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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi thought I would put a post in here seeing as I am 2 weeks in to joining the site - also I am waiting for my delayed train on the way home from a hen weekend still full of cold - so may pass my time!) I am just finding my feet with the site and the things I have noticed as a newbie to fab are:
1. Why do people not read profiles properly grrr I am not looking to message/meet/fuck in one hour
2. Do other single females get horrible messages if you don't reply, intact even reply saying thanks for the message but not interested?!
3. On the upside have been lucky enough to hear from one or two genuine people that I can't wait to meet!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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welcome to fab you will get these problems but generally it is best to ignore, block & move on.
hope you have lots of fun on here, sure you will, you look gorgeous xx |
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evening and welcome 
I hope you enjoy the site and just ignore the idiots that can make it very frustrating sometimes.
Its your choice who you reply too and you don't have to sned 'no thanks' messages as it just opens up the conversation for more .....
good luck and if your train every stops at ipswich platform get off and come meet us |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Aw thanks guys. So makes sense nit to send no thanks messages- didn't even think about it opening up the conversation. Was just trying to be polite.! Xx |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Aw thanks guys. So makes sense nit to send no thanks messages- didn't even think about it opening up the conversation. Was just trying to be polite.! Xx"
I'm afraid the less scrupulous men will use any response, even a 'no', as an invitation to chat and pester you to change your mind. Just ignore and block and move on to the nice people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aw thanks guys. So makes sense nit to send no thanks messages- didn't even think about it opening up the conversation. Was just trying to be polite.! Xx"
Politeness is a wonderful quality that seems harder to find in everyday life, so your intentions were/are admirable. Personally if I get a 'no thanks' or a 'not for me' I thank them and wish them luck. I'd I get no response, I move on, I can't be everyone's cup of tea after all. I'd much rather people were selective, it's so much more of a compliment if contact continues |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be upset if I got a no from you Bustyfun :P
But honestly, politeness is a quality often missed on this site! I'm happy to receive a no because it's a definite outcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aw thanks guys. So makes sense nit to send no thanks messages- didn't even think about it opening up the conversation. Was just trying to be polite.! Xx
Politeness is a wonderful quality that seems harder to find in everyday life, so your intentions were/are admirable. Personally if I get a 'no thanks' or a 'not for me' I thank them and wish them luck. I'd I get no response, I move on, I can't be everyone's cup of tea after all. I'd much rather people were selective, it's so much more of a compliment if contact continues "
This is so right  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I say stick with messaging back all even with a no thank you - lots will come back with no problem, any that come back with a nasty one just block.
Take it for what it is all good fun and always always on your terms - looking at your pic I'm sure you will have no problem getting those gorgeous men to play nicely.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I say stick with messaging back all even with a no thank you - lots will come back with no problem, any that come back with a nasty one just block.
Take it for what it is all good fun and always always on your terms - looking at your pic I'm sure you will have no problem getting those gorgeous men to play nicely. "
thanks for your advice. It's nice to hear from other females and yes so true my terms! And thank you for the compliment! |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"I say stick with messaging back all even with a no thank you - lots will come back with no problem, any that come back with a nasty one just block.
Take it for what it is all good fun and always always on your terms - looking at your pic I'm sure you will have no problem getting those gorgeous men to play nicely. "
+1 I've never had an abusive message after I've sent a thanks but no thanks, more often than not get a polite "thanks for bothering to reply" and that's the end of the conversation....if I did get a twonk sending an abusive message, well I'm thick skinned and not at all bovvered about the size of my block list - hope you have a fan-bloody-tastic time on here, I know I do xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That could be a location factor. As you are in south lakes you probably don't get the message amount you get in London area. I don't mean that in a bad way it's just that there are more people in London on here.. Or I have just been unfortunate  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take any abusive messages with a pinch of salt - when out in town will meet some gems and some you swerve very quickly. Same on here. I have met some guys on here who I am pleased to call friends now (and not all I've played with !!)
Doesn't matter what you write in your profile a minority simply will not read it and message you even if they are not what you are looking for and state it clearly.At the end of the day though all good fun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ha am originally from the north so can agree with that. I need to sort out my message filters so thanks for the reminder there! My biggest buggerance is Peoplenot even reading my profile and just looking at which females are online so just messaging for an instant shag lol -
Wish I could block! X  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"Ha am originally from the north so can agree with that. I need to sort out my message filters so thanks for the reminder there! My biggest buggerance is Peoplenot even reading my profile and just looking at which females are online so just messaging for an instant shag lol -
Wish I could block! X "
Yeah, it's like a round-robin shagnote isn't it - "Love your profile, you look like the sort of girl I'd get on with, do you fancy chatting/fucking/sucking my dick" **YAWN** - still more room for the real good guys (and girls) and there's lots of 'em |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" and there's a lot of horny feckers in the north "
I think it must be something in the water!!!!
As for the rude replies Busty as someone else says use the block button, but welcome. Everyone is really nice in here and they'll look after you!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i agree a simple no thanks is enough for me to move on.
to be honest i agree that it shouldnt be a quicky.
i prefer it to be a regular thing but at the same time i have noticed that a lot of people treat this site like a dating site.
hope you stopped getting horrible mail tho as that aint right.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it sad that some people do that i mean really. You are gonna send a hate message to someone just because they didnt say what you wanted to hear? come.on. That is just plain immature...but there are morons out there just like that. Good luck out there busty (^-^) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That could be a location factor. As you are in south lakes you probably don't get the message amount you get in London area. I don't mean that in a bad way it's just that there are more people in London on here.. Or I have just been unfortunate x"
You will get more messages from people you have no chance of meeting, simply because there's more successful swinging that goes on in the north and midlands than in the south, London in particular, as has been discussed and generally agreed upon in previous threads. People are generally more friendly and open to strangers in the north which lends itself well to swinging.
Plus there's the transport problem. A lot of folk in London spend two hours or so travelling each way to work therefore can be forgiven for being knackered a lot of the time! Also if an hour or two is the furthest reasonable travelling distance for a meet it tends to limit drivers to within a 20 mile radius, covering maybe 3 or 4 million. With the north that practically opens up the entire north of the country, so the figure is much higher?
All the same London folk still do meet up regularly so I wouldn't let that put you off too much. And wherever you live, you will still get mail from bell-ends, no one region has the patent on them...
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