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"Hi can I get some honest feedback please I've messaged people I'm intrested in and get no reply at all, is it that I'm just to bland asking to talk or is it my profile?"
It’s simply a numbers game. Nobody yet has decided to meet you. |
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By *eastonu OP Man
over a year ago
nr Manchester |
"Hi can I get some honest feedback please I've messaged people I'm intrested in and get no reply at all, is it that I'm just to bland asking to talk or is it my profile?
It’s simply a numbers game. Nobody yet has decided to meet you."
thank you not overly concerned about meets just no replies get me down but will carry on. |
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"Hi can I get some honest feedback please I've messaged people I'm intrested in and get no reply at all, is it that I'm just to bland asking to talk or is it my profile?
It’s simply a numbers game. Nobody yet has decided to meet you. thank you not overly concerned about meets just no replies get me down but will carry on."
Why would anyone reply if they don’t want to meet you? If all you want is a chat then go to the pub. |
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over a year ago
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Better photos even if you have to blur them some how, they can be clearer drop a dick pic in the bunch also don't overload with dick lol
Less about why you can't accomadate because of your job, sound married to me.
Add some likes ,,do you want a single women ,
Do you want to fuck a wife while the hubby watches ( personal fave for reader information)
If you want some social put that and try a ice breaker joke in your mail
Type titanic in the header and say now that's my ice breaker out the way would your like to gargle my nut sack ,, don't say that last bit just comedic effect lol but something that suits you
Fyi I've not had any meets of this site myself but it's week one, I do have experience using other platforms so try it  |
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"Hi can I get some honest feedback please I've messaged people I'm intrested in and get no reply at all, is it that I'm just to bland asking to talk or is it my profile?
It’s simply a numbers game. Nobody yet has decided to meet you. thank you not overly concerned about meets just no replies get me down but will carry on.
Why would anyone reply if they don’t want to meet you? If all you want is a chat then go to the pub. "
Because some people in society are courteous and not everyone is ignorant. A polite 'No thank you' goes a long way. If someone makes the effort to converse with me then I wouldn't just ignore them..... |
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Most people don’t realize there’s a message limit of 100 per day
On my female singles profile I get 100-200 a day that’s with filters in place - mathematically impossible to answer them all, so they’re better saved for people you do want to meet, it’s why the FAb FAQs say to take an “ignored” message as a polite no thanks and that’s it’s not rude not to reply
I find The sooner people find that out the more relaxed their time on fab becomes especially when it’s a guy
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"Hi can I get some honest feedback please I've messaged people I'm intrested in and get no reply at all, is it that I'm just to bland asking to talk or is it my profile?
It’s simply a numbers game. Nobody yet has decided to meet you. thank you not overly concerned about meets just no replies get me down but will carry on.
Why would anyone reply if they don’t want to meet you? If all you want is a chat then go to the pub.
Because some people in society are courteous and not everyone is ignorant. A polite 'No thank you' goes a long way. If someone makes the effort to converse with me then I wouldn't just ignore them....."
You’re new, you’ll find out soon enough that nobody owes you a reply. Go to the search facility on the forum and type in ‘manners’ ‘no reply’ or something similar. |
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"Hi can I get some honest feedback please I've messaged people I'm intrested in and get no reply at all, is it that I'm just to bland asking to talk or is it my profile?"
If I’m honest it reads like a dating profile rather than something from a swingers site. Don’t forget, while lots of people want a connection don’t forget what this site is about!
I’m looking for friends... friends I want to fuck ha!
Mrs Twinkle Xx |
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Hello OP, just my opinion but you asked so here goes.
Your current profile photo looks like it was take in a dark room, and suggest that you were trying to take it without someone else finding out. perhaps you were trying not to wake the wife?
Add a few more pics, preferably in colour to brighten the page. Face pics are always a good thing, but if you won't post them then try to add a variety of pics that might just show something about your personality.
Telling people your not great at messaging on a contact site is not really a good idea. It might make people question what is the point in messaging you.
Brackets - They are are punctuation marks used within a sentence to include information that is not essential to the main point. Information within brackets is usually supplementary; were it removed, the meaning of the sentence would remain unchanged. You have a lot of information in brackets, is it really required?
Drop the first line, it adds nothing to your shop window. Drop the quasi legal script at the bottom. It means absolutely nothing.
Just for the hell of it I have taken the liberty of rewriting your profile below. It is largely the same text, but I've played with it a little, sorry if I have overstepped the mark.
"I'm single, 40 and I'm looking to meet ladies for fun and friendship.
I'm big, cuddly and respectful. I'm an easy going bloke, open to most things.
I may wink at you; I'm not being lazy but showing an interest if you wink back I'll send message. If I do message you please reply back, even just to say not interested.
My pictures are blurred because of what I do but I have clear face pics that I'm more than happy to send if you ask' I'm looking for someone to take some better pictures with me if you would like to help
I love going to the cinema as part of an entertaining evening. Equally I enjoy being outdoors, walking and kayaking. I enjoy several other hobbies, including archery and other sports.
I'm a carer. For this reason I cannot accommodate and my availability will vary dependent on the needs of my client. Planning ahead for meets is preferable and I have more time available during the day.
I hope you like my profile. Please ask any questions and I will reply as soon as possible. I also have kik and Snapchat accounts under the same profile name, should you prefer to use them".
Tbh you have been on 3 months and met one person so that's not a bad start, keep going.
