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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm pretty new to this scene and trying to get stuck in. It can be a little daunting to have not much experience on here. Any advice or pointers to push me in the right direction? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty new to this scene and trying to get stuck in. It can be a little daunting to have not much experience on here. Any advice or pointers to push me in the right direction?"
Keep it realistic and be focused on what you are looking for. If you're going to send anyone a message read their profile 3 times before you do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Expect that some people will just block you for no reason even after just sending a friendly message but don’t get disheartened as there are some good people on here that are friendly!"
Thought only me lol |
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"I'm pretty new to this scene and trying to get stuck in. It can be a little daunting to have not much experience on here. Any advice or pointers to push me in the right direction?"
Have the right attitude to women, don't take deleted messages personally,go to social meets, but above all, be yourself and be chilled 
Oh...a more detailed profile and better pics wouldn't hurt  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be patient and not rush meets, make sure first message stand out with a face photo, read there profiles, filter out people who don’t match what u looking for, i am new aswel but the messages are slowly coming through and spoke to so genuine nice people and yeah u get blocked now and again for no reason. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"I'm pretty new to this scene and trying to get stuck in. It can be a little daunting to have not much experience here. Any advice or pointers to push me in the right direction?"
It's not AMAZON it won't get delivered to your door by next day delivery |
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"I'm pretty new to this scene and trying to get stuck in. It can be a little daunting to have not much experience on here. Any advice or pointers to push me in the right direction?"
More information about you on your profile i.e. What are your fantasies/turn ons/etc. A little about yourself. You have a couple of good photos, but you could do with more. No dick pics - which is a good thing! 
Read the profiles thoroughly before you wink or message. Not doing so is the main reason we deleted winks/messages. Do not send cock shots. Instant turn off. Seen one, seen them all.
Be polite and respectful, and not pushy. Tell people why you think you’d be a good match for them.
Be prepared to be ignored/let down/blocked/disappointed/etc
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By *uccubus19Couple
over a year ago
North London & Manilva Spain |
Women on the whole really dislike seeing mens dicks on profiles. ..suprisingly we know what they look like lol, so if you're going to put one on make it arty/tasteful you'll get less blocks and please don't put your manhood beside a remote control, beer bottle or ruler....unless you want women to laugh and then block you!
Sorry I'm not negative but pointing out the cringing side of photo posts we see lol. Yours are currently VERY hot! Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be patient and not rush meets, make sure first message stand out with a face photo, read there profiles, filter out people who don’t match what u looking for, i am new aswel but the messages are slowly coming through and spoke to so genuine nice people and yeah u get blocked now and again for no reason. "
Do you mean that you have been blocked by others and don't know the reason rather than your interpretation of no reason? |
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"Be patient and not rush meets, make sure first message stand out with a face photo, read there profiles, filter out people who don’t match what u looking for, i am new aswel but the messages are slowly coming through and spoke to so genuine nice people and yeah u get blocked now and again for no reason.
Do you mean that you have been blocked by others and don't know the reason rather than your interpretation of no reason?"
Fairly obviously he means no readily apparent, discernible reason - no reason that can be seen as their fault or that they have, either inadvertently or unittingly (or unknowingly), been the cause of.
It is shorter to abridge some thoughts and render them in the well recognised/understood vernacular. |
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Up for anything and everything? Can my Mrs fuck you in the arse with a big strap on while you are hog tied? If not then seriously consider rewording your profile. Makes it sound like you will fuck anything with a hole and a heartbeat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be patient and not rush meets, make sure first message stand out with a face photo, read there profiles, filter out people who don’t match what u looking for, i am new aswel but the messages are slowly coming through and spoke to so genuine nice people and yeah u get blocked now and again for no reason.
Do you mean that you have been blocked by others and don't know the reason rather than your interpretation of no reason?
Fairly obviously he means no readily apparent, discernible reason - no reason that can be seen as their fault or that they have, either inadvertently or unittingly (or unknowingly), been the cause of.
It is shorter to abridge some thoughts and render them in the well recognised/understood vernacular."
You should offer a nonsense translation service. |
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"Up for anything and everything? Can my Mrs fuck you in the arse with a big strap on while you are hog tied? If not then seriously consider rewording your profile. Makes it sound like you will fuck anything with a hole and a heartbeat. "
tempting actually... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in a similar boat, I've been here 7 months and I've not had so much as a hi or even a reply, I know obviously not everyone is going to be interested but there doesn't seem to be anyone interested, unless it's my profile haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any tips to give me on finding nsa regular fb ? I’m new to the scene and don’t want to come across as a weirdo or creep as I’m nothing like that. Just want to find naughty fun that’s all |
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"I'm in a similar boat, I've been here 7 months and I've not had so much as a hi or even a reply, I know obviously not everyone is going to be interested but there doesn't seem to be anyone interested, unless it's my profile haha "
Your profile is hidden which might be why you are not generating any interest |
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"Any tips to give me on finding nsa regular fb ? I’m new to the scene and don’t want to come across as a weirdo or creep as I’m nothing like that. Just want to find naughty fun that’s all "
What makes you think you might come across as a weirdo or creep ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty new to this scene and trying to get stuck in. It can be a little daunting to have not much experience on here. Any advice or pointers to push me in the right direction?"
Personally I avoid anyone who has been to more meetings than Frankie Dettori. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Your young....
Just enjoy being young rather than spending time here chasing fat old women...
There's ages for all that stuff
Aren't you a charmer..."
He makes inflammatory comments all the time - seems to get a weird kick out of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your young....
Just enjoy being young rather than spending time here chasing fat old women...
There's ages for all that stuff
Aren't you a charmer...
He makes inflammatory comments all the time - seems to get a weird kick out of it "
Wearied kink.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Read the profile before you message them. Nothing more frustrating than receiving messages asking questions when the answers are on the profile for everyone to see xx"
This. I'm done with first message dick pics. It's in profile not to send. Indicating I'm subject to copy and paste and desperate. Lord |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be Polite!
Be Respectful!
Read the profiles!
Just because people are on swingers site, it does not make them easy or a piece of meat! Most of them are normal people that you could meet anywhere in public! |
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