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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
I’m messaging lots of females and the odd couple but no one is replying to my messages or even seems to be opening them. Is there anyway I can get their attention to open my message or to get them to respond or is there something wrong with my profile.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Many women read a profile before they open a message, I guess they just don't like what they see, so don't bother reading the message."
Yeah it seems that way. Do you have any suggestions on what to say? |
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"Yep and somehow that stops it being shit? "
Well yeah. I think McDonald's is shit, so I don't go there. I think jazz is shit, so I don't listen to it. I guess my point was, if it's so shit why bother? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You will be too young for most people on here, instead of sending out lots of messages, spend time actually reading profiles and then only message people who are looking for your age group."
Agreed. I think it may well be your age |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You will be too young for most people on here, instead of sending out lots of messages, spend time actually reading profiles and then only message people who are looking for your age group."
I do that to be fair but when woman or couples have meeting anyone between 18 to 99 and don’t specify their preferred age group then it is not much help. I guess I’ll just have to find the few that want a young guy. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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Loose the selfie pics.
Get a tripod and learn to use your timer if you can't find a photographer.
Suits are a huge turn on, for most women.
Eyes can do a lot of talking too.
Black & white is very classy, use well: it sells.
Smiles, do I need to say more.
Treat each picture like it is for sale. Quality over quantity. Mystery and intrigue are good, "Sell the sizzle not the steak!"
Find out what your best bits are and hide them, partially. Maybe a half undone tie? Think James Bond and Daniel Craig in a tuxedo or those white shorts. Use your imagination and personality. Browse other blokes profiles and judge for yourself, what looks great and then copy the best ideas.
As for writing your profile, I owe a lot of thanks to Minnie the Minx. She is a bloody good editor, so stop by her profile, say hello to her and send her my best regards!
Finally, run round the forum and post funny, interesting, informative, challenging and well thought out posts. That's how ugly musicians get groupies.
The brain is a sex organ: never ever forget that. So apart from sex: what else can you bring to the party? This is YOUR selling point!
Good luck. |
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