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Been on here a couple of weeks now and no one really seems to want to talk. I know I'm just another cock amongst many others but I'm also a nice person.
I'm not looking to fuck just anyone and would love to make friends as well. |
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3 weeks is truly no times at all, there are hundreds and hundreds of single guys and far less single woman and couples.
Also your profile is rather bland tbh. You saved the bulk of text for an unnecessary disclaimer |
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It's a tough gig for guys on Fab. Beef up your profile text (what kind of person are you, what do you have to offer, what are you looking for, what makes you different?), lose the disclaimer. Maybe more pictures (no more cock shots, one is enough).
Think about what kind of messages you're sending, do they line up with the profile you're looking at? |
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"It's a tough gig for guys on Fab. Beef up your profile text (what kind of person are you, what do you have to offer, what are you looking for, what makes you different?), lose the disclaimer. Maybe more pictures (no more cock shots, one is enough).
Think about what kind of messages you're sending, do they line up with the profile you're looking at? "
Just adding that it can take many months before you get a meet, unless you're really lucky, this isn't an instant sex site, you need to put in effort
Read profiles thoroughly too ---- very important |
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"3 weeks is truly no times at all, there are hundreds and hundreds of single guys and far less single woman and couples.
Also your profile is rather bland tbh. You saved the bulk of text for an unnecessary disclaimer "
I will try to make it less bland,appreciate you being honest. Thank you x |
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"It's a tough gig for guys on Fab. Beef up your profile text (what kind of person are you, what do you have to offer, what are you looking for, what makes you different?), lose the disclaimer. Maybe more pictures (no more cock shots, one is enough).
Think about what kind of messages you're sending, do they line up with the profile you're looking at? "
I will get on it, thank you x |
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"It's a tough gig for guys on Fab. Beef up your profile text (what kind of person are you, what do you have to offer, what are you looking for, what makes you different?), lose the disclaimer. Maybe more pictures (no more cock shots, one is enough).
Think about what kind of messages you're sending, do they line up with the profile you're looking at?
Just adding that it can take many months before you get a meet, unless you're really lucky, this isn't an instant sex site, you need to put in effort
Read profiles thoroughly too ---- very important"
Thank you, I'm pretty patient lol x |
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"Been swinging for 10+ years. get between 5-10 cock pics per day. so 365 x 10 = 3650 x 10 cocks = 36,500 cock pics.
Face pic would make a nice change"
Wow that's a lot of cock, I did have face pic up before x |
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"Your a cock? Hahahaha....sorry but hahahahaha... 
Nothing wrong with my cock, never failed to please "
Just re read lol, I realise I must be a cock to have miss read what you said. Was just saying there's lots of cocks and I'm just another. I'm actually a really nice person though x |
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"Calling someone names 
Comments like that is what going to make people just skip past your profile"
In all fairness she started throwing unnecessary abuse at me and I always stick up for myself.
If people can't reply with something nice or helpful like the others before her then just shouldn't bother commenting.
I'm here to get to know people, not to throw abuse but I will return it if comes my way. |
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Abuse came from your way. A comment was made on the amount of these posts made. No real need to get upset. If get upset to call out that quick at someone behind a keyboard, hate to see it in real life.
All can really say is after being here 3 weeks you made a good start. Think you done other guys a favour as an example how not to behave.
But welcome to Fab. Hope you do well  |
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"Calling someone names
Comments like that is what going to make people just skip past your profile
In all fairness she started throwing unnecessary abuse at me and I always stick up for myself.
If people can't reply with something nice or helpful like the others before her then just shouldn't bother commenting.
I'm here to get to know people, not to throw abuse but I will return it if comes my way."
Yeah... don't do that. It doesn't make you look good. |
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"Abuse came from your way. A comment was made on the amount of these posts made. No real need to get upset. If get upset to call out that quick at someone behind a keyboard, hate to see it in real life.
All can really say is after being here 3 weeks you made a good start. Think you done other guys a favour as an example how not to behave.
But welcome to Fab. Hope you do well "
Did you actually see what she wrote? She was abusive so I gave it back and I would have done the same in person.
I don't take shit from anyone |
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"Abuse came from your way. A comment was made on the amount of these posts made. No real need to get upset. If get upset to call out that quick at someone behind a keyboard, hate to see it in real life.
All can really say is after being here 3 weeks you made a good start. Think you done other guys a favour as an example how not to behave.
But welcome to Fab. Hope you do well
Did you actually see what she wrote? She was abusive so I gave it back and I would have done the same in person.
