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Not getting any meets.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First, can’t reply privately because you block men. It’s not just women that can offer advice.
Perhaps, and it’s just one man’s opinion, you come across as wanting to ‘use’ women for just one thing. The words you list perhaps sound harsh. Women want to be valued and appreciated and nothing here comes even close. Clearly, you want to fuck, NSA, attract someone that matches your sexual appetite but you could frame your profile differently and maybe...... |
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You've got a bunch of veris, doing better than most guys who ask for advice.
Personally the pics with all the captions and images added strike me as juvenile, and your text makes you sound more like a picture collector who likes camming, both of which would put me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age, yes to an extent it will go against you but that's just individual preferences, that's out of your control.
Your pictures are immature.
Your text, quite degrading to women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usually your age wouldn't put me off... Your list of the porn you have watched has though... And the pics someones 2 year old has drawn on, well I only got past them to the writen bit because of what of what others had said about it  |
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Everybody wants something that's unique to them - so as long as you target your activities towards those who seem to be wanting what's mutually needed, you'll be improving your potential success. There are people who like guys in your age range, as well as others who potentially may find your age too close to that of members of their family.
After a brief look at your profile, I got the impression of something like a menu of requirements, rather than an eloquently written outline of you as a person and what you offer, as well as seek. I don't think you specifically asked for profile advice, so it's not really appropriate for me to give it.
Consider making some changes to how you communicate and experimenting, to potentially see how it may improve things for you. It's worth searching the forum for posts with advice that help single guys, as there are many upon profile help and other aspects of success. |
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Whatever works for you mate. It should reflect who you are. If you're getting meets then you can't be doing much wrong.
It's not like mine but I don't get contacted often so perhaps therein lies the point. |
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By *itch400Man
over a year ago
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I too have problems trying to establish contact, links or general conversation on fab right now!
I am quite an open minded guy when it comes to the types of sexual things i have listed on profile its just me being adventurous, i have put a number of selfies on, but would couples, single ladies really want to see “other” more explicit ones idont know?
But yes im struggling even getting replies let alone any contact, any advice for me fabbies? Cheers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Age, yes to an extent it will go against you but that's just individual preferences, that's out of your control.
Your pictures are immature.
Your text, quite degrading to women."
Hes 23 so of course hes immature  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it my profile or age or something im missing? If you could give advice or help that would be great? Thank you"
nothing wrong at less you had a meet on here a lot of men do not have any that how hard it is on here for single men. anyway good luck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have 9 cock pics out of 11 pics and you're 23 not sure how you message women but if you lead with sex then most likely that's reason you fail but you have veris so maybe you're doing better than many |
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"Is it my profile or age or something im missing? If you could give advice or help that would be great? Thank you"
pictures are really poor with the silly writing on them but hey you have lots or verifications iv got one you must be doing something right I don't even get a response lol continue as you are
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it my profile or age or something im missing? If you could give advice or help that would be great? Thank you nothing wrong at less you had a meet on here a lot of men do not have any that how hard it is on here for single men. anyway good luck"
Any way i had someone send me a fake meet were i did not meet this person has it every happen to anyone else because i know i may not get a meet..it seem they deleted there profile.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it my profile or age or something im missing? If you could give advice or help that would be great? Thank you nothing wrong at less you had a meet on here a lot of men do not have any that how hard it is on here for single men. anyway good luck Any way i had someone send me a fake meet were i did not meet this person has it every happen to anyone else because i know i may not get a meet..it seem they deleted there profile. "
awwwww sounds like another guy, lucky escape if you're straight |
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"Any way i had someone send me a fake meet were i did not meet this person has it every happen to anyone else because i know i may not get a meet..it seem they deleted there profile. "
I thought if they closed their account the veris disappear? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought if they closed their account the veris disappear?
Yes they do.
Someone sent me a fake verification and I asked admin to remove it and they did. "
Can I borrow your spirit level |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought if they closed their account the veris disappear?
Yes they do.
Someone sent me a fake verification and I asked admin to remove it and they did. "
Same happened to me. I messaged admin to remove it about 3 weeks ago. Nothing happened. Veri still there but good job I can hide it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think your profile is spot on.
You are getting results.
Put more cartoons in, like googly eyes on your cock, it shows your playful side.
Also expand on your pic preferences, you missed out rosebudding, atm and hardsports.
Good luck. Your profile reflects who you are. |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
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Op -you seem a bit confused as to what vanilla is -last time I checked, it was anything but offensive? It's the little details like this that make people think you haven't a clue imo |
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"I think your profile is spot on.
You are getting results.
Put more cartoons in, like googly eyes on your cock, it shows your playful side.
Also expand on your pic preferences, you missed out rosebudding, atm and hardsports.
Good luck. Your profile reflects who you are."
Yes. Perfect.
4 pics could be quick draw jizz slinger. Perhaps a little holster and a sheriff badge?
Thirsty cock pic would benefit from a straw and glass of milk
Film night in or filthy scenarios... oh the dilemma. Which to choose? Other great options too . Im going to copy and paste it into my profile right now  |
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First and foremost your age will put many people off. You can't do anything about it, so don't fret.
We would consider meeting with you however, if it wsn't for this line "I understand this is a swingers site but i dont mind going for drinks or having a film night in if its with the right person", followed by a whole list of sexual things you want to do.
To us, that comes across as 'I want sex but if I really must I'll go for a drink with you first as long as we get to the sex bit, because that's all I want.
Now, no worries at all we are all here for sex. However knickers don't generally fall off if the first impression is all wrong.
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
Some ladies love them but a little look at your first couple of pictures and I had to get out of your profile. Cock pics just are or not at all for me.
So my personal opinion, is that I wouldn't even get to reading any text or pass the first couple of photos.
At the end of the day, it's your profile so your chance to show your individual personality. If that is what you are doing I would leave it how it is so people can see a glimpse of who you are. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"I generally think many ask for advice but never take it, good advice has been given let's see what happens. "
That is so true in so many of these profile advice threads, I really don't understand it. Obviously they can't take all the advice but to ask for advice and then take none of it at all, it's almost like they just want someone to look at their profile but don't really want advice on how to improve it.
I am somewhat wary of giving advice, because the profiles should be what they want to say about themselves, not what strangers feel they should say about themselves, to get other strangers to meet them. |
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