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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree but I don't understand it  "
Nothing to understand. They choose to use the site in their way, and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
Don’t worry or try to understand those that aren’t interested in you, focus in the ones who are! |
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"Agree but I don't understand it
Nothing to understand. They choose to use the site in their way, and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
Don’t worry or try to understand those that aren’t interested in you, focus in the ones who are! "
Don't think you understand the OP's post - the people concerned have forgotten to remove amend their filter when this happens - it happens a lot - usually because they are thick !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree but I don't understand it
Nothing to understand. They choose to use the site in their way, and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
Don’t worry or try to understand those that aren’t interested in you, focus in the ones who are!
Don't think you understand the OP's post - the people concerned have forgotten to remove amend their filter when this happens - it happens a lot - usually because they are thick ! "
Not really.
They could have the filter on to avoid being bombarded with messages from desperate single males and instead want to browse by themselves and send the messages, but keep the meet up in order to bring traffic to their profile.
Also, the meets they are posting, they may have deliberately not taken off the filter and instead want to scroll through their “looked at me” page and choose from there who they want to message.
It does make me laugh how angry some single males get when they’ve been blocked from messaging, all it does is validate why many do block them!  |
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"Agree but I don't understand it
Nothing to understand. They choose to use the site in their way, and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
Don’t worry or try to understand those that aren’t interested in you, focus in the ones who are!
Don't think you understand the OP's post - the people concerned have forgotten to remove amend their filter when this happens - it happens a lot - usually because they are thick !
Not really.
They could have the filter on to avoid being bombarded with messages from desperate single males and instead want to browse by themselves and send the messages, but keep the meet up in order to bring traffic to their profile.
Also, the meets they are posting, they may have deliberately not taken off the filter and instead want to scroll through their “looked at me” page and choose from there who they want to message.
It does make me laugh how angry some single males get when they’ve been blocked from messaging, all it does is validate why many do block them! "
I was composing my reply...
It was pretty much what you put.
I've put meets up befure when going to events, and been swamped with messages.
Can say at least 95% did not meet my criteria.
Easier to block, check 'who's viewed' and contact the ones you feel compatible with.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree but I don't understand it
Nothing to understand. They choose to use the site in their way, and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
Don’t worry or try to understand those that aren’t interested in you, focus in the ones who are!
Don't think you understand the OP's post - the people concerned have forgotten to remove amend their filter when this happens - it happens a lot - usually because they are thick !
Not really.
They could have the filter on to avoid being bombarded with messages from desperate single males and instead want to browse by themselves and send the messages, but keep the meet up in order to bring traffic to their profile.
Also, the meets they are posting, they may have deliberately not taken off the filter and instead want to scroll through their “looked at me” page and choose from there who they want to message.
It does make me laugh how angry some single males get when they’ve been blocked from messaging, all it does is validate why many do block them!
I was composing my reply...
It was pretty much what you put.
I've put meets up befure when going to events, and been swamped with messages.
Can say at least 95% did not meet my criteria.
Easier to block, check 'who's viewed' and contact the ones you feel compatible with.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree but I don't understand it
Nothing to understand. They choose to use the site in their way, and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
Don’t worry or try to understand those that aren’t interested in you, focus in the ones who are!
Don't think you understand the OP's post - the people concerned have forgotten to remove amend their filter when this happens - it happens a lot - usually because they are thick ! "
They might just want men on their friends list. They won't be blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry but your wrong, it's not a point of "not being interested", by having single males as an option at a meet they clearly are interested but you can't contact them when they have no single males option on profile, do you see what I'm saying now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry but your wrong, it's not a point of "not being interested", by having single males as an option at a meet they clearly are interested but you can't contact them when they have no single males option on profile, do you see what I'm saying now?"
We all see what you’re saying but you don’t seem to be getting us...
There are many people on here who block single males but are open to meeting them, they block them because they do not want to be bombarded with 100 messages from single males as soon as their profile is visible, or the abuse, or the constant “Why not” messages after saying “no thanks”.