I don't take shit from anyone "
Appearance is everything here. Responding in kind makes you look just as bad. |
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"Calling someone names
Comments like that is what going to make people just skip past your profile
In all fairness she started throwing unnecessary abuse at me and I always stick up for myself.
If people can't reply with something nice or helpful like the others before her then just shouldn't bother commenting.
I'm here to get to know people, not to throw abuse but I will return it if comes my way.
Yeah... don't do that. It doesn't make you look good. "
All I done was stick up for myself, unfortunately her or someone else had her post and mine removed |
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"Abuse came from your way. A comment was made on the amount of these posts made. No real need to get upset. If get upset to call out that quick at someone behind a keyboard, hate to see it in real life.
All can really say is after being here 3 weeks you made a good start. Think you done other guys a favour as an example how not to behave.
But welcome to Fab. Hope you do well
Did you actually see what she wrote? She was abusive so I gave it back and I would have done the same in person.
I don't take shit from anyone
Appearance is everything here. Responding in kind makes you look just as bad. "
I know, maybe I should have just had her comment removed instead |
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"Calling someone names
Comments like that is what going to make people just skip past your profile
In all fairness she started throwing unnecessary abuse at me and I always stick up for myself.
If people can't reply with something nice or helpful like the others before her then just shouldn't bother commenting.
I'm here to get to know people, not to throw abuse but I will return it if comes my way.
Yeah... don't do that. It doesn't make you look good.
All I done was stick up for myself, unfortunately her or someone else had her post and mine removed "
That may be so. I didn't see. What I do see is you being admonished for an abusive post. So you made an abusive post. Which doesn't make you look good. That you think you're in the right is immaterial. So my advice is, don't do things that don't make you look good. |
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"Calling someone names
Comments like that is what going to make people just skip past your profile
In all fairness she started throwing unnecessary abuse at me and I always stick up for myself.
If people can't reply with something nice or helpful like the others before her then just shouldn't bother commenting.
I'm here to get to know people, not to throw abuse but I will return it if comes my way.
Yeah... don't do that. It doesn't make you look good.
All I done was stick up for myself, unfortunately her or someone else had her post and mine removed
That may be so. I didn't see. What I do see is you being admonished for an abusive post. So you made an abusive post. Which doesn't make you look good. That you think you're in the right is immaterial. So my advice is, don't do things that don't make you look good. "
Unfortunately no one will see it because it was aimed at me personally and not just in general. I'm a very nice person and kindness is in my nature but I don't like it when people make out I'm something I'm not.
Life goes on though and they should make it so can delete threads x |
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"Calling someone names
Comments like that is what going to make people just skip past your profile
In all fairness she started throwing unnecessary abuse at me and I always stick up for myself.
If people can't reply with something nice or helpful like the others before her then just shouldn't bother commenting.
I'm here to get to know people, not to throw abuse but I will return it if comes my way.
Yeah... don't do that. It doesn't make you look good.
All I done was stick up for myself, unfortunately her or someone else had her post and mine removed
That may be so. I didn't see. What I do see is you being admonished for an abusive post. So you made an abusive post. Which doesn't make you look good. That you think you're in the right is immaterial. So my advice is, don't do things that don't make you look good.
Unfortunately no one will see it because it was aimed at me personally and not just in general. I'm a very nice person and kindness is in my nature but I don't like it when people make out I'm something I'm not.
Life goes on though and they should make it so can delete threads x"
Some people consider themselves the fab police and hijack threads in this section with irrelevent comment. Best thing is to flag it to admin and move on. Dont feed the troll |
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"Calling someone names
Comments like that is what going to make people just skip past your profile
In all fairness she started throwing unnecessary abuse at me and I always stick up for myself.
If people can't reply with something nice or helpful like the others before her then just shouldn't bother commenting.
I'm here to get to know people, not to throw abuse but I will return it if comes my way.
Yeah... don't do that. It doesn't make you look good.
All I done was stick up for myself, unfortunately her or someone else had her post and mine removed
That may be so. I didn't see. What I do see is you being admonished for an abusive post. So you made an abusive post. Which doesn't make you look good. That you think you're in the right is immaterial. So my advice is, don't do things that don't make you look good.
Unfortunately no one will see it because it was aimed at me personally and not just in general. I'm a very nice person and kindness is in my nature but I don't like it when people make out I'm something I'm not.
