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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey, we are quite new to the swinging scene and are struggling with what to put in our profile.
We have also sent lots of messages but had almost nothing back. We always read people’s profile and try to customize messages but never really know what to say.
Or is it that I am not that attractive to people I know K is.
Any help or advice would be great. |
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"Saying finding time to meet is a pain would put lots off...flexibility time wise is more appealing
Thanks we’ll change that.  "
Two weeks in Fab is no time at all. Saying in your profile single men need not apply is irrelevant if you filter them out. Also with a couple the person(s) your contacting have to find you both attractive enough to want to play with as it were . Good luck in your searches |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think you need to not entirely rule out single guys but put when and if you want one you will seek one out lol xbit on a serious note finding g so.eone who finds you both attractive and vice versa is going to be your main challenge x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only thing I can see wrong in my eyes is you say you are not looking for a one night stand, with having experience on here a lot of times a couple with meet but may not want another meet again if it goes well then they may meet again, but your photos look good, you want to be a guy on here if you think it’s hard for couples, but I wish you both all the best and hope you get a meet soon . John |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As someone has already said OP, two weeks is no time at all. Give yourselves time to get used to the site. I’m sure you’ll have both discussed what you want to get out of meeting others and what your boundaries are so maybe add a bit about what you both enjoy and what you’d like to experience with others.
Adjust your profile over time.
The forums are a great way to get to know people.
Your pictures are great btw!
Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The cannot accommodate is often a Red Flag to some people.
It can come across like your a fuck buddy couple etc.
Also suggest that you would meet in a hotel etc if that is something you would both be interested in.
The profile is how you sell yourselves to others, if you don't market yourselves properly most people will stroll on by.
M & J |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It says on your preferences that you're looking for single women and female-female couples only.
Your demographic outnumbers them about 4 or 5 to 1, so they'll pick and choose whom they see as the cream of the crop of course as they're able to. More single ladies are also looking for single guys than couples tbf which limits you further. And you're also unverified for now too, so your options are cut right down sadly.
Patience is the aim here.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The cannot accommodate is often a Red Flag to some people.
It can come across like your a fuck buddy couple etc.
Also suggest that you would meet in a hotel etc if that is something you would both be interested in.
The profile is how you sell yourselves to others, if you don't market yourselves properly most people will stroll on by.
M & J"
Good idea on the hotel thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of folk do not want to start friendships when it comes to swinging and one night stand is what they are looking for..if a friendship carries on naturally then great...you need to have a broader outlook when it comes to swinging. The hardest meets to arrange are couples looking for ladies to join them. |
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By *zzy69Woman
over a year ago
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Agree with the above
Basically you are looking for a unicorn- or even a pair of unicorns .
Club is one option
An organised group social another
Would you consider even a social with a couple with a bi female ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have also sent lots of messages but had almost nothing back. We always read people’s profile and try to customize messages but never really know what to say.
Having the same problem, wondering if I should give up. I know I'm not the best looking fella but I thought at least someone would chat to me lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have also sent lots of messages but had almost nothing back. We always read people’s profile and try to customize messages but never really know what to say.
Having the same problem, wondering if I should give up. I know I'm not the best looking fella but I thought at least someone would chat to me lol x"
We have sent, wonder if I should give it up says a lot. male  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put more about your sexual likes or if you’re too shy maybe display this in a photo, I find a lot of our messages are opened up about one of our photos... get to a club, even if it’s just for a social and to talk to people, sure way to get verified |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need to face the reality that a couple looking to play with a female only, is near on impossible to implement on fab, you’ve got to get out to clubs, socials etc, you’ve got no chance on here. |
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