By blocking single males they can successfully and quietly look for their potential meets themselves without being hassled by the “Fancy a fuck” brigade. It’s really not hard to understand and there are many on here who do this and are very successful in doing so.
I don’t block single males but I do hide my profile regularly when my inbox gets too much. I don’t see why you have such a problem with people using this site in the way that works for them.
If they wanted you to contact them, they wouldn’t put the block all single males filter on. By adding that filter they will contact you if they are interested. It’s really simple. |
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"Sorry but your wrong, it's not a point of "not being interested", by having single males as an option at a meet they clearly are interested but you can't contact them when they have no single males option on profile, do you see what I'm saying now?"
I'm mostly interested in single males. I've blocked single males and am not changing this. Why? Because, as others have said, it's a lot of work going through endless messages from guys taking their chances. It's a lot harder getting a meet these days, but it's nice not to have to trawl through endless nonsense when I log on. It was exhausting and demoralising getting as much mail as I did (in the region of 50-300 messages a day, 90% or more of which didn't suit me at all).
I don't know how I'd handle it with a meet up on Fab, but I doubt I'll ever remove the filter. |
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"Sorry but your wrong, it's not a point of "not being interested", by having single males as an option at a meet they clearly are interested but you can't contact them when they have no single males option on profile, do you see what I'm saying now?
I'm mostly interested in single males. I've blocked single males and am not changing this. Why? Because, as others have said, it's a lot of work going through endless messages from guys taking their chances. It's a lot harder getting a meet these days, but it's nice not to have to trawl through endless nonsense when I log on. It was exhausting and demoralising getting as much mail as I did (in the region of 50-300 messages a day, 90% or more of which didn't suit me at all).
I don't know how I'd handle it with a meet up on Fab, but I doubt I'll ever remove the filter. "
Now I know once tried messaging you but found I was blocked |
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"Agree but I don't understand it
Nothing to understand. They choose to use the site in their way, and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
Don’t worry or try to understand those that aren’t interested in you, focus in the ones who are!
Don't think you understand the OP's post - the people concerned have forgotten to remove amend their filter when this happens - it happens a lot - usually because they are thick ! "
Or they have done it purposely then the only guys who can contact them are those they have already spoken with and who could blame them? |
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"Why do people post meets that show as single men can attend but have single men blocked on their profiles? It's bloody annoying!! "
I asume because they're a bit silly. I wouldn't let it upset you too much. If they blocked single your clearly not for them anyway. Life's to sort to get frustrated about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree but I don't understand it
Nothing to understand. They choose to use the site in their way, and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
Don’t worry or try to understand those that aren’t interested in you, focus in the ones who are!
Don't think you understand the OP's post - the people concerned have forgotten to remove amend their filter when this happens - it happens a lot - usually because they are thick !
Or they have done it purposely then the only guys who can contact them are those they have already spoken with and who could blame them?"
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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Don't really get why you are so annoyed OP. Move on to those who are looking for single guys. People are perfectly entitled to use the site to suit themselves. We aren't all here solely for your convenience.  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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OP, I understand totally. There is no need to pm me to tell me this. People block single guys because they don't want to receive ridiculous messages. I don't think you understand the reasons people are giving you on your thread. |
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I’m afraid Op you’ll just have accept it as getting steamed up won’t get you anywhere and let’s face nobody’s died
This site is like trying to negotiate a one way system in a wonderful Italian city frustrating but persevere and the rewards are there for the taking |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, I understand totally. There is no need to pm me to tell me this. People block single guys because they don't want to receive ridiculous messages. I don't think you understand the reasons people are giving you on your thread. "
You seem to have a one sided tunnel vision opinion, not all single men are the same and remember This, without the extortionate fees that we pay to enter clubs about 50% if not more of clubs would not exist
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"OP, I understand totally. There is no need to pm me to tell me this. People block single guys because they don't want to receive ridiculous messages. I don't think you understand the reasons people are giving you on your thread. You seem to have a one sided tunnel vision opinion, not all single men are the same and remember This, without the extortionate fees that we pay to enter clubs about 50% if not more of clubs would not exist"
And there it is.....club prices for men!! I was waiting for u to put that up! Dont go its as simple as that
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"Why do people post meets that show as single men can attend but have single men blocked on their profiles? It's bloody annoying!! "
Listen.