Life goes on though and they should make it so can delete threads x
Some people consider themselves the fab police and hijack threads in this section with irrelevent comment. Best thing is to flag it to admin and move on. Dont feed the troll"
Trolls are everywhere unfortunately, I should have just ignored the comment and it's funny how her post just disappeared if it wasn't abusive |
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over a year ago
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"Been swinging for 10+ years. get between 5-10 cock pics per day. so 365 x 10 = 3650 x 10 cocks = 36,500 cock pics.
Face pic would make a nice change"
Got me thinking now is that enough sausage to stretch round the world |
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"Been swinging for 10+ years. get between 5-10 cock pics per day. so 365 x 10 = 3650 x 10 cocks = 36,500 cock pics.
Face pic would make a nice change
Got me thinking now is that enough sausage to stretch round the world "
Definitely not enough to go around the world but probably enough to stretch across Leicester lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couple of weeks in fabland is like a minute in real time op (original poster btw If you didn't already know) I thought it was other person when first came on here lol
Not read all the thread but sounds like there's been a bit of abuse
Banter and a bit of piss taking is all well and good but fine line I suppose? I'm prob the worst for it aswell
Chat on the forums
Participate in the fun n games
Get to know people
Keep your chins up
Hopefully work out great for you matey  |
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"Been swinging for 10+ years. get between 5-10 cock pics per day. so 365 x 10 = 3650 x 10 cocks = 36,500 cock pics.
Face pic would make a nice change
Got me thinking now is that enough sausage to stretch round the world
Definitely not enough to go around the world but probably enough to stretch across Leicester lol"
Mmmmmmm....not
See your joining in already |
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"Couple of weeks in fabland is like a minute in real time op (original poster btw If you didn't already know) I thought it was other person when first came on here lol
Not read all the thread but sounds like there's been a bit of abuse
Banter and a bit of piss taking is all well and good but fine line I suppose? I'm prob the worst for it aswell
Chat on the forums
Participate in the fun n games
Get to know people
Keep your chins up
Hopefully work out great for you matey "
Yes it's not long and things been said that shouldn't and I could have handled it better but she said what she did and I replied with the first thing that came to my head.
It has got some conversation rolling though so all is good.
Cheers buddy, all the best to you. |
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"Couple of weeks in fabland is like a minute in real time op (original poster btw If you didn't already know) I thought it was other person when first came on here lol
Not read all the thread but sounds like there's been a bit of abuse
Banter and a bit of piss taking is all well and good but fine line I suppose? I'm prob the worst for it aswell
Chat on the forums
Participate in the fun n games
Get to know people
Keep your chins up
Hopefully work out great for you matey
Yes it's not long and things been said that shouldn't and I could have handled it better but she said what she did and I replied with the first thing that came to my head.
It has got some conversation rolling though so all is good.
Cheers buddy, all the best to you."
Ok
Suppose shit does happen now and again
Forums can be a deadly playground for the newbies
Everyone's out to comment but try and make it witty etc
*btw I'm still going with chins cause of that beard  |
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"Couple of weeks in fabland is like a minute in real time op (original poster btw If you didn't already know) I thought it was other person when first came on here lol
Not read all the thread but sounds like there's been a bit of abuse
Banter and a bit of piss taking is all well and good but fine line I suppose? I'm prob the worst for it aswell
Chat on the forums
Participate in the fun n games
Get to know people
Keep your chins up
Hopefully work out great for you matey
Yes it's not long and things been said that shouldn't and I could have handled it better but she said what she did and I replied with the first thing that came to my head.
It has got some conversation rolling though so all is good.
Cheers buddy, all the best to you.
Ok
Suppose shit does happen now and again
Forums can be a deadly playground for the newbies
Everyone's out to comment but try and make it witty etc
*btw I'm still going with chins cause of that beard "
I'm use to public threads I've been on another site for a long time.
Definitely only got the one chin buddy lol |
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"Couple of weeks in fabland is like a minute in real time op (original poster btw If you didn't already know) I thought it was other person when first came on here lol
Not read all the thread but sounds like there's been a bit of abuse
Banter and a bit of piss taking is all well and good but fine line I suppose? I'm prob the worst for it aswell
Chat on the forums
Participate in the fun n games
Get to know people
Keep your chins up
Hopefully work out great for you matey
Yes it's not long and things been said that shouldn't and I could have handled it better but she said what she did and I replied with the first thing that came to my head.
It has got some conversation rolling though so all is good.
Cheers buddy, all the best to you.
Ok
Suppose shit does happen now and again
Forums can be a deadly playground for the newbies
Everyone's out to comment but try and make it witty etc
*btw I'm still going with chins cause of that beard
I'm use to public threads I've been on another site for a long time.
