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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When I joined this site I seemed to be getting quite a few messages from couples and singles females. This has gradually gone down and now I am hardly recieving any. Anyone give me some tips on refreshing my profile? Any thing bad? Anything good about it?
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Hi OP,
When you rejoined and had lots of messages it may just have been because you were new and appeared on peoples 'local updates' since then of course you probably don't, so now you need to do your bit to attract them.
Refresh your profile. For example your asking for people that knew you on your previous profile, it's been nine months, so I really don't think they are going to bother now. But it does signal to me that you haven't bothered to update your profile since joining and if you can't be bothered then why should anyone else.
When it comes to your pics, cut down on the cock pics, and get rid of the large black blobs as previously stated by others. An obscured pic is better than a pic with a blob across it.
As much as your profile is your shop window, it is just one element of the site. If you make use of the chatroom, forum adverts etc and get yourself known and advertised then our chances are going to increase. Effort in = reward.
Talking of effort, the send a wink approach may not seem lazy to you, but have you thought of it from the other perspective? It certainly came across as lazy to us. Not only that, but how would you guarantee that the other person has seen the wink, then read your profile to find out that you expect them to wink back before you'll write to them? Many people simply delete winks, or even leave them alone because then the person can't ever wink you again.
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Its your profile and whatever changes people advise you to make, you will lose some interest and gain some attention..
If you look at the number of pics fabbed,cock pics will almost always be top,despite lots of women saying they dont like them..
Weigh it all up and make changes for YOU not others and be patient...The meets will come along. |
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"Its your profile and whatever changes people advise you to make, you will lose some interest and gain some attention..
If you look at the number of pics fabbed,cock pics will almost always be top,despite lots of women saying they dont like them..
Weigh it all up and make changes for YOU not others and be patient...The meets will come along."
Quite often the cock pics are fabbed by other guys not cock pic hungry women, as I'm sure lots of fab men will agree with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hi, someone hacked our account and changed the heading from a couple to a single male, so addmin deleted most of our pics now we cant change it back to a couple has anyone any idea's |
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