You are the shit on the shoe.
Get used to it.
Get over it.
Enjoy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have the opinion if they don't want to receive a message from someone as awesome as me it's totally there loss. Got to remember a lot and I mean a lot of dickheads on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Agree but I don't understand it
They want to meet certain single men,not all single men.
Hope that explains it."
so how do they do that if they are not sure supporters and hence unable to see who has viewed? |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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" so how do they do that if they are not sure supporters and hence unable to see who has viewed?"
They select from all men, not just those who have viewed.
You don't only browse from your viewed page, do you? Neither does anyone else. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"OP, I understand totally. There is no need to pm me to tell me this. People block single guys because they don't want to receive ridiculous messages. I don't think you understand the reasons people are giving you on your thread. You seem to have a one sided tunnel vision opinion, not all single men are the same and remember This, without the extortionate fees that we pay to enter clubs about 50% if not more of clubs would not exist"
I really don't think I'm the one with tunnel vision. You are completely ignoring the very valid reasons people are giving you for blocking all single men. You are currently proving a lot of them right to do so with your entitled attitude. Threads like this are great filters I'm sure some of the block buttons are in use! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree but I don't understand it
Nothing to understand. They choose to use the site in their way, and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
Don’t worry or try to understand those that aren’t interested in you, focus in the ones who are! "
they were interested it seems according to the opening statement in single guys hence the thread and the quite reasonable question asked by the op |
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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago
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"OP, I understand totally. There is no need to pm me to tell me this. People block single guys because they don't want to receive ridiculous messages. I don't think you understand the reasons people are giving you on your thread. You seem to have a one sided tunnel vision opinion, not all single men are the same and remember This, without the extortionate fees that we pay to enter clubs about 50% if not more of clubs would not exist
I really don't think I'm the one with tunnel vision. You are completely ignoring the very valid reasons people are giving you for blocking all single men. You are currently proving a lot of them right to do so with your entitled attitude. Threads like this are great filters I'm sure some of the block buttons are in use! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree but I don't understand it
Nothing to understand. They choose to use the site in their way, and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
Don’t worry or try to understand those that aren’t interested in you, focus in the ones who are! they were interested it seems according to the opening statement in single guys hence the thread and the quite reasonable question asked by the op "
But they clearly weren’t interested in him, if they were they’d have messaged him right? And they didn’t...
He is asking a question only those people who do as he says can answer, he can’t message them since they blocked all singles males from contacting, and probably for good reason.
It’s not really a reasonable question when you completely ignore the good explanations given by several different people.
It only furthermore validates exactly why so many women and couples on here choose to either block all singles males to cut down on hassle, or regularly hide their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, I understand totally. There is no need to pm me to tell me this. People block single guys because they don't want to receive ridiculous messages. I don't think you understand the reasons people are giving you on your thread. You seem to have a one sided tunnel vision opinion, not all single men are the same and remember This, without the extortionate fees that we pay to enter clubs about 50% if not more of clubs would not exist
I really don't think I'm the one with tunnel vision. You are completely ignoring the very valid reasons people are giving you for blocking all single men. You are currently proving a lot of them right to do so with your entitled attitude. Threads like this are great filters I'm sure some of the block buttons are in use! "
Just read this, perfect response, there was no need for mine now!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree but I don't understand it
Nothing to understand. They choose to use the site in their way, and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
Don’t worry or try to understand those that aren’t interested in you, focus in the ones who are! they were interested it seems according to the opening statement in single guys hence the thread and the quite reasonable question asked by the op
But they clearly weren’t interested in him, if they were they’d have messaged him right? And they didn’t...
