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2 months in, no hope
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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having trouble speaking to girls on here all seem to want me to be verified but i cant be yet because i haven't met anyone to verify me  or maybe they are just being shy...what am i doing wrong? open to suggestions |
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Ok OP be patient Rome wasn’t built in a day you might need a variety of pictures as half of them are your cock and maybe a more interesting bio as you don’t explain what you’re looking for or what you offer think of your profile as a ad for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go on chat, show yourself on cam and ask someone to verify you there (show face, leave you cock in your pants) or visit a club, meet people, someone will be happy to verify you! |
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"Go on chat, show yourself on cam and ask someone to verify you there (show face, leave you cock in your pants) or visit a club, meet people, someone will be happy to verify you! "
Also OP do this as it will help massively as loads of people on here go to clubs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"having trouble speaking to girls on here all seem to want me to be verified but i cant be yet because i haven't met anyone to verify me or maybe they are just being shy...what am i doing wrong? open to suggestions "
me and u r the same in every way mate just the guys that ladys r lookin 4 but 2 many messers on here
don't lose ur heart cos of the haters bruv |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"having trouble speaking to girls on here all seem to want me to be verified but i cant be yet because i haven't met anyone to verify me or maybe they are just being shy...what am i doing wrong? open to suggestions "
For some it takes 6 months or more the reality is you can't make people want to meet you though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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420 reference might but folk off. Keep that for private convos.. if it's brought up.I will probably get slagged off for telling you that has some folk use it has a not to meet indicator |
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"having trouble speaking to girls on here all seem to want me to be verified but i cant be yet because i haven't met anyone to verify me or maybe they are just being shy...what am i doing wrong? open to suggestions "
Can i add my thoughts?
Maybe add in your profile that you are willing to meet for coffee/social etc
Takes the pressure of ladies a little when meeting unverified.
Also a good way to get your first verification x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"420 reference might but folk off. Keep that for private convos.. if it's brought up.I will probably get slagged off for telling you that has some folk use it has a not to meet indicator "
#put |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive seen your post on forums mate and seen ur profil we couldnt be more opposite if you ask me but good luck getting your 'beefy length' seen to"
nah mate we both 27 like a cheeky doob andr proper northern good quality lads believe
and both just not getting lucky right now but I do have a few feelers out  |
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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago
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You are located near a number of really great clubs; Cupid’s is very supportive of respectful newbies and isn’t far at all from you. Pick a newbie night or themed party night as they tend to have better attendance. Contact Bruce and the team in advance of attending to introduce yourself. Go with no other expectation than having a nice evening meeting great people, don’t think it’s a leg over guarantee. I know the club scene can be daunting, but with the right mind set I can guarantee you will have a nice evening and just ask people you chat with to drop you a veri. It’s a good club scene up there, so you will get to know people and start to be known. Best of British. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm the same on here, part of a couple that are starting to play separate but I cant get a message back or nothing or if i do i can one word answers back.
Help would be appreciated lol |
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References to rough sex and “using my strength in the bedroom” without any references to safety would make me nervous.
If you want to seem credible in your claim that you’re “very educated,” you might want capital letters at the start of sentences and full stops at the end.
Finally, “impartial” doesn’t mean what you think it means. |
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"References to rough sex and “using my strength in the bedroom” without any references to safety would make me nervous.
If you want to seem credible in your claim that you’re “very educated,” you might want capital letters at the start of sentences and full stops at the end.
Finally, “impartial” doesn’t mean what you think it means. "
This is good advice.
Something in the way you write, and what you write, comes across as very young and inexperienced (in Fab terms). |
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OP, look at your profile in full so you can get to see what others see.
I read I am in the trade, as being your in the sex trade.
Agree with others 2 months is nothing in fab time and getting to a club or a social is a good thing.
Your in Bury and have Partners close to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2 months is nothing for a single male on fab. Give it time.
Most single men don't get a meet until they've been here at least 6 months. Some do better, some don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive seen your post on forums mate and seen ur profil we couldnt be more opposite if you ask me but good luck getting your 'beefy length' seen to"
Totally agree  |
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By *iavoloCouple
over a year ago
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"having trouble speaking to girls on here all seem to want me to be verified but i cant be yet because i haven't met anyone to verify me or maybe they are just being shy...what am i doing wrong? open to suggestions "
It takes time just chill and go with things it may happen it might not you never know but good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"having trouble speaking to girls on here all seem to want me to be verified but i cant be yet because i haven't met anyone to verify me or maybe they are just being shy...what am i doing wrong? open to suggestions "
Stick with it sometimes it takes some time.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stick with it, it takes a long time, I have only had my first meet. Being a regular in the forums helped me get known by regulars.
It doesn't happen over night. |
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"having trouble speaking to girls on here all seem to want me to be verified but i cant be yet because i haven't met anyone to verify me or maybe they are just being shy...what am i doing wrong? open to suggestions "
1/Be positive with people.
2/Dont let rejection get to you.
3/Treat people as individuals.
It won't guarantee meets but its the right starting path. |
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