | |||
"I have the highest respect for the armed services. However, I find it sad that some members feel the need to use the fact they're in the military to get their leg over. It doesn't sit well with me, just my opinion." +1 | |||
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"I have the highest respect for the armed services. However, I find it sad that some members feel the need to use the fact they're in the military to get their leg over. It doesn't sit well with me, just my opinion. +1" I think its the whole "I'm in uniform, so I deserve more play" factor,... rather than the natural X-factor. | |||
"I have the highest respect for the armed services. However, I find it sad that some members feel the need to use the fact they're in the military to get their leg over. It doesn't sit well with me, just my opinion. +1 I think its the whole "I'm in uniform, so I deserve more play" factor,... rather than the natural X-factor." I think its because there are a lot of women who a) like men in uniform and b) like soldiers (me, for example) and they are using a natural advantage, like most guys have to! | |||
"I have the highest respect for the armed services. However, I find it sad that some members feel the need to use the fact they're in the military to get their leg over. It doesn't sit well with me, just my opinion. +1 I think its the whole "I'm in uniform, so I deserve more play" factor,... rather than the natural X-factor. I think its because there are a lot of women who a) like men in uniform and b) like soldiers (me, for example) and they are using a natural advantage, like most guys have to!"
why does every one have to be so down on everyone else on here these days?? | |||
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" what is a daddy dom btw?" Well I was going to explain in my own words but it would take me forever.. So I found a site that I found while I was looking it up.. Now not allowed to link the site.. but have nicked the blurb and I think it explains it well However can I just point out that this is just one persons view.. and others see it a little different but I read this and found it very nice
People ask, What is a Daddy Dom. Well, to start with, a Daddy Dom is first and foremost a Dominant. His choice is to be a Daddy Dom, this does not mean incest (as has been said in the past by ignorant people) rather a Daddy Dom is One who cares for, nutures, shapes, and molds his babygirl into the image He thinks she should become. He sees in her someone who can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He often times believes more in her, than she believes in herself.
His love for his babygirl goes without question. He loves her as much for who she is, as for what she will become with His guidance. she is ...... His prized possession. a Daddy's eyes will light up when she comes into a room and take great pride in her success's. Afterall, He helped to create her. She holds the most tender part of His heart and has greatest power to hurt Him.
This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel pride in his lilgirl. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to Him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given Him and takes great pains to increase it’s value. It is extremely important to Him to know she can be with any man and she chooses to be with Him.
He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, His discipline is more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for the lilgirl to really trust, she must know He means what He says. If His lilgirl is going to be the best she can possibly be He must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and His knowledge of her to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises.
If He does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If His submissive finds that she can manipulate Him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He understands that it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect.
This takes great strength on His part. It takes strength to control her, and to shape her to His needs and desires. It takes strength to be her confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out into the world when all He wants to do is hold her safe in His arms. And it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined.
A Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to His submissive...acceptance. She is safe in His arms because He knows her, everything about her, and He still loves her. When she goes to Him she knows that this Man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn’t matter. To Him she is and always will be beautiful.
A Daddy Dom and a Sadistic Dom are by no means mutually exclusive. Many Daddy Doms embrace their sadism while understanding and feeding their submissive's masochism. This balance is necessary to many lilgirls because it allows all parts of her to be nourished, leading to an incredibly fulfilling relationship.
I think most Dominants have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the role of Male authority figure in the submissive’s life and using their power to enrich that life. Daddy/lilgirl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it’s participants crave.
Perhaps a Daddy Dom is something only a lilgirl can understand
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taken from Daddy D's page you can find it by googling what is a daddy dominant
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"I have the highest respect for the armed services. However, I find it sad that some members feel the need to use the fact they're in the military to get their leg over. It doesn't sit well with me, just my opinion. +1 I think its the whole "I'm in uniform, so I deserve more play" factor,... rather than the natural X-factor. I think its because there are a lot of women who a) like men in uniform and b) like soldiers (me, for example) and they are using a natural advantage, like most guys have to!
why does every one have to be so down on everyone else on here these days??"Believe it or not, when you post on an open forum you'll get differing responses. 
If I posted "Domme solicitor" i'd expect some people to ask what my profession had to do with it, they found it off putting etc as I know it won't appeal to everyone.
