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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah but i dont understand whats wromg with it any advice"
Best advice anyone can give you is do a forum Search for "profile advice"
There's thousands of replies that will give you all the tools to make your own profile better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah but i dont understand whats wromg with it any advice"
you don't tell anyone what you're about, what you like, you have two pics both of cock and you're young, we know you're a teacher so no face pics
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"It should av ticked all the boxs of what im looking for "
It's not all about ticking the boxes of what you are looking for...it's whether or not it ticks the boxes of prospective Couples and Ladies |
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"Yeah but i dont understand whats wromg with it any adviceyou don't tell anyone what you're about, what you like, you have two pics both of cock and you're young, we know you're a teacher so no face pics "
Have a look at fixing the spelling and grammar in your profile wording too, some people find that off putting, especially if you work in a school.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah but i dont understand whats wromg with it any adviceyou don't tell anyone what you're about, what you like, you have two pics both of cock and you're young, we know you're a teacher so no face pics
Have a look at fixing the spelling and grammar in your profile wording too, some people find that off putting, especially if you work in a school.
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ooooo English teacher, not good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You barely have anything on your profile, both in terms of text and photos and you’re outnumbered vastly by other men on here, lots of them with great profiles...!
Upping your game can never hurt!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't tell people you keep coming back..it just makes you look like a sulky mard arse when you do not get your way..if you get fed up judt hide your profile and take a break |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you have to do on this site to even just get a conversation going!!"
Same as you do to get a conversation going anywhere else,make it interesting,make it worth the other persons interest to respond.
Hi
Hiya
How's you?
What you doing?
What you up to?
What you in to ?
And many more inane questions are very very rarely worth responding to. |
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"What do you have to do on this site to even just get a conversation going!!
Same as you do to get a conversation going anywhere else,make it interesting,make it worth the other persons interest to respond.
Hi
Hiya
How's you?
What you doing?
What you up to?
What you in to ?
And many more inane questions are very very rarely worth responding to."
To be fair they are not inane they are just very standard boring messages some people just struggle to be inventive but then that are probably as interesting as their messages so its a good first filter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you have to do on this site to even just get a conversation going!!
Same as you do to get a conversation going anywhere else,make it interesting,make it worth the other persons interest to respond.
Hi
Hiya
How's you?
What you doing?
What you up to?
What you in to ?
And many more inane questions are very very rarely worth responding to.
To be fair they are not inane they are just very standard boring messages some people just struggle to be inventive but then that are probably as interesting as their messages so its a good first filter. "
Inane just about sums it up |
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A lot of the very good things in life that you want are usually hard work to achieve.
The trick imo is to have a good life outside of fab with good friends etc and then not getting a fab meet isn't a big thing.
I used to constantly check my phone for message replies but now I've decided to take a "it is what it is" outlook.
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
Camberley/Middleton |
"What do you have to do on this site to even just get a conversation going!!"
If people don't want to chat then you haven't got their attention. If its due to looks then there is nothing you can do about that. However if its profile, messages sent and the art of conversation then that's down to you and improving them so think about upping your game. |
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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago
Filthy Desires Upon Trent |
We must admit. These Posts and Dull Profiles are tedious and instantly ends up in a delete if a message is sent.
You are in Competition with thousands of other guys.
Being on here is not an entitlement for a fuck.
Stand out. Put in the effort. That’s all you can do.
Good luck x |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"I just checked again and says straight guy but have a male verification.
What's your point?"
Straight people are allowed to talk to others of the same srx and get a verification.
OP.
You need varied photos.
You need to alter the bit that says you will meet people up to the age of 99
Add some interesting things about you...so people know why it would be a good idea to meet you, rather than the other 30 messages they had that day.
Check other successful guys profiles if you need inspiration.
Write decent messages to people not just that interest you, but are looking for guys in your age range and locality.
Simples  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you have to do on this site to even just get a conversation going!!"
This is a swinging site, not a 'I'm a single man come get me' site. You're a required addition to a scenario created by a couple. It's a matter of attending parties/clubs to network. It's a matter of being good and remembered so to get recommended. It's a mating game, so make yourself look appealing and not that useless excuse of a profile you have on display. The fact that people are responding to you shows that people are looking. There are lots of single ladies and men looking for hook-ups but your profile is easy to overlook due to this site being overrun with lots of same minded single men. |
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"Join a kik group and get removed for nothing that's even worse
Being nice and civil don't get you anywhere on here neither does being a single male
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Sorry but that’s rubbish. Plenty of guys do very well. I’m sorry it’s not working for you but we have to look at our own part in things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and being civil sending messages hell reading there profiles and putall there stupid heading and pics for what to have it deleted or to not get a reply obviously you being a woman is a lot easier yeah tits and fanny go along way when u lay back and open your legs lmfao
It is a lot harder for a male to get anywhere on this site something you'd personally wouldnt know bout lol |
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"Yes and being civil sending messages hell reading there profiles and putall there stupid heading and pics for what to have it deleted or to not get a reply obviously you being a woman is a lot easier yeah tits and fanny go along way when u lay back and open your legs lmfao
WOW..
It is a lot harder for a male to get anywhere on this site something you'd personally wouldnt know bout lol "
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"Yes and being civil sending messages hell reading there profiles and putall there stupid heading and pics for what to have it deleted or to not get a reply obviously you being a woman is a lot easier yeah tits and fanny go along way when u lay back and open your legs lmfao
It is a lot harder for a male to get anywhere on this site something you'd personally wouldnt know bout lol "
It'll be a lot harder with an attitude like that.
Every demographic on this site faces problems. Yours aren't the only ones. And if reading the information provided and respecting wishes is so difficult for you, that might be indicative of your overall level of effort. It's not a flattering picture. |
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"Join a kik group and get removed for nothing that's even worse
Being nice and civil don't get you anywhere on here neither does being a single male
Sorry but that’s rubbish. Plenty of guys do very well. I’m sorry it’s not working for you but we have to look at our own part in things. "
I can see where he’s coming from. It is bloody hard work on here.
The OP could do with revamping his profile but even when you have clear face pics and are verified it’s very difficult to get conversations going on here.
Many messages are not even read which gets a little frustrating when you’ve put the effort in to write a couple of decent paragraphs rather than a one liner.
Then when you do finally get meets they’re nothing like their pictures and want a boyfriend ... |
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"Yes and being civil sending messages hell reading there profiles and putall there stupid heading and pics for what to have it deleted or to not get a reply obviously you being a woman is a lot easier yeah tits and fanny go along way when u lay back and open your legs lmfao
It is a lot harder for a male to get anywhere on this site something you'd personally wouldnt know bout lol "
You’re sweet. I can’t see why you’re not rolling in tits and fanny. |
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No one said it would be easy to get anywhere on here. You just have to sell yourself to make you stand out a bit from the crowd. And be very lucky but unless you put in the hard work and perseverance your chance of getting any positive outcomes on here is slim. ...very slim. |
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"Sometimes OP its not the site.. but the user of said site.   are you saying you don't talk to anyone?
I have lots of imaginary freinds.. oh look a squirrel.. you're Dr Dolittle aren't you? "
Who said that?...
Ive been called worse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s really easy if you make it easy,if you do things the right way and treat people good you will go far. Not everyone is everyone’s cup of tea so it’s a case of just being yourself and just going with it  |
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