He is asking a question only those people who do as he says can answer, he can’t message them since they blocked all singles males from contacting, and probably for good reason.
It’s not really a reasonable question when you completely ignore the good explanations given by several different people.
It only furthermore validates exactly why so many women and couples on here choose to either block all singles males to cut down on hassle, or regularly hide their profile."
the Op said why do people post meets that include the attendance of single guys but have single guys blocked, now if you're new to site or have never come across this scenario a perfectly sensible question I think, I appreciate that their can be good explanations as to why but the question was perfectly reasonable |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree but I don't understand it
Nothing to understand. They choose to use the site in their way, and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
Don’t worry or try to understand those that aren’t interested in you, focus in the ones who are! they were interested it seems according to the opening statement in single guys hence the thread and the quite reasonable question asked by the op
But they clearly weren’t interested in him, if they were they’d have messaged him right? And they didn’t...
He is asking a question only those people who do as he says can answer, he can’t message them since they blocked all singles males from contacting, and probably for good reason.
It’s not really a reasonable question when you completely ignore the good explanations given by several different people.
It only furthermore validates exactly why so many women and couples on here choose to either block all singles males to cut down on hassle, or regularly hide their profile.the Op said why do people post meets that include the attendance of single guys but have single guys blocked, now if you're new to site or have never come across this scenario a perfectly sensible question I think, I appreciate that their can be good explanations as to why but the question was perfectly reasonable "
Looking at his profile he’s been here 7 months, I discovered this site in July and already knew the reasons why couples and women block single males...
But maybe he’s decided now is the time to ask... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm mostly interested in single males. I've blocked single males and am not changing this. Why? Because, as others have said, it's a lot of work going through endless messages from guys taking their chances. It's a lot harder getting a meet these days, but it's nice not to have to trawl through endless nonsense when I log on. It was exhausting and demoralising getting as much mail as I did (in the region of 50-300 messages a day, 90% or more of which didn't suit me at all).
I don't know how I'd handle it with a meet up on Fab, but I doubt I'll ever remove the filter. "
50- 300 would be hard work agreed, but I'm lucky to get 1 a week and that's usually a man that hasn't read my straight profile lol. I think that's maybe why some of the men are desperate, looking at the verifications, there seem to be a select few being successful and the rest of us make up the swamp of single males. Maybe limit the number of us, males can't outnumber the couples and female members. That's not meant to criticise or offend any that do get swamped, it must be impossible to trawl through, but what I don't get is why I get winked, friended then no reply when I mail them. Maybe if it cost more to be on here then it would get rid of a lot of the idiots? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree but I don't understand it
They want to meet certain single men,not all single men.
Hope that explains it. so how do they do that if they are not sure supporters and hence unable to see who has viewed?"
You don't need to be a site support to search who is on the site.the search facility is there for all users. |
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"Why do people post meets that show as single men can attend but have single men blocked on their profiles? It's bloody annoying!! "
Here's a handy tip I always reminded myself of when I was single needing to play.
It's not about me, it's about other people's needs. You have have to fit into other peoples needs.
On a deeper level, gratitude is the key to happiness and happiness is a choice.
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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago
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The filter is in place to allow single guys who are already in the friends list or have interacted by mail previously to contact them, without the swarm of messages from mostly unsuitable applicants.
New guys can be contacted and invited to join.
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"The filter is in place to allow single guys who are already in the friends list or have interacted by mail previously to contact them, without the swarm of messages from mostly unsuitable applicants.
New guys can be contacted and invited to join.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The filter is in place to allow single guys who are already in the friends list or have interacted by mail previously to contact them, without the swarm of messages from mostly unsuitable applicants.
New guys can be contacted and invited to join.