Definitely only got the one chin buddy lol "
have fun fella |
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"Been on here a couple of weeks now and no one really seems to want to talk. I know I'm just another cock amongst many others but I'm also a nice person.
I'm not looking to fuck just anyone and would love to make friends as well. "
your one of many single men on here who do not get responds from others. |
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"Been on here a couple of weeks now and no one really seems to want to talk. I know I'm just another cock amongst many others but I'm also a nice person.
I'm not looking to fuck just anyone and would love to make friends as well. your one of many single men on here who do not get responds from others. "
Make a thread buddy, it's helped me |
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A great start to you your profile maybe a variation to the pictures (not all black and white) and the best advice would be just be patient or visit a swingers club and socialise with people there they are great for making contacts and for for people to verify you. |
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"A great start to you your profile maybe a variation to the pictures (not all black and white) and the best advice would be just be patient or visit a swingers club and socialise with people there they are great for making contacts and for for people to verify you."
Cheers buddy, I do love a b&w pic but should inject some colour ones and I definitely need to go to meets soon but the ones here are usually on Wednesday evening and I'm at work |
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In reply the original posting of his thread... profile help.... hot profile.
For the rest of the thread? 2 messages got deleted but the reaction of the reaction of the reaction didn’t. It’s chinese whispers gone into overdrive. |
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"In reply the original posting of his thread... profile help.... hot profile.
For the rest of the thread? 2 messages got deleted but the reaction of the reaction of the reaction didn’t. It’s chinese whispers gone into overdrive."
Thank you beauty xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It wasn't me. 
Don't feed the trolls hun, they will get bored and leave
It's too minimal to lose your head over
Ignore and move on even if it was an insult, it's not worth it
I like the profile picture. Move to the south  |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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I love your profile! (Gawd, twice in one week - what is wrong with me? I’m usually the bitch of the forums when it comes to tearing apart profiles )
It’s short but gives me a good idea of you as a person, makes you sound very appealing and hints at a certain something more. Umph. Well done.
It’ll take time though. For all the messages that will actually get back to you, 90% of the conversations will fizzle out before you get anywhere.
Every so often, though, you’ll meet an absolute corker that you really click with and it makes it all worthwhile
See if you can find (or organise!) a reasonably local social. You should go down a storm there |
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"Been on here a couple of weeks now and no one really seems to want to talk. I know I'm just another cock amongst many others but I'm also a nice person.
I'm not looking to fuck just anyone and would love to make friends as well. your one of many single men on here who do not get responds from others.
Make a thread buddy, it's helped me"
I’ve done similar threads like this one which did not help because I got told off both barrels on here where other single men did not. So I am not posting any new threads or comments only done here to show how hard it is for us single men the only thing I be post is about my weight lose journey from now of for a while.. Anyway good luck to you may you have lot of fun. |
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"It wasn't me.
Don't feed the trolls hun, they will get bored and leave
It's too minimal to lose your head over
Ignore and move on even if it was an insult, it's not worth it
I like the profile picture. Move to the south "
I couldn't help it, I let my dom out.
I actually moved up from the south, originally from bognor regis |
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"I love your profile! (Gawd, twice in one week - what is wrong with me? I’m usually the bitch of the forums when it comes to tearing apart profiles )
It’s short but gives me a good idea of you as a person, makes you sound very appealing and hints at a certain something more. Umph. Well done.
It’ll take time though. For all the messages that will actually get back to you, 90% of the conversations will fizzle out before you get anywhere.
Every so often, though, you’ll meet an absolute corker that you really click with and it makes it all worthwhile
See if you can find (or organise!) a reasonably local social. You should go down a storm there "
Sometimes things need to be said and others just need sound advice which I have mostly been given.
Glad you appreciate counter attacks, I'm not one to roll over.
I will definitely arrange or attend social soon. Hopefully you're right there x |
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"Been on here a couple of weeks now and no one really seems to want to talk. I know I'm just another cock amongst many others but I'm also a nice person.
I'm not looking to fuck just anyone and would love to make friends as well. your one of many single men on here who do not get responds from others.
Make a thread buddy, it's helped meI’ve done similar threads like this one which did not help because I got told off both barrels on here where other single men did not. So I am not posting any new threads or comments only done here to show how hard it is for us single men the only thing I be post is about my weight lose journey from now of for a while.. Anyway good luck to you may you have lot of fun. "
Don't let others put you down buddy, just say what you need to and see what happens.
Best of luck to you as well |
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"Been on here a couple of weeks now and no one really seems to want to talk. I know I'm just another cock amongst many others but I'm also a nice person.
