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over a year ago
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"Happening more and more here. All starts off well, messages are exchanged, and then all comms shut down! WTG "
Pure cowardice, simply say “ok nice chatting but that’s it for me, happy fabbing” |
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"Happening more and more here. All starts off well, messages are exchanged, and then all comms shut down! WTG
Pure cowardice, simply say “ok nice chatting but that’s it for me, happy fabbing” "
Sometimes its easier just to say nothing, people get bored or put off by things and from past experience ive had nothing but abuse after saying sorry but its a no |
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By *o I OP Man
over a year ago
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"Happening more and more here. All starts off well, messages are exchanged, and then all comms shut down! WTG
Pure cowardice, simply say “ok nice chatting but that’s it for me, happy fabbing”
Sometimes its easier just to say nothing, people get bored or put off by things and from past experience ive had nothing but abuse after saying sorry but its a no"
A 'not for me' is fine. But don't get expectations up, and then go cold. I don't think people quite get the purpose(s) of why we are all on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Happening more and more here. All starts off well, messages are exchanged, and then all comms shut down! WTG
Pure cowardice, simply say “ok nice chatting but that’s it for me, happy fabbing”
Sometimes its easier just to say nothing, people get bored or put off by things and from past experience ive had nothing but abuse after saying sorry but its a no
A 'not for me' is fine. But don't get expectations up, and then go cold. I don't think people quite get the purpose(s) of why we are all on here. "
Never have expectations til youve actually met, noone owes you anything people are entitled to change their minds |
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By *o I OP Man
over a year ago
Sudbury |
"Happening more and more here. All starts off well, messages are exchanged, and then all comms shut down! WTG
Pure cowardice, simply say “ok nice chatting but that’s it for me, happy fabbing”
Sometimes its easier just to say nothing, people get bored or put off by things and from past experience ive had nothing but abuse after saying sorry but its a no
A 'not for me' is fine. But don't get expectations up, and then go cold. I don't think people quite get the purpose(s) of why we are all on here.
Never have expectations til youve actually met, noone owes you anything people are entitled to change their minds"
I totally respect that. But it would be nice to get that out of courtesy |
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I've been on here awhile and had such hassle and horrendous msgs back from saying "thanks but no thanks" or if been sending msgs but there just isn't that spark ive said it's not working.
Also it may depend on who you are chatting to.
Are they recently verified?
I know there are allot of time wasters on here.
I'd go to socials or events at clubs. Get yourself at the bar and chat to people it's the best way.
Also i have found there is an issue with mail,
I've lost messages from people I regularly chat with because of being inundated by messages. Could do with a star system maybe.
Good luck x
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By *o I OP Man
over a year ago
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"I've been on here awhile and had such hassle and horrendous msgs back from saying "thanks but no thanks" or if been sending msgs but there just isn't that spark ive said it's not working.
Also it may depend on who you are chatting to.
Are they recently verified?
I know there are allot of time wasters on here.
I'd go to socials or events at clubs. Get yourself at the bar and chat to people it's the best way.
Also i have found there is an issue with mail,
I've lost messages from people I regularly chat with because of being inundated by messages. Could do with a star system maybe.
Good luck x
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Thanks Unicorn! Helpful. Issue with single men is that it is a bit of a lottery getting accepted to meets/socials possibly because of experiences people have had with single males flaunting themselves about. Early days for me, but it'll be worth it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its pretty normal as you know if you like someone or if they are boring the shit out of you after half a dozen messages it would be worse if they said you were such a boring person and not to mail them again. Its not cowardice its not rude its sometimes better to say nothing in reality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Happening more and more here. All starts off well, messages are exchanged, and then all comms shut down! WTG
Pure cowardice, simply say “ok nice chatting but that’s it for me, happy fabbing”
Sometimes its easier just to say nothing, people get bored or put off by things and from past experience ive had nothing but abuse after saying sorry but its a no"
Yeah there is that risk I guess, the way I see it expect nothing then you can’t be disappointed and treat people how you’d like to be treated
A lot to be said for politeness and courtesy even on here x |
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By *o I OP Man
over a year ago
Sudbury |
"Happening more and more here. All starts off well, messages are exchanged, and then all comms shut down! WTG
Pure cowardice, simply say “ok nice chatting but that’s it for me, happy fabbing”
Sometimes its easier just to say nothing, people get bored or put off by things and from past experience ive had nothing but abuse after saying sorry but its a no
Yeah there is that risk I guess, the way I see it expect nothing then you can’t be disappointed and treat people how you’d like to be treated
A lot to be said for politeness and courtesy even on here x"
Great responses on here, which I'm grateful for. Thanks all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Happening more and more here. All starts off well, messages are exchanged, and then all comms shut down! WTG "
That's not ghosting that's just plain old bad manners!
It's only ghosting when you are in a personal relationship and they suddenly blank you with no reasons ... it's highly damaging emotionally.
For it to be on fab you'd have to be in a relationship with these people |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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"I've been on here awhile and had such hassle and horrendous msgs back from saying "thanks but no thanks" or if been sending msgs but there just isn't that spark ive said it's not working.
Also it may depend on who you are chatting to.
Are they recently verified?
I know there are allot of time wasters on here.
I'd go to socials or events at clubs. Get yourself at the bar and chat to people it's the best way.
Also i have found there is an issue with mail,
I've lost messages from people I regularly chat with because of being inundated by messages. Could do with a star system maybe.
Good luck x
Thanks Unicorn! Helpful. Issue with single men is that it is a bit of a lottery getting accepted to meets/socials possibly because of experiences people have had with single males flaunting themselves about. Early days for me, but it'll be worth it. "
Mate I get out to socials regularly... you just have to be early on the list and then show up and be polite etc... I've met a load of great people from socials which over time has widened my invites to other events.... |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Think it depends on the conversation. If you have exchanged lots of messages then conversation can quickly dry up. Sometimes the last message received can hint at them shutting the conversation down. It might not always be a case of ghosting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Happening more and more here. All starts off well, messages are exchanged, and then all comms shut down! WTG
Pure cowardice, simply say “ok nice chatting but that’s it for me, happy fabbing”
Sometimes its easier just to say nothing, people get bored or put off by things and from past experience ive had nothing but abuse after saying sorry but its a no
A 'not for me' is fine. But don't get expectations up, and then go cold. I don't think people quite get the purpose(s) of why we are all on here.
Never have expectations til youve actually met, noone owes you anything people are entitled to change their minds"
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