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but is that explained in the meet request? If you know the answer to a question It's always easy to get it right, if you don't, you ask |
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"How can you ask when your blocked from messaging them? Come on, keep up! "
Answer is, we don't want the question. Which is self evident. I'm available, I'm stating myself as such, but I'll find you. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Agree but I don't understand it
Nothing to understand. They choose to use the site in their way, and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
Don’t worry or try to understand those that aren’t interested in you, focus in the ones who are!
Don't think you understand the OP's post - the people concerned have forgotten to remove amend their filter when this happens - it happens a lot - usually because they are thick !
Or they have done it purposely then the only guys who can contact them are those they have already spoken with and who could blame them?"
This is the answer either men on friends list or if you Fab the meet or pics you might get lucky. |
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The problem with us men is we are easy to be blunt lol and couples and fems have endless emails from men trying to meet up! Is easier to block and choose at v their liking as opposed to filtering through endless emails.
Totally unrelated to swinging but the same reason that Take Me Out with paddy mguiness only works with women chosing to keep their light on ! As if was the other way round no man would ever turn their light off haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No matter the subject you raise on here you'll always get someone arguing back ...if it was a bright sunny day with no clouds in the sky and you commented that is was sky blue someone would argue and say otherwise. ..you're fighting a losing battle I'm afraid |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No matter the subject you raise on here you'll always get someone arguing back ...if it was a bright sunny day with no clouds in the sky and you commented that is was sky blue someone would argue and say otherwise. ..you're fighting a losing battle I'm afraid "
not true if it's an attractive woman I agree always
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"No matter the subject you raise on here you'll always get someone arguing back ...if it was a bright sunny day with no clouds in the sky and you commented that is was sky blue someone would argue and say otherwise. ..you're fighting a losing battle I'm afraid not true if it's an attractive woman I agree always "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No matter the subject you raise on here you'll always get someone arguing back ...if it was a bright sunny day with no clouds in the sky and you commented that is was sky blue someone would argue and say otherwise. ..you're fighting a losing battle I'm afraid not true if it's an attractive woman I agree always "
I nearly put that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No matter the subject you raise on here you'll always get someone arguing back ...if it was a bright sunny day with no clouds in the sky and you commented that is was sky blue someone would argue and say otherwise. ..you're fighting a losing battle I'm afraid not true if it's an attractive woman I agree always Don't be a doormat "
Who me? ...I'm the opposite If there is a comment made I'll not agree with them just because their attractive but most guys on here do |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"No matter the subject you raise on here you'll always get someone arguing back ...if it was a bright sunny day with no clouds in the sky and you commented that is was sky blue someone would argue and say otherwise. ..you're fighting a losing battle I'm afraid not true if it's an attractive woman I agree always Don't be a doormat
Who me? ...I'm the opposite If there is a comment made I'll not agree with them just because their attractive but most guys on here do "
no the guy who I replied and quoted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No matter the subject you raise on here you'll always get someone arguing back ...if it was a bright sunny day with no clouds in the sky and you commented that is was sky blue someone would argue and say otherwise. ..you're fighting a losing battle I'm afraid not true if it's an attractive woman I agree always Don't be a doormat
Who me? ...I'm the opposite If there is a comment made I'll not agree with them just because their attractive but most guys on here do no the guy who I replied and quoted."
I know I just realised sorry about that |
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"No matter the subject you raise on here you'll always get someone arguing back ...if it was a bright sunny day with no clouds in the sky and you commented that is was sky blue someone would argue and say otherwise. ..you're fighting a losing battle I'm afraid not true if it's an attractive woman I agree always
I nearly put that lol"
you snooze you lose |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"No matter the subject you raise on here you'll always get someone arguing back ...if it was a bright sunny day with no clouds in the sky and you commented that is was sky blue someone would argue and say otherwise. ..you're fighting a losing battle I'm afraid not true if it's an attractive woman I agree always
I nearly put that lolyou snooze you lose "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No matter the subject you raise on here you'll always get someone arguing back ...if it was a bright sunny day with no clouds in the sky and you commented that is was sky blue someone would argue and say otherwise. ..you're fighting a losing battle I'm afraid not true if it's an attractive woman I agree always Don't be a doormat "
Women with breasts are sexy what's not to agree with |
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"No matter the subject you raise on here you'll always get someone arguing back ...if it was a bright sunny day with no clouds in the sky and you commented that is was sky blue someone would argue and say otherwise. ..you're fighting a losing battle I'm afraid not true if it's an attractive woman I agree always
I nearly put that lolyou snooze you lose Women like a man who puts them in their place from time to time."