I'm not looking to fuck just anyone and would love to make friends as well. your one of many single men on here who do not get responds from others.
Make a thread buddy, it's helped meI’ve done similar threads like this one which did not help because I got told off both barrels on here where other single men did not. So I am not posting any new threads or comments only done here to show how hard it is for us single men the only thing I be post is about my weight lose journey from now of for a while.. Anyway good luck to you may you have lot of fun.
Don't let others put you down buddy, just say what you need to and see what happens.
Best of luck to you as well "
well i have said honest thing and they have put me down anyway thanks for the advice  |
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"Been on here a couple of weeks now and no one really seems to want to talk. I know I'm just another cock amongst many others but I'm also a nice person.
I'm not looking to fuck just anyone and would love to make friends as well. your one of many single men on here who do not get responds from others.
Make a thread buddy, it's helped meI’ve done similar threads like this one which did not help because I got told off both barrels on here where other single men did not. So I am not posting any new threads or comments only done here to show how hard it is for us single men the only thing I be post is about my weight lose journey from now of for a while.. Anyway good luck to you may you have lot of fun.
Don't let others put you down buddy, just say what you need to and see what happens.
Best of luck to you as well well i have said honest thing and they have put me down anyway thanks for the advice "
I don't know what you said but anyone that puts you down aren't the people you should mix with so just brush them away and try again |
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"Been on here a couple of weeks now and no one really seems to want to talk. I know I'm just another cock amongst many others but I'm also a nice person.
I'm not looking to fuck just anyone and would love to make friends as well. "
Fab takes time i was on here a good 4 months before i had my first meet your not the only new guy to go through this and you wont be the last |
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
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"Been on here a couple of weeks now and no one really seems to want to talk. I know I'm just another cock amongst many others but I'm also a nice person.
I'm not looking to fuck just anyone and would love to make friends as well.
Fab takes time i was on here a good 4 months before i had my first meet your not the only new guy to go through this and you wont be the last "
Strange that it says 7 months ago and you have only been here 6 months!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Calling someone names
Comments like that is what going to make people just skip past your profile
In all fairness she started throwing unnecessary abuse at me and I always stick up for myself.
If people can't reply with something nice or helpful like the others before her then just shouldn't bother commenting.
I'm here to get to know people, not to throw abuse but I will return it if comes my way."
Some women on here think they have the right to just be rude  |
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"Been on here a couple of weeks now and no one really seems to want to talk. I know I'm just another cock amongst many others but I'm also a nice person.
I'm not looking to fuck just anyone and would love to make friends as well.
Fab takes time i was on here a good 4 months before i had my first meet your not the only new guy to go through this and you wont be the last
Strange that it says 7 months ago and you have only been here 6 months! "
i previously was on here as denimodude but have forgotten my login so made a new profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your second pic on your profile is stunning, Make it your profile picture please.
Love the dark and moody look.
The deep in thought one with hands together? "
That's the one!
It's gorgeous x |
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"Your second pic on your profile is stunning, Make it your profile picture please.
Love the dark and moody look.
The deep in thought one with hands together?
That's the one!
It's gorgeous x"
Thank you, the belt one is apparently appealing as well x |
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"Been on here a couple of weeks now and no one really seems to want to talk. I know I'm just another cock amongst many others but I'm also a nice person.
I'm not looking to fuck just anyone and would love to make friends as well. your one of many single men on here who do not get responds from others.
Make a thread buddy, it's helped meI’ve done similar threads like this one which did not help because I got told off both barrels on here where other single men did not. So I am not posting any new threads or comments only done here to show how hard it is for us single men the only thing I be post is about my weight lose journey from now of for a while.. Anyway good luck to you may you have lot of fun.
Don't let others put you down buddy, just say what you need to and see what happens.
Best of luck to you as well well i have said honest thing and they have put me down anyway thanks for the advice
I don't know what you said but anyone that puts you down aren't the people you should mix with so just brush them away and try again "
Maybe I will once I got all my confidence back I see how I feel since told after been told I sound negative which I am not. In the end what I never had I will never miss even no friends since moving back two the UK 21 years ago but life is too short to let small thing bother me so I enjoy it too the full. |
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"Calling someone names
Comments like that is what going to make people just skip past your profile
In all fairness she started throwing unnecessary abuse at me and I always stick up for myself.
If people can't reply with something nice or helpful like the others before her then just shouldn't bother commenting.
I'm here to get to know people, not to throw abuse but I will return it if comes my way.
Some women on here think they have the right to just be rude "
Yes they do and definitely no need for it when I had done nothing wrong. |
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