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What would make this bloke more attractive?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everybody.
My profile is, I think, pretty bland, and even I'm not that impressed by the guy I come across as
If anyone's got the time, I'd be keen to hear how you'd go about giving Mr. Dull a makeover.
I know there's a showstopper in there for many, but I feel it should be said up-front, and I'd obviously never even approach anyone who explicitly says they'll not meet married men.
Looking forward to your comments, with my hands over my eyes!
Thanks very much,
D. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You look pretty cross or just grumpy in all your pics I’m afraid.
I think a warm smile is always a winner. "
This is probably why the only pic that ever gets fab'd is the one without a head! Off to have words with Mr Grumpy now. Thanks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A person has to express themselves on their profile getting someone else to do it would be their profile not yours.
If you know its bad then start from scratch again and put you into it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A person has to express themselves on their profile getting someone else to do it would be their profile not yours.
If you know its bad then start from scratch again and put you into it. "
Thanks. I know what you mean; it's trying to get brazen me to write it and not the apologetic alter-ego who stands in the corner looking at his shoes  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"a greater variety of pictures and smiling "
Thanks. Smiling's definitely a thing! And I need to find a photographer with a *far* better eye than I have! These, after all, are the pics that *did* make it through my quality control  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"god you need to smile, you look dull otherwise, and expand your interests, there's nothing for me otherwise"
You're absolutely right. Loved your profile - so much confidence - that's what I need to work towards  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you conscious about your smile? Missing teeth or?
Wrinkles are a badge of honour, show them off! "
Cheers! I've *really* got to work on the smile haven't I? No more smouldering/miseryguts  |
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It's hidden but truthful honesty is a great way to help others determine if you may be for them.
Good range of pics, preferably taken by others when you're relaxing, if it includes your face.
Ultimately, you have to sell yourself, in a way that you find your unique points and perspective. Consider what you have and what you're after, so others get to understand this and aren't left confused or find someone else who sells themselves better, instead of you.
Expect that as a single male it takes a lot of effort and dedication, especially when it seems like there's little or nothing in return.
Keep your profile updated - experiment with it, to see if someting works better than before etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's hidden but truthful honesty is a great way to help others determine if you may be for them.
Good range of pics, preferably taken by others when you're relaxing, if it includes your face.
Ultimately, you have to sell yourself, in a way that you find your unique points and perspective. Consider what you have and what you're after, so others get to understand this and aren't left confused or find someone else who sells themselves better, instead of you.
Expect that as a single male it takes a lot of effort and dedication, especially when it seems like there's little or nothing in return.
Keep your profile updated - experiment with it, to see if someting works better than before etc"
That all sounds like top advice. Thanks for taking the time, and sorry I'd gone into hiding |
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Your trying to hard in the photos. Look very conscious of the camera. If you don’t like doing smiley you can still do a more approachable one with lips up in the corners. You just need to be more relaxed. This is not the right time to be stiff  |
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