I lift them onto their pedestals, does that count |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"No matter the subject you raise on here you'll always get someone arguing back ...if it was a bright sunny day with no clouds in the sky and you commented that is was sky blue someone would argue and say otherwise. ..you're fighting a losing battle I'm afraid not true if it's an attractive woman I agree always
I nearly put that lolyou snooze you lose Women like a man who puts them in their place from time to time.I lift them onto their pedestals, does that count "
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"How can you ask when your blocked from messaging them? Come on, keep up! "
I am sure people have already answered you already, but I will give you a real life example.
I am really busy getting ready to move house. I have limited time and can't read through all the messages I usually get. I have my filters set to block all men and women and couples and Tv in fact everyone. If I decide I want a meet this weekend. I can post a meet. All the people I have spoken to in the last 8 years can contact me.
So I can enjoy a meet with someone I have met or have some knowledge of without being deluged with excessive amounts of mail.
Do you get it now?
Don't stress over people you cannot message. Make the best use of your time and contact the ones that you can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can you ask when your blocked from messaging them? Come on, keep up!
I am sure people have already answered you already, but I will give you a real life example.
I am really busy getting ready to move house. I have limited time and can't read through all the messages I usually get. I have my filters set to block all men and women and couples and Tv in fact everyone. If I decide I want a meet this weekend. I can post a meet. All the people I have spoken to in the last 8 years can contact me.
So I can enjoy a meet with someone I have met or have some knowledge of without being deluged with excessive amounts of mail.
Do you get it now?
Don't stress over people you cannot message. Make the best use of your time and contact the ones that you can. "
I get it it's the Op that didn’t, he does now because he asked the question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Threads like this are great filters I'm sure some of the block buttons are in use! "
The high and mighty sensibilities from the usual (subtle) men bashing crew
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"No matter the subject you raise on here you'll always get someone arguing back ...if it was a bright sunny day with no clouds in the sky and you commented that is was sky blue someone would argue and say otherwise. ..you're fighting a losing battle I'm afraid not true if it's an attractive woman I agree always
I nearly put that lolyou snooze you lose Women like a man who puts them in their place from time to time."
Not correcting you but rephrasing, women and men who have submissive hearts may like to be dominated from time to time and of course on a 24/7 basis as well. |
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"How can you ask when your blocked from messaging them? Come on, keep up!
I am sure people have already answered you already, but I will give you a real life example.
I am really busy getting ready to move house. I have limited time and can't read through all the messages I usually get. I have my filters set to block all men and women and couples and Tv in fact everyone. If I decide I want a meet this weekend. I can post a meet. All the people I have spoken to in the last 8 years can contact me.
So I can enjoy a meet with someone I have met or have some knowledge of without being deluged with excessive amounts of mail.
Do you get it now?
Don't stress over people you cannot message. Make the best use of your time and contact the ones that you can. "
And although you have blocked me because of my gender and cannot contact you directly, I would like to say, a beautifully put analogy and demonstration of power/control |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can you ask when your blocked from messaging them? Come on, keep up!
I am sure people have already answered you already, but I will give you a real life example.
I am really busy getting ready to move house. I have limited time and can't read through all the messages I usually get. I have my filters set to block all men and women and couples and Tv in fact everyone. If I decide I want a meet this weekend. I can post a meet. All the people I have spoken to in the last 8 years can contact me.