Good luck |
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By *eastonu OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hello OP, just my opinion but you asked so here goes.
Your current profile photo looks like it was take in a dark room, and suggest that you were trying to take it without someone else finding out. perhaps you were trying not to wake the wife?
Add a few more pics, preferably in colour to brighten the page. Face pics are always a good thing, but if you won't post them then try to add a variety of pics that might just show something about your personality.
Telling people your not great at messaging on a contact site is not really a good idea. It might make people question what is the point in messaging you.
Brackets - They are are punctuation marks used within a sentence to include information that is not essential to the main point. Information within brackets is usually supplementary; were it removed, the meaning of the sentence would remain unchanged. You have a lot of information in brackets, is it really required?
Drop the first line, it adds nothing to your shop window. Drop the quasi legal script at the bottom. It means absolutely nothing.
Just for the hell of it I have taken the liberty of rewriting your profile below. It is largely the same text, but I've played with it a little, sorry if I have overstepped the mark.
"I'm single, 40 and I'm looking to meet ladies for fun and friendship.
I'm big, cuddly and respectful. I'm an easy going bloke, open to most things.
I may wink at you; I'm not being lazy but showing an interest if you wink back I'll send message. If I do message you please reply back, even just to say not interested.
My pictures are blurred because of what I do but I have clear face pics that I'm more than happy to send if you ask' I'm looking for someone to take some better pictures with me if you would like to help
I love going to the cinema as part of an entertaining evening. Equally I enjoy being outdoors, walking and kayaking. I enjoy several other hobbies, including archery and other sports.
I'm a carer. For this reason I cannot accommodate and my availability will vary dependent on the needs of my client. Planning ahead for meets is preferable and I have more time available during the day.
I hope you like my profile. Please ask any questions and I will reply as soon as possible. I also have kik and Snapchat accounts under the same profile name, should you prefer to use them".
Tbh you have been on 3 months and met one person so that's not a bad start, keep going.
Good luck "
thank you I will take it on board. Ive definitely not got a wife apt of times wish I did.
I know my pictures are rubbish and will try to get better ones as soon as I can but not easy to take yourself.
Thanks again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi can I get some honest feedback please I've messaged people I'm intrested in and get no reply at all, is it that I'm just to bland asking to talk or is it my profile?"
Numbers game buddy. What Topsy said is good advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi can I get some honest feedback please I've messaged people I'm intrested in and get no reply at all, is it that I'm just to bland asking to talk or is it my profile?"
I suspect that it is simply that those who you are messaging do not find you appealing, either due to your pictures, your profile text or both.
None of us appeal to everybody.
I think you should also have a read of the site FAQ's, particularly the one which relates to non-replies to messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair OP, you may be messaging people you're interested in, but there's no guarantee that they will be interested in you - and if that's the case, why should they message you back just to say 'no thanks. Site FAQ's clearly state that no reply = 'no thanks' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So now his profile contains words that aren’t his own. How is that going to help?
No shit your tits are really nice
Random"
Yours look nice too, shapely and it keeps a bit of interest that they are covered  |
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"Hello OP, just my opinion but you asked so here goes.
Your current profile photo looks like it was take in a dark room, and suggest that you were trying to take it without someone else finding out. perhaps you were trying not to wake the wife?
Add a few more pics, preferably in colour to brighten the page. Face pics are always a good thing, but if you won't post them then try to add a variety of pics that might just show something about your personality.
Telling people your not great at messaging on a contact site is not really a good idea. It might make people question what is the point in messaging you.
Brackets - They are are punctuation marks used within a sentence to include information that is not essential to the main point. Information within brackets is usually supplementary; were it removed, the meaning of the sentence would remain unchanged. You have a lot of information in brackets, is it really required?
Drop the first line, it adds nothing to your shop window. Drop the quasi legal script at the bottom. It means absolutely nothing.
Just for the hell of it I have taken the liberty of rewriting your profile below. It is largely the same text, but I've played with it a little, sorry if I have overstepped the mark.
"I'm single, 40 and I'm looking to meet ladies for fun and friendship.
I'm big, cuddly and respectful. I'm an easy going bloke, open to most things.
I may wink at you; I'm not being lazy but showing an interest if you wink back I'll send message. If I do message you please reply back, even just to say not interested.
My pictures are blurred because of what I do but I have clear face pics that I'm more than happy to send if you ask' I'm looking for someone to take some better pictures with me if you would like to help
I love going to the cinema as part of an entertaining evening. Equally I enjoy being outdoors, walking and kayaking. I enjoy several other hobbies, including archery and other sports.
I'm a carer. For this reason I cannot accommodate and my availability will vary dependent on the needs of my client. Planning ahead for meets is preferable and I have more time available during the day.
I hope you like my profile. Please ask any questions and I will reply as soon as possible. I also have kik and Snapchat accounts under the same profile name, should you prefer to use them".
Tbh you have been on 3 months and met one person so that's not a bad start, keep going.
Good luck
thank you I will take it on board. Ive definitely not got a wife apt of times wish I did.
I know my pictures are rubbish and will try to get better ones as soon as I can but not easy to take yourself.
Thanks again "
More time during day surely as a carer during the day is when needed most as night you are settled.... makes me think hes available during day while other half and kids at school.... my observation nothing else x |
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"So now his profile contains words that aren’t his own. How is that going to help?
No shit your tits are really nice
Random
Nah, just the usual creepy shit. "
 OK I get I am not supposed to comment on pictures of boobs, I'm learning |
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