I’ve been on here for a little under a now and I’ve still not had any luck meeting someone, I have also been to a club as I thought that would help but still no luck. I know that it’s mostly down to my age but am I missing something else.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
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over a year ago
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There is fuck all you can do about it.
I was recently away and had far more success using a different site. 2 threesomes in 3 days compared to months of nothing here.
It is true you make your own luck, but Fab skews the odds firmly against single guys.
I only stick around because I like
a handful of people on here. I'm unlikely to be invited to their budoir but they make me laugh.
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"There is fuck all you can do about it.
I was recently away and had far more success using a different site. 2 threesomes in 3 days compared to months of nothing here.
It is true you make your own luck, but Fab skews the odds firmly against single guys.
I only stick around because I like
a handful of people on here. I'm unlikely to be invited to their budoir but they make me laugh.
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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago
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Unfortunately you are in a mixing pot of 10 Gazzilion Million Guys. And yes unfortunately for many couples and women (Nor all) you are too young and looked upon as inexperienced.
Just the way it is I’m afraid.
Good luck. X |
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OP you are just one more single man in a pool of thousands so you are bound to struggle somewhat. Add into this the fact you are into BDSM and you reduce the potential field even further. Many people have little or no interest in that scene. You may have more success finding a sub on a fetish lifestyle website.
Your age won't help you - I can't think of anyone I know who would be comfortable calling a 22 year old "daddy" no matter how much it gets you off! |
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"OP you are just one more single man in a pool of thousands so you are bound to struggle somewhat. Add into this the fact you are into BDSM and you reduce the potential field even further. Many people have little or no interest in that scene. You may have more success finding a sub on a fetish lifestyle website.
Your age won't help you - I can't think of anyone I know who would be comfortable calling a 22 year old "daddy" no matter how much it gets you off!"
Exactly this. For young guys it is more difficult. But I personally couldn't call a 22 year old daddy.
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"Try going to the club/clubs a few times no one said it would happen on the first night it takes time to get to know people."
I think this would be my advise too. Clubs attract a wide age range and you get chance to see people face to face. |
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"I’ve been on here for a little under a now and I’ve still not had any luck meeting someone, I have also been to a club as I thought that would help but still no luck. I know that it’s mostly down to my age but am I missing something else.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
Happy fabbing everyone "
Describing yourself as a ‘Daddy Dom’ at your age won’t work for you mate, as others have already said. I would recommend you use your age to best effect; there are many older ladies who actively seek out young guys. Wipe your profile clean, and re-write with the emphasis on you being a young single guy, looking for experience in the swinging lifestyle You can explore your ‘Dom’ side in your thirties, when you’re outside the ‘cougars and cubs’ arena.
Also; remove the ‘Dom’ from your username, use ‘lad’ or something more applicable to your age. All the best mate
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"OP you are just one more single man in a pool of thousands so you are bound to struggle somewhat. Add into this the fact you are into BDSM and you reduce the potential field even further. Many people have little or no interest in that scene. You may have more success finding a sub on a fetish lifestyle website.
Your age won't help you - I can't think of anyone I know who would be comfortable calling a 22 year old "daddy" no matter how much it gets you off!"
This! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gotta be kidding me ... a Dom at 22... and a paranormal investigator what the fu*k is that ? ghost shit ? ...erm........ sorry but ... hate me go on"
thats my response as I read.
OP- change username, its not 50shades.
lose that paranormal bit
a reason you cannot accom
a club might not be the best place to get verifies from..socials should be better |
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"Gotta be kidding me ... a Dom at 22... and a paranormal investigator what the fu*k is that ? ghost shit ? ...erm........ sorry but ... hate me go on"
People don't usually suddenly become dominant sexually at a certain age, its quite possible that he's dom now. He might not have the years of experience or have honed his skills but he's identified his niche.
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Op you're young thats possibly whats holding you back but its also the huge number of single men compared to women.
I'd say keep your profile as it is, it will attract people you're compatible with and thats the aim surely  |
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"Gotta be kidding me ... a Dom at 22... and a paranormal investigator what the fu*k is that ? ghost shit ? ...erm........ sorry but ... hate me go on
People don't usually suddenly become dominant sexually at a certain age, its quite possible that he's dom now. He might not have the years of experience or have honed his skills but he's identified his niche.
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its hardly a niche when he'll go sub though lol |
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"Gotta be kidding me ... a Dom at 22... and a paranormal investigator what the fu*k is that ? ghost shit ? ...erm........ sorry but ... hate me go on
People don't usually suddenly become dominant sexually at a certain age, its quite possible that he's dom now. He might not have the years of experience or have honed his skills but he's identified his niche.
its hardly a niche when he'll go sub though lol"
People switch but I take your point.
He's young, a bit of encouragement won't go amiss. |
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"I’ve been on here for a little under a now and I’ve still not had any luck meeting someone, I have also been to a club as I thought that would help but still no luck. I know that it’s mostly down to my age but am I missing something else.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
Happy fabbing everyone "
unfortunately your age is an issue to a lot of people. . My son is almost 20...I have no problem meeting younger blokes (over 25) but I'd never choose a younger Dom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry if this has been said already but to say you are into BDSM is fine (take a look at our profile says the same) but note I (Mr) amd the Dom in the relationship and shall we say considerable older than you
Now it took me years before i would use that term and more importantly once i did i owned it, you contradict yourself saying you dont mind being controlled once in a while.
This sounds like alpha dom bashing but it isnt meant to be. Suggestions, change your title to Top (still a positon of dominance but one that shows its a work in progress) also decide what you want from fabs.
If you want a D/s relationship, this isnt the site for you really (my partner and I met outside of here) may i suggest the other site with fet in its name.
Maybe try socials or the chat rooms, show your face not your cock and honestly put the work in, go to socials as well as clubs. This was what i did when i was single and i did ok.
Lastly and not by any means least, dobt be expecting a different meet every night of the week.
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for a little under a now and I’ve still not had any luck meeting someone, I have also been to a club as I thought that would help but still no luck. I know that it’s mostly down to my age but am I missing something else.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
Happy fabbing everyone "
More cock photos you need at least 6 to succeed here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your having no luck at 22 you should try being my age 70 you have to be patient there are at least 30men to one woman but some will want you"
139 men to every woman on average |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve been on here for a little under a now and I’ve still not had any luck meeting someone, I have also been to a club as I thought that would help but still no luck. I know that it’s mostly down to my age but am I missing something else.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
Happy fabbing everyone "
You maybe too young for some but in reality it might be the messages you send out some people struggle with sensible communication on here in reality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is fuck all you can do about it.
I was recently away and had far more success using a different site. 2 threesomes in 3 days compared to months of nothing here.
It is true you make your own luck, but Fab skews the odds firmly against single guys.
I only stick around because I like
a handful of people on here. I'm unlikely to be invited to their budoir but they make me laugh.
the downfall of being a single guy it’s like everyone hates us "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get the book 'Game' by Roosh. You'll understand why you aren't meeting anyone and what to do.
You're main focus needs to be real life, not behind the screen.
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