So I can enjoy a meet with someone I have met or have some knowledge of without being deluged with excessive amounts of mail.
Do you get it now?
Don't stress over people you cannot message. Make the best use of your time and contact the ones that you can.
And although you have blocked me because of my gender and cannot contact you directly, I would like to say, a beautifully put analogy and demonstration of power/control "
your gender? You show as a couple are you just a guy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can you ask when your blocked from messaging them? Come on, keep up!
I am sure people have already answered you already, but I will give you a real life example.
I am really busy getting ready to move house. I have limited time and can't read through all the messages I usually get. I have my filters set to block all men and women and couples and Tv in fact everyone. If I decide I want a meet this weekend. I can post a meet. All the people I have spoken to in the last 8 years can contact me.
So I can enjoy a meet with someone I have met or have some knowledge of without being deluged with excessive amounts of mail.
Do you get it now?
Don't stress over people you cannot message. Make the best use of your time and contact the ones that you can.
And although you have blocked me because of my gender and cannot contact you directly, I would like to say, a beautifully put analogy and demonstration of power/control "
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"How can you ask when your blocked from messaging them? Come on, keep up!
I am sure people have already answered you already, but I will give you a real life example.
I am really busy getting ready to move house. I have limited time and can't read through all the messages I usually get. I have my filters set to block all men and women and couples and Tv in fact everyone. If I decide I want a meet this weekend. I can post a meet. All the people I have spoken to in the last 8 years can contact me.
So I can enjoy a meet with someone I have met or have some knowledge of without being deluged with excessive amounts of mail.
Do you get it now?
Don't stress over people you cannot message. Make the best use of your time and contact the ones that you can.
And although you have blocked me because of my gender and cannot contact you directly, I would like to say, a beautifully put analogy and demonstration of power/control your gender? You show as a couple are you just a guy?"
We are a couple and I should have signed off as the male, apologies.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can you ask when your blocked from messaging them? Come on, keep up!
I am sure people have already answered you already, but I will give you a real life example.
I am really busy getting ready to move house. I have limited time and can't read through all the messages I usually get. I have my filters set to block all men and women and couples and Tv in fact everyone. If I decide I want a meet this weekend. I can post a meet. All the people I have spoken to in the last 8 years can contact me.
So I can enjoy a meet with someone I have met or have some knowledge of without being deluged with excessive amounts of mail.
Do you get it now?
Don't stress over people you cannot message. Make the best use of your time and contact the ones that you can.
And although you have blocked me because of my gender and cannot contact you directly, I would like to say, a beautifully put analogy and demonstration of power/control your gender? You show as a couple are you just a guy?
We are a couple and I should have signed off as the male, apologies.
Adam"
Well the block you were on about can't be gender based you're a coupled that's what highlighted you were a male Adam |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can you ask when your blocked from messaging them? Come on, keep up!
I am sure people have already answered you already, but I will give you a real life example.
I am really busy getting ready to move house. I have limited time and can't read through all the messages I usually get. I have my filters set to block all men and women and couples and Tv in fact everyone. If I decide I want a meet this weekend. I can post a meet. All the people I have spoken to in the last 8 years can contact me.
So I can enjoy a meet with someone I have met or have some knowledge of without being deluged with excessive amounts of mail.
Do you get it now?
Don't stress over people you cannot message. Make the best use of your time and contact the ones that you can.
And although you have blocked me because of my gender and cannot contact you directly, I would like to say, a beautifully put analogy and demonstration of power/control your gender? You show as a couple are you just a guy?
We are a couple and I should have signed off as the male, apologies.
AdamWell the block you were on about can't be gender based you're a coupled that's what highlighted you were a male Adam "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't thinks it's a problem, if your polite and respect others interests and needs, surely that sends about a better picture of single guys. Plus there is a button on the advance search to have it so anyone blocking single guys won't show up for you. |
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