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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile text is a little clichéd, “I don’t bite” for example.
Expand on the “fun things” you’d like to try.
Ditch the line about being told to jog on - no one will do that they just press delete.
A bit of spacing / paragraphs would help too.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Changes made. Thank you for your help.
A few more public photos as well.
And if you use the Reply & Quote it’s easier to follow the chat.
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I will do that from now on. Thank you |
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Hello OP. At present the only picture you have available is your profile pic. Fair play, it's a smiling face pic, but as it's not viewable then that would put us off meeting you if you had approached us. Make that pic, and a few more, viewable and that will surely help. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hello OP. At present the only picture you have available is your profile pic. Fair play, it's a smiling face pic, but as it's not viewable then that would put us off meeting you if you had approached us. Make that pic, and a few more, viewable and that will surely help."
Thank you. I will work on some more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please be honest what do I need to do to make my profile more attractive to people?"
You do OP
Treat a profile like a shop window, the more exciting on offer the more they will want to come in., |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your header says "to honest" and profile text "wife doesn't know I'm on here"........doesn't back up any form of honesty does it."
Honest as in one area not in all possibly. Like a lot of others on here if you think about it - like real age versus fab age, upto date photos versus 5 years ago when I was a size 10.... If you read on though she does know he meets for casual sex.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your header says "to honest" and profile text "wife doesn't know I'm on here"........doesn't back up any form of honesty does it.
Honest as in one area not in all possibly. Like a lot of others on here if you think about it - like real age versus fab age, upto date photos versus 5 years ago when I was a size 10.... If you read on though she does know he meets for casual sex.
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It's her choice not to know how or where I meet ladies. |
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A good range of public photos, so people have a chance to know whether there is any possible attraction.
Your first paragraph has lots of words but no details - it's similar to having no photos, as there's nothing to get purchase from.
I suggest some minor changes. Get more specific, perhaps saying more in less words. Eg, just state you're having sex with partners permission. And you're reliable.
Perhaps including some info on the areas you're interested in and would travel to, plus the times you could meet. Some specific sexual interest details may help. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Can I suggest that your partner seeks help. There’s no need for a woman to suffer. I’ve had operations that could have potentially limited my sex life. There are thousands of woman in similar circumstances.
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Firstly, you have one publicly visible photo and it's not particularly flattering. Post a few pics, with variation and some creativity, and make sure they present you in the best possible way.
As for the text:
"I am a guy who believes a lady deserves to be treated with respect and passion . I am genuine and will always tell the truth and will not mess you around."
This is literally the least you can do. I'm sure you have more than this to offer. Sell yourself.
"She dosn't know I come on here but does know I meet for sex and fun."
This whole part might confuse some people. I think I understand what you mean - your partner is ok with you meeting other women for sex, but doesn't want to know the details etc. I would suggest it's best to simplify this by saying something like "I'm married, but have permission to meet others". You can always explain in further detail if asked. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""She dosn't know I come on here but does know I meet for sex and fun."
This is a bit confusing. Perhaps just say you have permission? "
In honesty how many married guy's on here actually have permission to play alone? I do and just wanted to give some details as I why. |
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""She dosn't know I come on here but does know I meet for sex and fun."
This is a bit confusing. Perhaps just say you have permission?
In honesty how many married guy's on here actually have permission to play alone? I do and just wanted to give some details as I why. "
Be prepared some will wish to have a chat with your wife. Anyone can say they have permission to play...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Please be honest what do I need to do to make my profile more attractive to people?
You do OP
Treat a profile like a shop window, the more exciting on offer the more they will want to come in.,"
Exactly what I was told so worked on it for abit and well im getting alot more attention |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best advice i can give which was also said to me along with the shop window reference above is to treat your profile like your cv constantly update it work on it more detail on what your looking for and what you offer id get rid of the wife not knowing about fab bit and just try to sound upbeat dont just write it one time and not bother updating it till you've had enough add more to get more hope this helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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HARD WORK !!! The site is totally hard work and brimming over with messers and armchair wankers .. fab need to start charging for the use of this site then it will keep the weirdos from joining up every few days .... they wont and it's only going to get worse . 8 yrs ago we could come on here and chat to decent folk ... Haha not no more .
RIP FAB |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"HARD WORK !!! The site is totally hard work and brimming over with messers and armchair wankers .. fab need to start charging for the use of this site then it will keep the weirdos from joining up every few days .... they wont and it's only going to get worse . 8 yrs ago we could come on here and chat to decent folk ... Haha not no more .
RIP FAB "
No one is forced to stay here if they aren't happy. The OP asked for advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bern on n off here for roughly 10 yrs . We Been stood up 18 times , booked n paid for 6 hotels n no show .. one 25 yr old female turned out to be a 50 yr old guy with a big chin oms dont tell me to look for advice on your account!!! What you going to tell me that I dont already know that it's full of armchair wankers , dole dosing cunt n old weird cunts .. ??? Waiting |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Bern on n off here for roughly 10 yrs . We Been stood up 18 times , booked n paid for 6 hotels n no show .. one 25 yr old female turned out to be a 50 yr old guy with a big chin oms dont tell me to look for advice on your account!!! What you going to tell me that I dont already know that it's full of armchair wankers , dole dosing cunt n old weird cunts .. ??? Waiting "
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