I wouldn't see that as others being "down" on me...but my ego is not as fragile as some I suppose.  | |||
"oh and welcome to the forum..
Cali "Having read information about the D/S lifestyle, to me the Daddydom lifestyle sounds no different especially the nurture stuff | |||
"I have the highest respect for the armed services. However, I find it sad that some members feel the need to use the fact they're in the military to get their leg over. It doesn't sit well with me, just my opinion. +1 I think its the whole "I'm in uniform, so I deserve more play" factor,... rather than the natural X-factor. I think its because there are a lot of women who a) like men in uniform and b) like soldiers (me, for example) and they are using a natural advantage, like most guys have to!
why does every one have to be so down on everyone else on here these days??
Believe it or not, when you post on an open forum you'll get differing responses.
If I posted "Domme solicitor" i'd expect some people to ask what my profession had to do with it, they found it off putting etc as I know it won't appeal to everyone.
I wouldn't see that as others being "down" on me...but my ego is not as fragile as some I suppose. "Except maybe some might see that you also wear a uniform i.e. suit, white shirt/blouse and stockings etc I agree that some people love uniform play but I, personally think that its insulting to what the uniform stands for when someone shows themselves in full gear on here, given what this site is for | |||
"oh and welcome to the forum..
Cali
Having read information about the D/S lifestyle, to me the Daddydom lifestyle sounds no different especially the nurture stuff"I think its the fact that It's much more little orientated.... And often the dominant refered to as daddy instead of master or sir... Some do mix age play in... But for most its just a way to dominate .... It would take me forever to explain all the ways it can differ lol Cali | |||
"I have the highest respect for the armed services. However, I find it sad that some members feel the need to use the fact they're in the military to get their leg over. It doesn't sit well with me, just my opinion. +1 I think its the whole "I'm in uniform, so I deserve more play" factor,... rather than the natural X-factor. I think its because there are a lot of women who a) like men in uniform and b) like soldiers (me, for example) and they are using a natural advantage, like most guys have to!
why does every one have to be so down on everyone else on here these days??
Believe it or not, when you post on an open forum you'll get differing responses.
If I posted "Domme solicitor" i'd expect some people to ask what my profession had to do with it, they found it off putting etc as I know it won't appeal to everyone.
I wouldn't see that as others being "down" on me...but my ego is not as fragile as some I suppose. "ahhhh but sadly some responses are all too easy to predict ok so it doesnt sit well with you but why imply that anyone that does it is 'sad' - there is the put down, not the fact that you dont like it | |||
"I have the highest respect for the armed services. However, I find it sad that some members feel the need to use the fact they're in the military to get their leg over. It doesn't sit well with me, just my opinion. +1 I think its the whole "I'm in uniform, so I deserve more play" factor,... rather than the natural X-factor. I think its because there are a lot of women who a) like men in uniform and b) like soldiers (me, for example) and they are using a natural advantage, like most guys have to!
why does every one have to be so down on everyone else on here these days??
Believe it or not, when you post on an open forum you'll get differing responses.
If I posted "Domme solicitor" i'd expect some people to ask what my profession had to do with it, they found it off putting etc as I know it won't appeal to everyone.
I wouldn't see that as others being "down" on me...but my ego is not as fragile as some I suppose.
ahhhh but sadly some responses are all too easy to predict
ok so it doesnt sit well with you but why imply that anyone that does it is 'sad' - there is the put down, not the fact that you dont like it"for me, I just don't see the point that I either have to be: 1) a solder 2) or wear some sort of uniform ... to play. The way I see it, surely personality should have more to do with it? (Or maybe I'm getting old). | |||
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" for me, I just don't see the point that I either have to be: 1) a solder 2) or wear some sort of uniform ... to play. The way I see it, surely personality should have more to do with it? (Or maybe I'm getting old)." No one is saying you have to. Do what works for you, and it obviously does work for you 
As for saying you are a soldier on here degrading what the uniform stands for, soldiers have ALWAYS used the fact they are soldiers to get laid lol the American GI coming over here and stealing our women with promises of panty hoes, most women I know get excited when they hear squaddies are in town. My sister went to uni in Plymouth and saw how many more women were out in town when the ships came in 
It's a fantasy for some, blame Richard gere for the whole white suit thing
I appreciate that not every woman likes it but an awful lot do | |||
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