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By *dquest OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
We get a lot of requests from newbies to help them on the start of their adventure. It must be something on our profile... not sure what. Anyway, have any of you helped newbies out? What works and what will just scare them away for good? Let’s trade advice and stories for the benefit of all. |
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"We get a lot of requests from newbies to help them on the start of their adventure. It must be something on our profile... not sure what. "
We have the same, and quite enjoy it
"Anyway, have any of you helped newbies out? What works and what will just scare them away for good?"
Honesty works for us, no point beating about the bush. Tell us what you want and if we like the sound of it we'll chat further, if not we'll walk on by. Likewise we'll always say what we are looking for on the night.
The most common question we get asked is what should they expect. We always try to hide our second heads at this point and reassure them that they should expect to meet normal sane people that are looking for the same as them, and if we are meeting in a public place we'll have a few drinks and get to know each other first, whereas if we are at home we will probably just get straight down to the seduction  |
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By *dquest OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"We get a lot of requests from newbies to help them on the start of their adventure. It must be something on our profile... not sure what.
We have the same, and quite enjoy it
Anyway, have any of you helped newbies out? What works and what will just scare them away for good?
Honesty works for us, no point beating about the bush. Tell us what you want and if we like the sound of it we'll chat further, if not we'll walk on by. Likewise we'll always say what we are looking for on the night.
The most common question we get asked is what should they expect. We always try to hide our second heads at this point and reassure them that they should expect to meet normal sane people that are looking for the same as them, and if we are meeting in a public place we'll have a few drinks and get to know each other first, whereas if we are at home we will probably just get straight down to the seduction "
We find a pub social goes a long way. Talking about our experiences seems to really help them out. |
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"We find a pub social goes a long way. Talking about our experiences seems to really help them out."
Yes, we do the same, in fact it is our modus operandi.
It gives them the chance to relax a little, calm down and realise we are just normal people. Likewise, it gives us all a chance to know a little bit more about what each other are looking for before we hit the sheets |
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